ʻAʻole ʻae ke keiki a kaʻu hoa iaʻu iaʻu, he aha kaʻu e hana ai?

hoʻomāinoino keiki

He paʻakikī ke loaʻa i kahi pilina me kekahi a ʻike ʻaʻole ʻo ka mea āu e aloha nui ai i kēia ao e ʻae iā ʻoe. Ma muli paha o ke kaumaha o ka haʻalele iā ia. Pili paha ʻoe i ka pili paʻa i kou makua a ʻaʻole makemake i kekahi e ʻaʻa. I kekahi hihia, he kūlana paʻakikī ke alo aku.

He paʻakikī ʻaʻole hiki i kahi ʻano ke hoʻopili i ka wahine, E kōkua paha ia iā ʻoe e kālailai maikaʻi i ke kūlana. I ka hopena o ka lā, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaka mai kahi e hoʻomaka ai kekahi hopena.

Loiloi i ke kūlana o ke keiki a me kāu hoapili

He ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e noʻonoʻo pono ʻoe e pili ana i nā kūlana i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ai. ʻAʻole like ia me ka hemo ʻana o ka male ʻana o ka wahine, inā i ʻeha ka ʻikena a i ʻole ʻike hōʻike paha i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa, no ka waiwai paha o ka wahine a i ʻole no kā lāua mālama. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i ka paʻakikī iā ia.

hoʻopaʻi psychological ma nā keiki

Inā he hemo male noho aloha ia, malia paha he lana ka manaʻo o ke keiki i kahi launa hou. He mea maʻamau iā ʻoe e hōʻole i kēlā hiki i kēia hanana. No laila, he mea maʻamau ia i ka hoʻomaka, hōʻole ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hana mau ia.

Hoʻokaʻawale paʻakikī

Inā he hōʻike kēlā keiki i nā paio, e paʻakikī nā mea. Kahi e paio ai aia paha he hiki i ke kāohi a i ʻole ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole e kekahi ʻaoʻao. Hiki ke hōʻole i kāu kanaka, no ka mea ke koi aku nei ka ex-hoa iā ia.

ʻO ia paha no ka hana ʻole o kāu hoa ponoʻī i nā mea i kahi ala kūpono. I nā hihia ʻelua ua ʻeha ʻoe, no laila ʻo ka mea kūpono ke pane ʻoe i kekahi o nā kūlana ʻelua i ke ʻano mālie a hoʻomanawanui hoʻi. Hiki i ka Rushing iā ʻoe iho ke hana i nā pilikia hou aʻe ma mua o nā pono.

keiki i ka hemo male

Inā ʻaʻole i hana maikaʻi kāu pakanā, e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia a kau i nā ala āpau e hoʻoponopono ai i ka pohō. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo he mea ia na kāu keiki, ʻaʻole na kāu wale nō. Inā ʻoe e hoʻomaka i kahi noho like, pono nō ʻoe e launa pū. ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa kahi pilina maikaʻi inā maikaʻi ʻole a kūlike ʻole paha kāu ʻano.

Inā koi aku kāu hoa aloha i ke keiki, e hoʻāʻo e hōʻike iā ia, me kāu mau hana, ʻaʻole kūpono kēlā kanaka. He paʻakikī loa ia a e hoʻomanawanui loa ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole naʻaupō nā keiki, mai hoʻowahāwahā iā ia. Me ke aloha a me ka hoʻomanawanui, hoʻokō ʻia nā mea āpau. Inā he hihia koʻikoʻi, mai hoʻokaʻulua e hōʻike.

Ka ʻuhane lili

Lili ke keiki he mea ia e hiki ke hiki ke lawa ka hoʻopili i ka makua ʻo kāu hoa ia i kēia manawa. Hiki iā ia ke hana inā loaʻa i kāu hoa ka mālama pono o ke keiki. Inā ʻaʻole ʻike kēlā keiki i kahi makuakāne a i ʻole makuahine ʻē aʻe, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia ke keiki a ka ʻohana makua hoʻokahi, hiki paha i ka lili kekahi.

