Kime hoʻoponopono

He ao pīhoihoi ka makua, piha i nā pilikia i hiki ke hoʻokahuli i kekahi manawa. ʻAʻole palena ke aloha i nā keiki, akā ʻaʻole lawa ka lawa mau ʻana e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia o kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i koʻu ʻili ponoʻī i alakaʻi iaʻu e noiʻi hou e pili ana i ka makuahine a me ka makua mahalo. ʻO ke kaʻanalike ʻana i kaʻu aʻo ʻana, hoʻohui ʻia i koʻu kuko no ke kākau ʻana, ua lilo i ʻano o koʻu ola. ʻO wau ʻo Toñy a hele pū wau me ʻoe i ka honua hoihoi i kapa ʻia he makuahine. .

Māmā, pedagogue therapeutic, psychopedagogue a me ka hoihoi e pili ana i ke kākau ʻana a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Ua aʻo kaʻu mau keiki iaʻu e lilo i kanaka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a ʻike i ka honua ʻokoʻa, mahalo iā lākou ke aʻo mau nei au ... Ua hoʻololi ka makuahine i koʻu ola, ua ʻoi aku paha ka luhi akā ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli.

ʻO wau ʻo Alicia, hoihoi nui i koʻu makuahine a me ka kuke ʻana. Aloha au i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i nā keiki a leʻaleʻa i kā lākou ulu ʻana a pau, ʻo ia ke kumu i hāʻawi mai ai ka hoihoi e pili ana iā lākou i ka hiki iaʻu ke kākau i kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hiki ke hāʻawi ʻia ma ke ʻano he makuahine.

Kēkelē ma English Philology, makemake i nā ʻōlelo, mele maikaʻi a me nā manawa a pau me ka ʻoihana ma ke ʻano he kumu. ʻOiai hiki ke hoʻohui ʻia kēia ʻoihana me ka kākau ʻikepili a ʻoi loa me ka makuahine. He honua a mākou e aʻo ai, ʻike a ʻike ai i kēlā me kēia lā me kā mākou poʻe liʻiliʻi, e wāwahi ʻia ai ma aneʻi.

ʻOiai ʻo kaʻu mau haʻawina e kālele ana i ka ʻoihana ʻoihana, ua hauʻoli mau au i nā hana ʻē aʻe e like me ka heluhelu, kākau, kuke ʻana a me ka mahiʻai. A ʻo nā makuahine i kēia lā e ʻae iaʻu e hōʻuluʻulu i kekahi o lākou i mea e kaʻana like i nā ʻike a me nā ʻōlelo aʻo me ʻoe.

Loaʻa iaʻu kahi kēkelē a me kahi kumu i ka Communication a ua komo au i kekahi mau papahana TV no nā keiki, e hana ana i nā mea i hoʻolālā ʻia no lākou. ʻOiai, i ka manawa like, ka makuahine a me ka makuahine o nā keiki o nā makahiki like ʻole a me nā kāne, hāʻawi iaʻu i nā ʻano ʻike āpau aʻu e hoʻāʻo ai e hopu i kaʻu mau ʻatikala.

I ke aloha i ka heluhelu, kākau, ʻano, holoholona a me ke ola ma ke ʻano nui, ʻoiai he paʻakikī i kekahi manawa e lawe mai iā mākou i nā manawa kupaianaha e kaʻana like me kā mākou poʻe aloha.

Aloha, kākau wau e pili ana i nā kumuhana āpau no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana i kahi ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka hoʻolaha ʻana i nā manaʻo, nā waiwai a me ka ʻike he mea nui iaʻu. ʻO ke kumuhana o ke aʻo ʻana, hoʻoponopono ʻia paha ʻaʻole, a me nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio me he mea hoihoi loa iaʻu.

Makemake nui ʻo Psychologist e pili ana i ka Emotional Intelligence a me ka ulu pilikino ʻana. Makemake wau e hana i nā mea āpau i hiki i ke ola o nā keiki a me ko lākou mau mākua, a ʻo ka mea nui loa: hauʻoli, no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi ʻohana hui.

ʻO wau ka makuakāne o nā keiki kupaianaha ʻelua a aloha au i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka pīhoihoi a me ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻelua. Hiki i ke kākau ʻana i nā makuahine I kēia lā kōkua iaʻu e hāʻawi i nā mea āpau aʻu i aʻo ai i nā makahiki he makua kāne a kāne o ka ʻohana nani.

