Parents we have a series of obligations such as power and care for our children. There is no test more effective than love itself to do everything with total altruism and there are many of us parents who know very well what our obligations are like.
But within these obligations there are a number of criteria that are not yet established and serve as the main task for a good education and upbringing. If you do not know what they can be, here we comment on the most important ones to be able to achieve all the best for them.
Demonstrating unconditional love is the foundation of everything
Parents should offer that unconditional love and it has to be received and fair. A child who feels loved and respected feels that any regulation that is governed at home is for his or her good. Children should grow up lovingly, respectfully, and happy to be loved.
The Spanish Civil Code includes Title VII - “On parent-child relations” where the obligations of a father with his child are clearly explained:
Non-emancipated children are under the authority of the parents. Parental authority will always be exercised for the benefit of the children, in accordance with their personality, and with respect for their physical and psychological integrity.
This power includes the following duties and powers:
1. Watch over them, keep them in your company, feed them, educate them and provide them with comprehensive training.
2. Represent them and manage their assets.
If children have sufficient judgment, they should always be heard before making decisions that affect them.
Parents may, in the exercise of their authority, seek the assistance of the authority.
Similarly children must obey while they are under the authority of their parents and also maintain respect.
Provide a safe home
Children should grow up under a safe home and healthy. The children must be in the company of their parents and for this they must have the same address. You can not miss the presence and something as important as the emotional and intellectual company, something they will be grateful for for the rest of their lives.
The quality of your environment It must be the most comfortable to be able to develop without any type of obstacle and to be able to have a correct diet. To this must be added to respect the concerns of your child, their privacy and their time.
Take care of them and protect them
It is another of the great responsibilities. The children they will have to supply many mountains to learn what life has to offer and parents will be there to help them. It's not about overprotection, but it does prepare them for any danger and that they know how to face the great challenges.
Strengthen self-esteem and give the best values
From the moment they begin to be aware they can analyze everything around them and how to act on it. They have to value the basics of life now love themselves. With this challenge and many more, their self-esteem can be strengthened, it will be the best gift for their whole life. In addition to all this, you can reinforce with the best values, provided they grow from the noble interior of each person.
Be mindful with discipline
At this point we share the coexistence and for this we have to supply with a series of rules. Here you have to carry a discipline and if not it is fulfilled anger and punishments will come. Faced with all these challenges here, parents can act like villains, but you have to govern the rules so that children know how to face them and control themselves.
In order to have a respectful upbringing you have to be a good parenting role model, there is nothing better than setting the best example for a child raised in our likeness. Our safety is also one of the keys to one of our responsibilities, always showing our help and protection.