Love is a feeling that is taken for granted that you feel and that others feel towards you. Actually, love feels deepIt can be a contradictory emotion since just as it makes you feel the most immense happiness, it also has the ability to make you cry or feel the deepest sadness.
Imagine that you walk into your child's room and discover that he has just painted the entire wall with paint, markers ... he has made a nice piece of art, but he has done it on the wall ... What are you doing? Many parents can get very angry and angry, they can even end up yelling or shaking their children. ANDThis is a big mistake because it is aggressive. It is being aggressive with the children and aggressiveness, it only teaches this.
Parents need to understand that playing and testing their power is part of children's growth. You don't need to hide your disappointment, but it is important that you tell your child that there is nothing stopping him from loving him, not even that. But that behavior is not correct and you will have to clean up all that mess so that everything is as it should be.
Parents who lash out at their children for making a disaster will not necessarily dissuade their child from doing it again. If you make them angry enough, they will do it again and probably even worse. Some children will respond to their attack with depression, self-harm, addiction, and low self-esteem in the short or long term.
It is essential that even if you get angry, you use positive emotions to deal with problems or conflicts that may arise. Take into account positive discipline and how love is necessary so that your children can grow up feeling loved and loved at all times. Love is the best teaching tool for children!