Zvekuti vana vagadzire hushamwari nevamwe vana ndeimwe yemabasa makuru ebudiriro muhudiki. Shamwari, kutanga pazera diki, batsira vana kuti vanzwe kunakirwa nezvavo, kubatsira mwana kuchinjika zviri nyore kune zvakapoteredza uye kutanga kutanga kuzvivimba. Muchidimbu, kuva neshamwari dzakanaka nekusimudzira hukama hwakanaka nevamwe zvinobatsira vana kuve nekuzvitarisira kuri nani.
Hushamwari hwechokwadi
Hushamwari hwechokwadi hunoonekwa pakati pevana vane makore matatu kana mana ekuberekwa. Vana vanozove vakagadzirira zvakanyanya kuchengetedza hushamwari, zvirinani kupfuura vakuru kunyangwe! Usambofa wakashora kukosha kwehwo hushamwari hwepakutanga nekuti kune vadiki, hwakakosha chaizvo. Ivo vanobatsira kukura pamoyo uye zvakare padanho renharaunda. Ivo vanodzidza kutanga kubata pasi rakavakomberedza uye kuti vanzwisise zvirinani magariro etsika.
Kunyangwe dzimwe nguva zvichinetsa kuti vana vagare vachiwirirana sezvo zvakajairika uye zvakajairika kuti paitwe kurwa kudiki (kunyanya pamusoro pematoyi, mitemo yemitambo kana kurohwa). Asi maitiro aya pakati peshamwari diki anogara ari mukana wekudzidza wakanaka. Kunetsana kunomuka nekuti vana havasati vaine hunyanzvi hwekuyananisa kusawirirana. Vakuru vanoita basa rakakosha zvikuru pamazera aya, vanopedza nguva yakawanda vachiyeuchidza vana kuti 'vashandise mazwi avo' pane kurova uye kutora matoyi evamwe vana pasina mvumo.
Kuita shamwari hakusi nyore nguva dzose
Kubva kukireshi kusvika kuyaruka, hushamwari chikamu chakakosha chehudiki. Ushamwari hwechokwadi hunokudza maonero evana, hunovaka kuvimba, uye hunounza mufaro usingaperi. Hushamwari hwehucheche hausi hwekungonakidzwa uye mitambo. Hukama hwehukama hwehukama hune hukuru hwekuvandudza mabhenefiti evana. Tsvagurudzo nyowani inoratidza kuti hushamwari hwepedyo hwehukama hunowedzera manzwiro ekuzviremekedza uye hunobatsira vana kukurira kunetseka
Asi kugadzira uye kuchengeta shamwari hazvisi nyore nguva dzose. Kubva pakunyara kusvika pakurwa pakati peshamwari kusvika pakuda kufanana nevezera ravo, hushamwari hunopa vana kugara vachisangana nematambudziko anogona kuvhiringidza kunyange mubereki anoshanda zvakanyanya. Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti iwe udzidze kubatsira vana vako kugadzirisa zvirinani kukakavara muushamwari uye kuti iwe unogona kudzidza kuchengeta shamwari dzakanaka padivi pavo.
Vana vari pakati pemakore matanhatu ne0 ekuberekwa
Kunyangwe vacheche uye vana vadiki vanogona kupedza nguva neshamwari dzavo, vana havavake hushamwari hwechokwadi, hukama hwakavakirwa pakukoshesa vese, kuvimba, uye kupa nekutora, kudzamara vava nemakore mana kana mashanu ekuberekwa.. Kune vamwe vana, Idzi hushamwari hwepakutanga hunokura zvakasikwa pavanotanga chikoro chekireshi, mapoka emitambo, uye kudyidzana munharaunda Vamwe vana vanogona kupokana kana kutyisidzira vana vavasingazive.
Pamusoro pazvose, vabereki vanofanirwa kudzivirira mavara akadai se "anonyara" anogona kugara muhupenyu hwese. Panzvimbo pekunyora maitiro ekuzvidzora emwana, vabereki vanogona kubatsira mwana kubuda muhombodo yake nekuronga kutamba hangout nevamwe vana nguva nenguva. Kana magariro akonzeresa kushushikana, zvichave zvakafanira kunangidzira kutarisisa kwemwana kutoyi kana mutambo, kunongedzera kumunhu waanoziva kubva kuruzhinji, uye kugadzirisa manzwiro emwana. Kana iwe uchida kuti ave neshamwari pazera rino, unofanira kungomunongedzera kuchikoro kana nzvimbo dzaanogona kutamba nevamwe vana.
Vana vari pakati pemakore matanhatu negumi ekuberekwa
Vana pamazera aya vanoda kuvaka chivimbo. Vana pavanosvika kuchikoro, hushamwari hunonyanya kukosha. Hushamwari hwemhando yepamusoro muchikoro chekireshi chakakosha zvakanyanya kuvana. Chidzidzo chitsva kubva kuYunivhesiti yeIllinois chinoratidza izvo vana vane imwechete shamwari yakanaka mukireshi vaive nematambudziko mashoma ekuzvibata muchikoro chepuraimari.
Sezvo hushamwari hunowedzera kukosha, ndozvinoitawo kusawirirana pakati peshamwari. Makore epuraimari ndiyo nguva yakanakisa yekukakavadzana neshamwari dzepedyo. Makore matanhatu kana manomwe emakore, vana vanotanga kukudziridza hushamwari hwakavakirwa pakuvimba, saka kukakavara kunogona kumuka kana shamwari ikanzwa kuti kuvimba kwaputswa: kana shamwari ikaudza chakavanzika, semuenzaniso.
Kurwa pakati peshamwari chinhu chinowanzoitika mukukura. Vabereki vanogona kubatsira vana kugadzirisa kusawirirana nekutenda manzwiro evana, kugadzirisa matambudziko, uye kuteedzera kusagadzirisa kusawirirana.
Kubva pamakore matanhatu kusvika mapfumbamwe
Mukutanga-kuyaruka, vana vanofanirwa kuve nekutaurirana kwakanaka. Shamwari dzinenge dzakakosha zvakanyanya muhupenyu hwavo uye ivo vachazoda kushandisa nguva yavo yese navo. Asi ko kana imwe yeshamwari idzodzo yakakanganisa maitiro ako. mwana? Unofanira kurangarira kuti kunyangwe shamwari dzavo dzichikosha, kana iwe uchiziva kuzviita nemazvo, une simba rakanyanya kupfuura rinoziva vana vako.
Vechidiki vanoda kubvumidzwa nevabereki kunyangwe vasingataure kudaro. Nekudzivirira kutonga kwakashata uye kushoropodza kunokuvadza, vabereki vanovhura musuwo wekutaurirana kwakatendeseka nezveshamwari inogona kubvunzwa. Iwe unofanirwa kubvunza vechidiki uye gumi nevaviri zvavanofunga nezviito zveiyi shamwari, Dzimwe nguva zvisarudzo zvisina kunaka zvevamwe zvinogona kuzvikanganisa.
Vabereki vanofanirwa kudzivirira nzira yehutongi kana yekukonana. Mwana haafanire kurambidzwa kuona mumwe mwana, nekuti ipapo chete zvinopesana zvinoitika. Zvirinani kupa mukana wekusangana nemukomana kana musikana uye gara uchichengeta nzira dzekutaurirana dzakavhurika. Unogona kupa yako imba kune vechidiki kuti vatandare, kuti iwe ugone kuziva zvinoitika nguva dzese, ndisingazvizive. Kana chimwe chinhu chikaitika, tora mukana wekukurukura uye kufungisisa nezvazvo nemwana wako achiri kuyaruka.