Tabbas kun taba jin iyaye suna magana game da mummunan halin ɗansu kuma wani abin takaici ne sosai, wanda mafi yawan lokuta bamu san me zamuyi game dasu ba. Kafin halin tarwatsawa, yi magana game da “ɗabi’ar”. Hali ya ƙunshi ayyuka, ayyuka, martani ... duk waɗannan abubuwan suna ba da rahoton halin mutum gare mu.
Lokacin da irin wannan ɗabi'ar ta kasance tare da halaye marasa kyau to zamu iya ɗaukarsu a matsayin halayen tarwatsawa. Gabaɗaya, irin wannan halin rikita yanayin yawanci yakan faru ne a cikin yara childrenan ƙasa da shekaru 18 kuma ayyukansu sun zama masu ta da hankali da hallakaswa, Wannan nau'in halayyar ya wuce matsalolin ɗabi'a mara kyau.
Menene halin tarwatsawa?
Wannan nau'in halayyar tarwatsawa (DBD) ana ɗaukarsa cuta ce a inda yaro ko saurayi yana da wahalar sarrafa halinsa da watsa tasirinsa. Wannan halayyar na iya zama mai saurin tashin hankali, ƙalubale da korau ga ɓangarorin biyu har ma haifar da matsaloli tare da iko a nan gaba.
DBDs na iya farawa a yarinta, wanda ke haifar da halaye marasa kyau da kuma kaiwa ga matsanancin yin muhawara da kimanta ayyukansa da halayensa, tunda abin yana shafar rayuwar yau da kullun na mutanen da ke kewaye da shi.
Kwayar cututtuka da alamu
Akwai jerin alamomi da alamomin da zasu fadakar damu game da irin wannan cuta. Wadannan mutane suna rasa iko sun ƙi bin ƙa'idodi, kawai suna yin fushi, kuma amsarsu na da laushi kuma yana iya zama ramuwa.
Yadda ake gudanarwa: yawan musgunawa ga wasu mutane, keɓancewar jama'a, fashi ko sata, koyaushe suna da mummunan ra'ayi, suna cin mutuncin iyaye da iko, suna zaluntar dabbobi, suna lalata duk wani abu mallakar wasu, koyaushe suna zargin wasu, sun ƙi bin dokoki da suna son yin wasa da wuta.
Idan suna da alamun bayyanar cututtuka: Yana da wuya su mai da hankali, suna da takaici sosai, suna da mantuwa, basa tunani sosai kuma suna da matsalar warware matsaloli.
Ta yaya alamun cututtuka na psychosocial: suna da girman kai, rashin girman kai, rashin nadama, yawan bacin rai kuma koyaushe basu da kyau.
Ta yaya ake kirkirar irin wannan ɗabi'ar?
Wannan matsalar An fi samun hakan a wurin maza fiye da na mata kuma mafi yawa a cikin yara waɗanda tuni sun kai shekaru 12 da haihuwa. Ba a san ainihin dalilin ba amma ana iya gado daga tarihin dangin DBD.
Koyaya, wasu nau'ikan abubuwan da suka faru na iya bayyana waɗanda suka haifar da wannan matsalar, kamar su masifar tashin hankali, cin zarafin jima'i ko tashin hankali, cin zarafin yara ko rashin kulawa.
Ya kamata a lura cewa wannan nau'in ganewar asali zai iya fara bayyana tun suna kanana kuma cewa idan ba a ɗauki matakan da suka dace a kan lokaci ba zai iya zama mafi muni, zai iya zama wani abu mai mahimmanci don haifar da rikicewar halayen.
Yaya ake bi da halin tarwatsawa?
Kwararre koyaushe zai kasance wanda yake hannu don aiwatar da wannan magani ta hanyar kula da lafiya. A wasu lokuta ma suna iya rubuta wani nau'in magani ban da maganin psychosocial.
A cikin magani na tushen magani Ba koyaushe yake aiki a karo na farko ba, tabbas dole ne ku gwada magunguna da yawa har sai kun lura da ci gaba tare da ɗayansu.
Game da Dole ne a gudanar da binciken kimantawa don tsara magani, wanda na iya ƙunsar iyaye da yara suna aiki tare. Yana da mahimmanci iyaye su sa baki a cikin wannan maganin domin su san yadda ya kamata su kasance masu nuna hali da kuma yin martani a cikin irin wannan yanayi. Wasu lokuta ma yana da mahimmanci don aika rahoto ga malamai don sanin mafi kyawun shirin wanda za'a iya amfani dashi ga ƙananan.