A yau ana bikin Ranar sumbata ta duniya kuma wannan shine dalilin da ya sa muke sadaukar da kanmu ga abin da watakila shine mafi mahimmancin nuna kauna ga kowane mutum: sumba. Jin dadi na kauna wanda ake ji yayin sumbatarwa da sumbatar shi, lokacin karba da bayar da wannan nuna kauna. Yana faruwa daga lokacin da aka haifemu har zuwa ranar ƙarshe ta rayuwa. Abin da ya sa a wannan kwanan wata muke sadaukar da kanmu don sanin amfanin sumbatar yara a kowace rana.
Kusan ilhami, sumbanta tushen jin dadi ne. Menene bayan waɗannan leɓunan da suka taru don bayar da ƙauna da nuna ƙauna?
Sumba mafi tsayi da kyau
Kiss ɗin na ɗaya daga cikin maganganu masu ƙarfi da kuma nuna ƙauna na kowane lokaci. Kisses, tare da tausawa da runguma, suna sanya yaren duniya wanda ke keta iyakokin siyasa da al'adu. Ba tare da wata shakka ba, sumba ita ce mafi kusanci ga rayuwar soyayya a farfajiyar. Sumba yana bayyana so, so, kauna, alfahari da sauransu, domin wataƙila ita ce mafi nuna kai tsaye da tasirin nuna ƙauna.
Ranar Kissing ta Duniya an haife ta ne a 'yan shekarun da suka gabata, bayan ma'auratan Thai Ekkachai da Laksana Tiranarat sun sumbace na tsawon awanni 46 a tsaye, suna kafa tarihi a duniya. Bayan 'yan shekaru daga baya, sun maimaita abin amma sai suka haɗa leɓunansu waje ɗaya na awanni 58, mintuna 35 da dakiku 58. Bayan wadannan tsauraran matakan, a yau muna magana ne kan sumba ba kawai don tunawa da ranar ba amma saboda yana daya daga cikin manyan abubuwan nuna kauna a rayuwar dan Adam. Sumbatar kusan dabi'a ce yayin da aka haifi yaro, iyaye suna matse shi a hannayensu kuma suna sumbatarwa tun daga kan kafa har zuwa ƙafarsa, ba tare da kalmomin koya masa ba don ya sumbaci shima. Wannan furucin na gaske na soyayya yana haifar da kwanciyar hankali da annashuwa. Babu wata hujja ta kimiyya a ciki amfanin sumbatar yara a kowace ranaKoyaya, babu wanda yayi jayayya game da tasirin sumba.
Dalilin? Rungume juna da sumbanta duka suna shakatawa, nutsuwa da kwanciyar hankali. Suna kuma kawo farin ciki da nutsuwa. Kissis su ne mafi bayyananniyar alama ta soyayya da kauna daga mutum daya zuwa wani, nuni ne na so na gaskiya. Wannan shine dalilin da yasa suke haifar da kyakkyawan walwala. Babu wani yaro da zai gaji da karɓar so kuma wannan shine dalilin amfanin sumbatar yara kowace rana ana iya ganinsu da ido.
Amfanin sumbata
Mafi aminci, mafi ƙarfin zuciya, mai daɗi, yara masu ƙauna. Yaran da basa jin kunyar bayyana motsin zuciyar su gami da karban su. Mun sani cewa saduwa da jiki babban taimako ne ga rayuwar kowa. Rungumewa a daidai lokacin, shafa wanda ke taɓa rai, sumbatar cikin lokaci. Nunin kauna yana da fa'idodi masu yawa ga lafiyar jiki da motsin rai na kowane ɗan adam. Idan akwai wani abu guda daya wanda annobar cutar ta nuna mana, to dukkanmu muna buƙatar alaƙar mutum. Me yasa ba sumbatar da yara kowace rana don haka?
da sumbanta sun kasance cikin ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwa kowane ɗayan ya juya ya zama babba kuma ya girka yanayin tsaro da kwarin gwiwa wanda zai dawwama a rayuwa. Da amfanin sumbatar yara a kowace rana suna tsalle zuwa ido to. Ba za ku taɓa taɓa sumbatarwa ba saboda babu abin da ya fi kyau kamar sanin cewa ana ƙaunarku kuma ana kula da ku. A cewar masanin halayyar dan Adam Isabel Rojas, daga Cibiyar Nazarin masu tabin hankali a Sifen, «sumbanta na haifar wa yara da jin kariya, tsaro, mahalli, da kuma dumi. Bugu da kari, sumbatar tana samar da jin cewa ana son yaron, ana kaunarsa, ana yarda da shi kuma, saboda haka, wannan koyaushe yana amfanar da kansa ne, wanda ke fifita darajar kansu ”.
Sumbata da yawa, shafa gashin kai, rike hannaye, runguma sosai. Sumbatar sumba ba ta da zafi, ba za ta taɓa zama mai yawan shafawa ba. Sumbata wani bangare ne na ilimin halin ɗabi'a da motsin rai na kowane ɗa. Babu wasu maki akan amma koyaushe cikin son soyayya. Da amfanin sumbatar yara a kowace rana suna gano juna kowace rana, a cikin wannan ƙawancen ƙauna da ke ƙaruwa kowace rana kuma tare da kowane nuna soyayya.