E hala lākou, he mea ia o ke ahonui. Hōʻike ia i kēlā me kēia lā, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻaihue i ke aloha o kekahiInā ʻaʻole, hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu.

Nā makahiki kūpilikiʻi

He paʻakikī kekahi mau makahiki no ka mea iā ia iho, ke keiki, a i ʻole ʻaʻole pēlā ke keiki, ke hoʻololi ʻia nei i nā loli he nui. Ke ʻae nei i ka hoa o kona makuakāne a i ʻole kona makuahine, hiki iā ia, ka mauʻu e wāwahi i kāna kīʻaha. No laila pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo iā ia a ʻoi aku ke ahonui me ia.

Hoʻopilikia iā ʻoe iho e hōʻalo ai i ka ʻeha o ka naʻau: noi nā ʻōpio iā mākou no ke kōkua

E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole ia kou kuleana e lilo i makuahine, keu hoʻi inā he wahine kāna. Inā ʻaʻohe ona, ʻo ia ka mea pono e koho inā ʻaʻole e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kēlā kuleana. Inā he ʻōpio ʻo ia, no kāu kanaka ke kuleana a hoʻoholo e pili ana i ka poʻe e mālama iā ia. Oiai Hiki i kahi hoʻokau a kāu hoa ke hoʻonāukiuki i nā mea a hana i ka hōʻole hou ʻana ma ke ʻano he kipi.

He aha kāu e hana ai e pili ana i ia?

ʻO ka hanaʻoi loa a hiki iā ʻoe ke hana mahalo iā ia i ka wā hiki. E noʻonoʻo i kona mau manaʻo hōʻole iā ʻoe a hoʻāʻo e pale i ka hoʻonāukiuki iā ia i ka hiki. ʻO kēia kahi e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe ka mahalo a me ke aloha.

Honi i nā mākua a me ke kaikamahine

E loaʻa nā kikoʻī me ia e hōʻike iā ia i kēlā me kēia lā i kou mahalo iā ia ma ke ʻano he kanaka a mahalo iā ʻoe. Pono ʻo ia e ʻike he ʻohana ʻoe a mālama ʻohana a aloha kekahi i kekahi, e hoʻomaopopo iā ia me kāu laʻana. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e loaʻa iā ia i ka lā mua, akā ʻo nā mea ʻoi loa o ke ola nā mea e loaʻa paʻakikī.


Hoʻopili ka ʻike o ka ʻatikala i kā mākou kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻoponopono hoʻoponopono. E hōʻike i kahi kaomi hemahema ʻaneʻi.

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  1. He kuleana no ka ʻikepili: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Ke kumu o ka ʻikepili: kaohi SPAM, hoʻokele ʻōlelo.
  3. Legitimation: Kou ʻae
  4. Ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka ʻikepili: ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻekolu koe ka mana o ke kānāwai.
  5. Pūnaewele mālama: Pūnaewele i mālama ʻia e Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Nā Kuleana: I kēlā me kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke palena, hoʻōla a kāpae i kāu ʻike.

  1.   Manuel ia

    E Maria, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi loa i kahi kūlana i ʻike pinepine ʻia ma mua o ka mea,

  2.   monse ia

    He aha kaʻu e hana ai inā ma hope o ʻehiku mau makahiki o ka pilina me kaʻu hoa, kā lāua mau keiki, 29 a me 32 mau makahiki, mai ʻae iaʻu a i ʻole makemake e ʻike iaʻu. Kāhea lākou i ko lākou makuakāne me ke alo o ko lākou makuahine i ka pāʻina pāʻina, a ʻehaʻeha wau ke hōʻino nei kēia i koʻu pilina. Mahalo.

  3.   ives ia

    Loaʻa iaʻu kaʻu kāne a me kāna mau keiki o 30 a me 34 mau makahiki, a ʻoiai ʻaʻohe oʻu pili i ka kaʻawale ʻana me ko lākou makuahine, ʻaʻole lākou hauʻoli i koʻu hele ʻana a ʻimi mau lākou i kahi ala e hoʻonāukiuki ai iaʻu, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole wau. 'A'ole maopopo i ka hana a i kekahi manawa makemake au e kaawale.