Many parents cannot reconcile when their children come to face an attitude of self-control towards their parents. From the age of six is when some children when begin to maintain an inconsiderate attitudeThey are liars, impulsive and have a talent for being vindictive. Faced with this phenomenon we must know what to do with tyrant children.
There is no better way than to educate with all our love, without forgetting our constancy and authority. If we allow that before the indications of tyranny they offer themselves when they are small, as the age advances it's much harder to control. A boy or girl at 15 years of age is already much more difficult to manage due to their rebelliousness and their complex nature to handle.
What is a tyrant child?
Children end up imposing their authority and dominating their behavior in front of their parents. They manage to get away with a little manipulation and that in the long run can create serious behavior. The way they manage to create parental dominance is called 'emperor syndrome'.
The discussions are continuous, there are screams and a lot of anger. They are capable of harming their parents so much physically and psychologically and they are not tolerant of their behavior. They are manipulative and quite stubborn, They are empathetic with the feelings of the people around them, and therefore not very malleable.
Over time, these children become much more aggressive as narcissistic boys are created, they see life in an egocentric way and not only with the family, but with their relationships. They come to develop a low tolerance for frustrationIf something does not go well or they do not meet a goal, they get angry and become violent.
They can become teenagers who mismanage their emotional state, not knowing how to express himself. They will not condescend to the rules that are implanted in them and they will always handle themselves with low self-esteem.
How can we treat tyrant children?
It is important to analyze the education plan that is being taught, if something needs to be modified in this regard, they should both parents agree to implement the same educational model. You do not have to look for the guilty and you just have to start create a great routine, where the child must obey without doubt. At the time that change is made and rules are implemented, they must be complied with as much as possible, without bowing or retracting.
Surely there are many discussions where the child does not want to abide by some rule. It is important keep calm and do not catch up. If the child yells or insults, ignore and don't return the same expressions. Threats are not good either, as they transmit insecurity to the child and create much more denial in the long run.
You have to let the child calm down and the tantrum ends. Without leaving the subject aside, you have to approach with love and have him analyze the situation. It is not necessary to create a great argument because they are not used to words, but yes remind you of the rules that have been imposed and that you must respect them.
Through a calm dialogue You can help your children a lot, it is much better than arguing and negotiating. Must let me analyze the situation, it is a good idea to have him reflect on what consequences and what kind of repercussions his behavior may lead to.
Nor should it be left isolated, letting their problems be solved by the child himself, they must notice our full support. The continuous punishments, the great anger and being angry all the time makes the child still feel much more pressured.
We must calm this situation over time and with a lot of patience. To sum up, if a child already begins to show signs of tyrant behavior, the best advice is put limits since they are small, and a lot, a lot of routine.