14 a me ka hapa makahiki i hala aku nei ua launa wau me kaʻu kumu nui, ʻelua mau makahiki ma hope mai ua hele mai kekahi kanaka e like me kona inoa (Sofia) i ka honua; ʻAʻole like lākou me nā keiki o kaʻu mau moeʻuhane no ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ... makemake wau e haʻi iā ʻoe i nā mea e pili ana i kaʻu aʻo ʻana ... a na ʻoe e haʻi iaʻu.

ʻO María José koʻu inoa, noho wau ma Argentina, a he kekelē wau ma ke kamaʻilio akā ma mua o nā mākua o nā keiki ʻelua e hoʻonui i koʻu ola i koʻu ola. Ua makemake mau au i nā keiki a ʻo ia ke kumu he kumu wau no laila maʻalahi a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi kēia noho ʻana me nā keiki. Makemake wau e hoʻoili, aʻo, aʻo a hoʻolohe. ʻOi aku i ka wā e pili ana i nā keiki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke kākau nei hoʻi e like me kēia eia wau ke hoʻohui nei i kaʻu peni no ka mea makemake e heluhelu iaʻu.

Ua hānau ʻia au ma Bonn (Kelemānia) i ka makahiki 1984 a ʻo wau ke kaikamahine a Galician a me nā mākua neʻe. ʻO nā kamaliʻi mau a he kuhikuhi i koʻu ola; I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua aʻo au i ke kēkelē laepua no ka mea ua ʻike wau, mai ka wā ʻōpio, e pili ana kaʻu hana me lākou, a he kahu mālama keiki wau a he kumu pilikino hoʻi i kekahi mau manawa. Aloha au i kaʻu hana, a lana koʻu manaʻo e ʻike ʻia i loko o kaʻu mau ʻatikala.

ʻO wau ka makuahine o nā keiki ʻelua me aʻu e aʻo a ulu ai i kēlā me kēia lā. Ma waho aʻe o ka lilo ʻana i makuahine, ʻo ia ka "poʻo inoa" aʻu e haʻaheo loa ai, he kēkelē laepua wau, he mea ʻai pono a me ka mea hoʻohana Dietetic a me kahi Doula. Aloha au i ke aʻo ʻana a me ka noiʻi ʻana i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka makuahine a me ka makua. I kēia manawa hoʻohui wau i kaʻu hana i ka hale kūʻai lāʻau me nā papa a me nā papa hana aʻu e aʻo ai ma nā kumuhana like ʻole e pili ana i ka makuahine.

Ua puka 'o Pharmacist ma 2009 mai ke Kulanui o Barcelona (UB). Mai ia manawa ua hoʻoikaika au i kaʻu ʻoihana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea kanu kūlohelohe a me nā kemika kuʻuna. He mea aloha wau i nā keiki, nā holoholona a me ke ʻano.

Aloha! Makemake au i ke kākau ʻana a hoihoi wau, ma o ka hana a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, ka hana a me ke aʻo ʻana, ʻelua o nā ʻaoʻao e aʻo ai nā makuahine e hana i ka hana kiaʻi ana a lilo i mau loea maoli no kā lākou poʻe keiki.

ʻAʻole hiki ke helu ʻia ke aloha i nā poʻe liʻiliʻi o ka hale. ʻO ke kākau ʻana e pili ana i nā hanana hou i ʻike ʻia e nā mākua he ʻike aʻo ia no ʻoe a me aʻu.

He palekeiki wau, makuahine a ke kākau nei wau i kahi blog no kekahi manawa. Nui koʻu hopohopo e pili ana i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka makuahine, ka hānai ʻana a me ka ulu pilikino ʻana o nā wahine. Ma ka hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ʻana wale nō e hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoholo i nā mea ʻoi loa no mākou a me ko mākou ʻohana.

ʻO ka makuahine o kahi mālamalama hoʻouluulu, pedagogue i ka wā e hiki mai ana, mea hoʻonaninani loea, mea kākau mau i nā aka, ka mea hana kiʻi, leo leo a me ka haku mele, haumāna o nā mea āpau, kumu o ka mea ʻole. I ke aloha me ka naʻau, ke mele a me ke ola maʻamau. ʻO Positivist i ka ekstremis, he ʻaoʻao maikaʻi nā mea āpau a inā ʻaʻole pēlā, naʻu nō e mālama i ka hana ʻana. Ma hope o kaʻu mea liʻiliʻi, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā mea āpau.

He psychologist wau a me kahi mea kākau, kākau wau i kaʻu mau makemake a me nā keiki. Kōkua wau iā lākou e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou mākau kumu, e hoʻohui i loko o kēia ao paʻakikī e aʻo lākou i ka hauʻoli a me ke kūʻokoʻa. ʻO ka hana pū ʻana me lākou kahi huakaʻi kupaianaha i pau ʻole.

