If you are going to be a grandmother for the first time you will be tremendously excited, excited and eager to meet that new person who will come to the family to complete it. Grandmothers say that having a grandson is living motherhood in a different way, more relaxed and free from the negative things of parenting. Because grandmothers can be a second mother from the best point of view, although always respecting the role of the mother.
The first times are usually full of mistakes and learning, something that grandmothers are not exempt from. Because sometimes love can become a double-edged sword in this case. Because being a grandmother is an opportunity to enjoy children, but it is also a way of continuing with the work of a mother, helping the mother, being by her side and showing support whenever they need it.
Being a grandmother, a new phase of motherhood
Everything is done with love, there is no doubt about that, but sometimes limits are exceeded that can cause certain conflicts. Being a grandmother for the first time is something exciting, because at a time in life when one can feel of little use, a new being arrives to give all the love and company. But knowing how to keep the background is essential, because, although everyone is eager to love that new baby, the mother and father are if possible the people who want it most in the world.
Be Grandma It will be wonderful, you will have the opportunity to see a new member of your family grow, you will be able to teach him all the experience of your life and you will be able to enjoy great moments in each of the stages of that little. You will need a lot of energy to be able to follow that little earthquake and a lot of understanding to understand that perhaps your parents do not do things the way you would like.
This is something very common and usually causes family problems, although they can be solved with some understanding and a lot of love. No mother likes to be told how to do things, but they all appreciate the help and unconditional support. These are totally different concepts but it is what will make the difference. You can contribute your knowledge and experiences, without imposing them, and thus they will always count on you.
How to help raise the new baby
Surely you will be wanting to have that little one in your arms, sing your lullabies to him, raise him with all the love with which you raised your own children. And you can do it from the background, respecting everything their parents decide. But contributing your wisdom so that among all the best is offered to that baby. Do not criticize parents, or judge them when they make decisions, remember that being a parent is not an easy task.
You can also Offer to help with housework, in the way that parents may need it. Because sometimes, that help can seem somewhat invasive, especially in the privacy of the home. Something that never fails is a tupperware of homemade food, the kind that is so difficult to prepare when you have a baby at home. Always carry a container with food and your visits will always be well received.
Of course, do not show up unannounced because all parents need time to get used to the new rhythms of the family. Ask first if it is a good time to visit. Rrespect rest schedules and limit visits while the baby is very small. Remember that the most important thing is to respect the space and emotions of people, also of the most beloved. And there is no person with more raw emotions than a recent mother.
Enjoy this new opportunity to live the life of a new member from the background. It's your time to live the best moments, the laughter, the games, the whims. Without having to suffer the sleepless nights and the worst moments of motherhood. Enjoy that new name that you are going to receive, because now, in addition to the name at birth and that of mother, you will receive the name of grandmother.