mai ciki
A zamanin yau, mata da yawa sun zaɓi jira don zama uwa a nan gaba, kawai suna ganin fa'idodi a cikin wannan jiran, amma gaskiyar ita ce wannan jiran ma na iya haifar da haɗari kuma ciki yana buƙatar ƙarin hankali har ma da kyakkyawan shiri. Yawancin ma'aurata a yau suna zaɓar fara iyali a ƙarshen rayuwarsu.
A cikin shekaru goma da suka gabata, mata sun fara haihuwa tsakanin shekaru 26 zuwa 32 kuma yawancinsu ma, bayan shekaru 35. Kowane ciki yana buƙatar kulawa da taka tsantsan, amma har ma fiye da haka ga iyaye mata da suka wuce shekara 30 kuma musamman waɗanda suka haura shekaru 35.
Abin farin ciki, kimiyyar likitanci ta samo asali sosai kuma akwai bayanai masu yawa ga mata sama da shekaru 35, saboda haka zasu iya yanke hukuncin da ya dace game da haihuwar yara da kuma yadda zasu kare kansu daga wasu haɗarin da uwaye ke fuskanta.
Rage haihuwa
Aya daga cikin mahimman batutuwan da dole ne mace ta yi la’akari da su idan tana son jira don ƙirƙirar iyali ita ce yiwuwar ta sami ciki, tun da shekaru suna wucewa, haihuwa a cikin mata yana raguwa.. Haihuwa na fara raguwa ga mata bayan sun kai shekaru 30 saboda dalilai daban-daban. Da farko dai, matan da shekarunsu suka haura 35 sukan yi kasa da kasa fiye da mata masu karancin shekaru, wanda hakan ke nufin cewa damar da suke da ciki na raguwa.
Wasu daga cikin matsalolin da ke haifar da rashin haihuwa, yawanci mace na yawan tsufa, Bugu da kari kuma akwai wasu matsaloli kamar endometriosis inda kwayoyin halittar cikin jiki ke girma mara kyau kuma suna toshe bututun mahaifa da kuma fibroids, wadanda sune ciwan mara mai kyau a cikin kwayayen.
Mafi yawan lokuta wannan raguwar haihuwa yana nufin cewa mata sama da 35 na iya samun wahalar samun ciki fiye da karamar mace, amma ba abu ne mai yiwuwa ba. Bugu da kari, akwai magungunan haihuwa a yau wadanda suke karawa mace sama da 35 damar samun ciki.
Hadarin da za'a yi la'akari dasu
Samun ciki ba koyaushe yake zama cikas ga matan da suka haura 35 ba, amma akwai wasu haɗarin da ya kamata a yi la’akari da su. Matan da shekarunsu suka haura 35 sun fi fuskantar matsalar zubewar ciki, mutuwar ajiyar ciki, da sauran rikice-rikicen da ke tattare da juna biyu, kamar ciwon suga na ciki. Ciwon sukari na ciki yanayin ne wanda zai iya bayyana kansa a cikin mata masu ciki waɗanda ba su taɓa yin ciwon sukari ba a baya. Wannan yanayin zai iya haifar da rikitarwa yayin haihuwa kuma yana buƙatar kulawa.
Hakanan, daga shekara 35, mata na iya samun haɗarin kamuwa da hauhawar jini, wani abu mai haɗari ga uwa da ɗan tayi, musamman idan ya haifar da pre-eclampsia. Wannan yanayin dole ne kungiyar likitocin su sanya masa ido sosai kuma, bugu da kari, dole ne jaririn ya sami kulawa sosai lokacin haihuwa, musamman a yayin da aka haife shi da wuri ko kuma yana bukatar kulawa ta musamman idan har akwai wani nau'in matsala.
Yana da matukar mahimmanci a tuna cewa lafiyar mace tana da tasiri sosai a kan ɗaukar ciki, kuma lafiyarku na iya taimakawa cikin don cin nasara ko a'a. Matan da ke shan sigari, shan giya, shan magunguna akai-akai, ko kuma masu kiba suna cikin rashin sa'a suna fuskantar matsaloli yayin ciki.
Mahimmancin binciken likita
Mata sama da shekaru 35 ya kamata su kiyaye sosai yayin daukar ciki, fiye da matan da suka fi ƙuruciya. Ofayan mafi kyawun hanyoyi don tantance haɗarin shine ta hanyar gwajin likita. Duk mata ya kamata suyi gwajin gwaji a cikin makonni goma sha biyu (a cikin duban dan tayi), wanda zai auna kaurin dunbin nuchal, zai hada da binciken jini da na fitsari ... Wannan zai tantance kasadar cututtukan haihuwa da rikitarwa da ka iya tasowa . Idan gwajin likita ya nuna cewa jaririn yana cikin haɗari sosai don lahani na haihuwar chromosomal, mataki na gaba zai zama samun amniocentesis. wanda shine gwajin cutar haihuwa.
Ya zama dole a tuna cewa wannan gwajin yana da wahala domin yana iya sanya iyayen su yanke shawara mai zafi don dakatar da ciki ko a'a. Wannan zaɓin mai wahala yana buƙatar yin la'akari sosai, tun ma kafin a shiga amniocentesis.
Fa'idodi na kasancewa tsohuwar uwa
Amma ba duk abin da dole ne ya zama mummunan ba idan kuna so ku zama mahaifiyar fiye da shekaru 35. Duk da cewa gaskiya ne cewa akwai wasu ƙarin kariya da zaku buƙaci yayin samun manyan yara, akwai wasu fa'idodi na kasancewa iyayen da suka manyanta.
Lokacin da kuke da ɗa lokacin da aka kafa aikin kuma kuna da tattalin arziƙin ƙasa, zai rage matsi da damuwa da yawancin iyaye matasa ke fuskanta. wanda zai ba ku damar jin daɗin cikin cikin kwanciyar hankali da ɗiyanku har ma da ƙari. Kari akan haka, idan kai mace ce mai karbar albashi zaka iya cin gajiyar wasu abubuwan more rayuwa kamar su hutun haihuwa da aka biya.
Iyaye mata ‘yan shekaru 20 zuwa 30 wani lokacin sukan ji sun gaji kuma sun gaji sosai a hankali lokacin da jariransu suka zo duniya. Wannan saboda suna jin cewa sun rasa wani ɓangare na rayuwarsu wanda ba zai dawo ba. Amma kasancewarta tsohuwa, an riga an cimma buri da yawa a rayuwa kuma mata sun fi jin daɗin kansu kuma suna da ƙwarin gwiwa na zama uwaye.
Kamar yadda yake tare da duk manyan shawarwari a rayuwa, kuna buƙatar auna fa'idodi da rashin kyau a hankali lokacin da kuka fara la'akari da cewa kuna son shiga wannan tafiya mai ban sha'awa ta uwa. Abu ne mai wahala, ba sauki, kuma hakan na iya sa mutum ya sami rauni a jiki da tunani, amma shine mafi kyawu a rayuwa. Shin kana son zama uwa?