Kamar kowane Satumba 23, da Ranar Bisexuality ta Duniya, asalin jima'i wanda yawanci ba a maganarsa a cikin makarantu ko a gida, tunda galibi muna magana ne game da liwadi da namiji. Koyaya, akwai wasu bambancin jima'i, tsakanin su, bisexuality.
A cikin zamantakewar yau, ana yin la'akari da waɗannan abubuwan banbancin jima'i. Zai yuwu yau, ko wata rana, zasu tambaye ku menene wannan game da luwaɗan. Muna son ba ku wasu shawarwari kan yadda za a bayyana muku, koyaushe la'akari da shekarun yaron.
Menene bisexuality? Tunanin da aka riga aka tanada
Bisexuality yanayin jima'i ne wannan, kamar ba a zaɓa tsakanin maza da mata da liwadi ba. Hakan ba ya nufin cewa mutumin ya rikice ko kuma ya kasa yanke shawara. Kuma ba miƙa mulki ne zuwa liwadi ba. Bisexuality cikakkiyar shaidar jima'i ce da kanta. Tabbatacciyar fahimta ce, wacce aka yiwa lakabi da "lalata" a lokuta da yawa.
Lokacin da muke magana da yaranmu game da luwaɗan, bari mu kawar da ra'ayin cewa maza da mata masu ban sha'awa ba su damu da jinsi ɗaya ko wata ba. Mutanen Bisexual jin sha'awar jima'i da motsin rai ga mutane fiye da ɗaya jima'i da, ko jinsi. Bisexuals na iya sha'awar maza da mata, trans, intersex mutane. Daga cikin wannan bambancin na jima'i zaka iya samun yadda zaka yi magana da yaranka a ciki wannan labarin.
Mutanen Bisexual ba su da ɗan luwaɗi ko namiji ko mace ko namiji ko namiji ko mace ko namiji ko mace ko namiji ko namiji ko namiji ko mace ko namiji ko namiji ɗaya ko ɗaya ba tare da ɗan'uwanka namiji ko mace ba dangane da yanayin ɗayan, amma suna da dangantaka mai ma'amala da jima'i saboda sha'awar jima'i ta sha'awa. A wasu lokuta ana tambayar kwarewar bisexuality, koda a cikin LGTBI gama gari, wanda wani lokacin ya ci gaba da rashin ganuwarsu da nuna wariya. Wannan shine daya daga cikin dalilai, ganinta, wanda yasa ake bikin wannan ranar ta Miyagun Mata biyu.
Bayyana bisexuality
Yara suna yin jima'i, amma ci gaban halayen jima'i shine aiwatar da matakai daban-daban cikin cigaban dukkan yara. Abubuwan ilmin halitta, fahimta, motsin rai da zamantakewar al'umma sun sa baki a cikin wannan aikin. Halin jima'i shine hanyar da yara da matasa ke bayyana kansu, namiji, mace ko cakuda duka, kuma ya haɗa da yanayin jima'i.
Yana da mahimmanci idan ana magana da oura ouran mu maza da mata game da luwaɗi, ko kuma wani jima'i, muyi haka daga girmamawa, hadawa da haƙuri. Suna bukatar su koya yadda ake girmama mutane duka. Ta hanyar ilimi, a makaranta da a gida, hanya ce ta gano ma'anoni kamar tursasawa da tursasawa, fahimtar 'yancin kowane mutum don magance asalin jima'i.
Game da bisexuality, akwai wani ra'ayi na nuna wariyar launin fata. Kuna iya bayyanawa yaranku cewa sune saitin mummunan ji, halaye da halaye ga mutane masu jinsi biyu.
Nassoshi na al'adu akan bisexuality
A wani lokaci munyi sharhi cewa don samari da 'yan mata su fahimci bambancin jinsin da zasu iya sanyawa misalan mutane masu nasara, a wasanni, kimiyya, ko kuma wuraren da suka fi so. Gaskiyar magana ita ce da wuya akwai wasu nassoshi na nuna bambancin jinsi a cikin al'adun, kuma yawancinsu suna dogara ne da ra'ayoyi marasa kyau. Wasu mutanen da suka amince da buwayarsu ta hanyar sadarwar zamantakewa sune Dulceida, Ricky Martin, Sophie Turner, Paco León, Megan Fox, Lady Gaga, Drew Barrymore, Janelle Monáe ko Azealia Banks.
A cikin al'adun yamma, akwai kafofin da ke magana game da ayyukan bisexual daga Girka, ɗayansu shine Alexander the Great. Amma fa akwai babban shiru. Akwai al'adu wadanda a ciki akwai rabe-raben jinsi jinsi na uku, "ba namiji ko mace ba". Bambancin dake tsakanin luwadi, luwadi da luwaɗi babu su ga wannan jinsi kuma ga waɗanda suka yi jima'i da wannan mutumin.
A matsayin abin sha'awa, zaku iya gaya wa yaranku cewa tutar bisexual Michael Page ne ya tsara shi, yana da ratsin ruwan hoda mai wakiltar luwadi, launin shuɗi mai wakiltar maza da mata da kuma ɗayan shunayya (mai hade da ruwan hoda da shuɗi) a tsakiyar wakiltar ɗanɗano.