When you grieve a divorce, you will experience a life-changing transformation forever. You will find, as you recover from the trance, that you can help other people make the transition from divorce they can do it successfully without having to end up being a trauma.
It does not consist in "surviving" a divorce, but in learning from it and that, if you have children, they will see in you a total transformation for life ... Without grudges, simply personal growth where a stage of life is closed to give step to another just as important or more than the previous one ... although always renewed.
We all need to realize that even though "things" happen, we can still decide how to react to those things. In addition, we can also be a positive role model for the people we care about. We have been through one of the most challenging situations in life ... a divorce. Y We hope we have learned lessons that we could not have learned otherwise.
After a mid-life divorce, when at first all we could see was devastation, we now realize that we have a chance to rediscover our best and most beautiful selves. Most of us have spent years being what we needed to be to those around us. Now we have the opportunity to revisit what we really want our life to be in the future.
Let's ask ourselves:
- What are my gifts? What am I good at? What do I like to do?
- What are my goals? I have helped my wasband with its goals. I have helped my children with theirs. What goals do I have for my life now?
- What are my dreams? What are the things I can do that I used to dream of? How can I shine my light in a new way as a single woman?
The steps and stages of recovery from divorce are as varied as the women on this journey. Each of us has to figure out how to get to the life we deserve after divorce. Getting help is a big step in the right direction. Trying to do it on your own makes recovery take longer and more difficult.