Kirsimeti babu shakka yana da ma'ana tare da farin ciki, farin ciki da kasancewar iyali. Wani abu wanda yayin da lokaci ke wucewa, ba komai bane face tunatarwa cewa wasu daga cikin mahimman mutane a rayuwa sun ɓace. Zauna a kan tebur a lokacin Kirsimeti, yin biki tare da ƙaunatattunmu, abin tuni ne na dole waɗanda ba su ba. Kowace shekara, a kowane tebur, mutane da yawa suna ɓacewa don farin ciki ya zama cikakke.
Amma a cikin wannan shekara daban, mai rikitarwa da raɗaɗi ga duk abin da annobar cutar ta duniya ta hanyar Covid-19 ke ɗauka, rashi kasancewa zai zama mafi mahimmanci. Dubunnan mutane da dama sun rasa rayukansu a cikin wadannan watannin, wasu miliyoyin mutane sun rasa aikinsu, rayuwarsu kamar yadda suka sani. Amma abin da dukkanmu, ta wata hanya, muka rasa, shine yiwuwar rungumar juna da nuna kauna ta zahiri ga mutanen da suka fi mu mahimmanci.
Kun tafi, amma ba zaku daina kasancewa cikin zuciyata ba
Mutanen da suka bar mu suna yin hakan ne kawai da jiki. Saboda wani ƙaunatacce, wanda ya bar alama a zuciyar ka, ba zai taɓa kasancewa tare da shi ba, komai shekaru da yawa. Rashin wani ƙaunatacce ba za a iya gyara shi ba, ba zai taɓa daina ciwo ba, ba zai taɓa tafi ba saboda koyaushe yana cikin zuciyar ku da rayuwar ku, kodayake ba dai dai a cikin jirgin sama na zahiri ba.
A gefe guda, a matakin ruhaniya mutane ba su taɓa kasancewa a wurin ba, saboda alamar da suka bari a rayuwa ba zata goge ba, muddin akwai wani a duniya wanda ke ci gaba da tuna ƙwaƙwalwar sa. Ba za ku taɓa rasa rashi na ƙaunatacce ba, kuna koyon rayuwa ba tare da wannan mutumin ya kasance ba. An yarda cewa ba zai kasance a cikin rayuwar yau da kullun ba, ko a bukukuwan iyali kamar Kirsimeti.
Amma koda kuwa sun daina zama a kujera a teburin cin abincin dare na Kirsimeti, ko kuma a cin abincin Kirsimeti, mutumin zai kasance a kan yanayin motsin rai. Domin zuciya zuciya ce ta tarin tunani, kuma a wasu ranaku na musamman, kamar Kirsimeti, abubuwan tunawa domin waɗanda ba sa nan, suna da muhimmiyar rawa a bikin.
Yadda za a yi bikin Kirsimeti idan har yanzu yana ciwo don tunani game da ku
Shin zafin rashi ya taɓa gushewa? Wataƙila yana jin ƙarancin ƙarfi, da kaɗan kaɗan yana zama mai raɗaɗi da juyawa zuwa wani nau'in wahala. Amma ba shi yiwuwa a daina yin baƙin ciki don rashin wasu mutane. A wani lokaci hawaye da zafi suna canza ma'anarsu, da kaɗan kadan sai su shuɗe kuma idan ka tuna da waɗancan mutanen da ba sa nan, kana iya yin murmushi duk da hawayen.
Babu wanda zai iya tantance tsawon lokacin da za a ɗauka don jin ƙananan ciwo, kowane mutum, kowane yanayi, kowane hasara ba ta misaltuwa. Ga wasu mutane, suna tunanin yin bikin Kirsimeti lokacin da asarar ta kwanan nan ko lokacin da har yanzu zafi yake sosa rai, wani abu ne wanda ba za'a iya tsammani ba. Abu ne mai matukar fahimta, don haka ana raba shi, don haka ana tsammanin wanda ya rasa wani muhimmin ɓangare na rayuwarsa.
Koyaya, kodayake rayuwa tana da wuya a cikin lokuta da yawa a kan hanya. Kodayake asara tana sa ka rasa hankali, akwai wasu dalilai da yawa don rayuwa. Kirsimeti lokaci ne mai ban sha'awa, cike da tunani da lokutan tunani don tunawa kowace shekara. Kuma a kowace shekara rashi halarta sun fi bayyane, amma dai kamar zafin bai taɓa ɓacewa ba, lokacin ya kasance tare da ƙaunatattun ba sun aikata shi
Shekarar nan da yawa ba za ta gushe ba. Shekarar da kowa ya sha asara saboda wani dalili. Wanda a ciki za a cika gidajen rabin matakan tsaro da Gwamnati ta kafa. Arshen shekara don girmama duk waɗanda suka tafi. Ga duk waɗanda suka yi yaƙi kuma suka sha kashi, ga waɗanda suka yanke shawarar ci gaba da yaƙin duk da komai. Wannan kuma kowace shekara Kodayake kun tafi, a lokacin Kirsimeti koyaushe kuna cikin zukatanmu.