Rebellious Teens: Are They Born or Made?

The adolescent is usually associated with sadness, depression, lack of goals, lack of identity, insecurity, unclear ideas ..., rebellion with or without causes. In this article we are going to discover if adolescents are born rebellious or are made with time and their circumstances.

The child and home values

In the childhood the child must grow up with norms and values ​​that parents have to worry about giving him. All of this will prevail in later years in his personal development. He must feel loved and protected and grow up being a free child, without carrying the pain of his parents behind him., the problems they have or the tasks that do not correspond to them.

In adolescence the child is in a period of maturation. Hormonal changes influence how your little one behaves. It is true that there are children more mischievous, restless and less conformist than others, and that they continue with these behaviors in later years, which adds to the complexity that puberty adds. With this, and despite the great task and sacrifice that it entails, parents must be more aware and involved in the Education of their children.

The arrival of adolescence brings rebellious youth

As children grow up, other things are asked of them and they are required to be consistent with their actions. In the moment in which parents impose themselves and define areas that must not be crossed, adolescents feel belittled and rebel to what they believe is unfair. Parents become enemies and friends safe conduct. The child who is no longer a child, but neither adult, he sees that in a short time things are reprimanded to him that before not. Some aspects that influence to be nonconformist or rebellious, are:

• Search to find yourself and fit in: They need to know where they are going and why, to know each other more, to identify with a group, with a fashion ..., to feel protected and not marginalized.
• Believe that nothing bad is going to happen: The adolescent se trusts too much, and does not realize the risks and consequences of their actions. Others answered for him, protected him. When he reaches puberty that changes.
• Social and academic relationships: The young person must deal with relationships with his partner, friends, solve discussions, different points of view ... At the same time has to cope with performing optimally in school, with adequate academic performanceWhich for him, when it doesn't happen, can be frustrating and want to escape.

Problems in adolescence

People who are more shy or have a harder time expressing themselves will have trouble feeling understood or clothed, and they will not know how to ask for help. If the young person begins to associate with boys of dubious reputation, consume some type of substances and feel rejected, it is likely that he does not know how to face it and shows more aggressive and do not want to collaborate.

Teens being rebellious is not abnormal or worrisome, as long as parents can carry it and patiently follow in their child's footsteps. When control is already lost by both parties, it is necessary to take action. As parents, if you try to give your children too much responsibility, it is a mistake to try to stop or tie them up in their daily or leisure activities, because they must grow up, discover and make mistakes.