To be a mother or father it seems that there is no requirement, but after seeing so many news about neglectful fathers and mothers ... There are many experts who are increasingly sure that there should be some kind of "proof" before parents can decide whether to be parents or not.
In addition to the financial aspects, stability in the couple, professional stability ... there is also a very important factor that both parents should value: emotional stability. Children need to grow up in homes where parents are emotionally stable in order to transmit not only good values in life, but also, guaranteeing good emotional intelligence from the first day of life.
Some women when they are mothers experience stress, depression, anxiety, physical changes, hair loss ... being a mother is not easy and you have to be prepared to face everything with integrity. A child needs a mother who can balance her own needs with theirs, especially if that mother lives with emotional instability. However, mothers often feel that they put their child above their own needs, which should not be the case
Here are some ways to work on yourself before you have a child and after your baby is born:
- Seek professional support whenever you need it
- Do not keep your feelings
- Find time for yourself and your emotional needs
- Talk to your family regularly
To be a mother, you must bear in mind that you have a past behind your back that may be conditioning your motherhood. If you feel poison when you think about it, you'd better talk it over with a professional before having children. So the next time you want to have children, you better ask yourself: Do I have a good stability to be able to be?