Although it may seem overly protective, in addition to having a healthy dating conversation with your teenage daughter, it never hurts to meet your partner and talk to him / her. This way you will make sure you know what it is like and to be able to intuit the intentions he has with your daughter. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will have no problem meeting you.
Parents should meet daughters date. It doesn't matter how embarrassing it is for your daughter but it needs to be done. It may seem old-fashioned, but you don't want your teenage daughter to run into a total stranger. There are too many horror stories out there, unfortunately.
When the date gets home, turn off your phone, turn off the television, and give that teen the attention he deserves: shake the groom's hand, introduce yourself, ask him if he wants some water, and hopefully he'll give you the attention you deserve. back. You also want him to know that you care a great deal about your daughter, and you will keep an "eye" on him while showing him that you are curious about her life, goals, and interests. It's a give and take.
Have clear expectations towards the boyfriend
Discuss curfew with your daughter, insisting that it is important to you and that you should know where it will be in case of emergency. Also ask if you will be meeting anyone other than your date, and let them know if you ever feel uncomfortable during the date with your boyfriend or anyone else.All you have to do is text or call.
The more you respect your daughter's boundaries, the more she can (hopefully) trust you and feel comfortable sharing this information. (However, make sure to continually stick to their limits as well.) Of course you need to ask about your date or partner whenever you need to.
Your daughter does not have to feel this as an intrusion into her personal life, but rather as your way of worrying about her and at the same time showing your confidence.