ʻO ka makuahine i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa, ʻo YouTuber i nā manawa a me ka ʻenehana ʻoihana Laboratory Superior. Ua hoʻokō wau i kaʻu moemoeā o ka lilo ʻana i makuahine ʻōpio, he mea hou ia i kēlā me kēia lā, a ʻaʻole au e loli no kekahi mea. Makemake wau e hoʻomaopopo ʻia e pili ana i nā pilikia o kēia wā e pili ana i ka hānai ʻana i kā mākou poʻe liʻiliʻi a kaʻana like i kaʻu mea e aʻo ai me ʻoukou āpau. Manaʻo nui wau hiki i nā keiki o kēia lā ke hoʻololi i ka wā e hiki mai ana o ko mākou Honua.

Aloha! ʻO wau he sociologist a makemake nui i nā keiki. Hana wau i nā wikiō e pili ana i nā mea pāʻani e like me ka mea liʻiliʻi o ka hale. Ma waho aʻe o ka hoʻokipa ʻia no lākou, hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa ka ʻike e kōkua iā lākou i kā lākou hana aʻo a me ka pilikanaka, e aʻo ana e pili i ko lākou ʻohana a me ko lākou kaiapuni i kahi ala olakino a hauʻoli hoʻi.

ʻO koʻu makemake nui i ka naʻau e alakaʻi iaʻu e aʻo i ka Early Childhood Education ma mua a laila kahi hana Pedagogy. A ʻo koʻu hoihoi (i nā palena palena ʻole), alakaʻi iaʻu e ʻimi i nā kumuhana e pili ana i ka naʻau ʻike, ka hoʻopaʻi maikaʻi a me ka makua mahalo.

ʻO ka makuahine haʻaheo o kahi keikikāne i kona wā ʻōpio. I ke aloha me ke ola a me ke kūlohelohe. ʻO nā mea aloha i nā puke, nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi a me nā hulahula mai koʻu wā liʻiliʻi. I aʻo ʻia e ka kūlohelohe a me ka helu palena ʻole o nā papahana aʻu e moeʻuhane nei. ʻO ka loea i ka psychology keiki, ʻo kaʻu ʻoihana kaʻu makemake. Pīhoihoi wau i ka ʻike o nā keiki no ka ʻike a me ko lākou hiki ke hana.

ʻO Ale koʻu inoa a ʻo wau kekahi mea aʻo i ke keiki kamaliʻi. ʻAʻole wau he makuahine i kēia manawa, ʻoiai i ka wā e hiki mai ana makemake wau e lilo i hoʻokahi no ka mea aloha wau i nā keiki. Nui koʻu hoihoi i ka honua o ka kuke ʻana, ka hana lima a me ke kaha kiʻi ʻana, ʻo ia ke kumu i paʻa ai koʻu manaʻo hiki iaʻu ke kōkua nui iā ʻoe i ke aʻo ʻana o kāu poʻe keiki.

ʻIke wau, hoʻomaha ʻole a nonconformist, ka mea e nīnau mau ai iaʻu i ka honua e hoʻopuni nei iā mākou, ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea e pili ana i ka makuahine a me nā mākua, kahi e noho ai nā kaʻao a me nā manaʻo wahaheʻe ʻole. Makemake au e kiʻi i ke aʻa, i ke kumu a mai laila mai, e hana ai. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa wau i ka waiū hānai a me ka pale ʻana a me ka hoʻolaha ʻana i ke olakino keiki.

Loaʻa iaʻu kahi kekelē ma Biology me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka Cellular and Molecular Biology. Loaʻa iaʻu ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka Psychology a me ka ʻike ma ka hoʻonaʻauao ma ke ʻano he kumu ma ke kula kiʻekiʻe. Ma keʻano he mea olaola a makemake nui e pili ana i ka Psychology,ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki iaʻu ma mua o ka hanaʻana no Madres Hoy: kahi i hui pūʻia ai koʻu mau manaʻoʻelua, no ka mea, e kamaʻilio ana e pili ana i ka makuahine e pili ana i ke ola ma kona mauʻano a pau.

Mai koʻu wā liʻiliʻi ua nui koʻu makemake no ke aʻo ʻana i nā keiki liʻiliʻi a pāʻani pū me lākou. No laila lana koʻu manaʻo ma o kaʻu mau ʻatikala hiki iaʻu ke hōʻike iā ʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi āpau o nā hana a ka ʻohana.