Iinethiwekhi zentlalo ziyinkqubela phambili kuluntu lwethu kuba iyasidibanisa nabantu. Nangona sikude ngokwasemzimbeni, okunene sinxibelelene kakhulu ngenxa yomnatha wonxibelelwano sinokwazi malunga ngaphandle kokuthetha yonke imihla. Nangona izibonelelo zemidiya yoluntu zicacile, kulutsha olunemithombo yeendaba zentlalo kunokuba likrele elintlangothi-mbini.
Imidiya yokuncokola ikhuthaza abantu kwaye ivelise isimo sengqondo sobugwala. Abantu ekunokwenzeka ukuba bajongane ubuso ngobuso ngekhe bathethe nantoni na embi komnye umntu, ngokulula ukuba semva kwescreen banokuhlasela abanye ngokwasengqondweni. Ingqele yenethiwekhi yenza kube ngathi 'ayonto ingako', kwaye enyanisweni ukuba ukuxhatshazwa, Wenza umonakalo omkhulu ngokweemvakalelo kulutsha.
Ingxaki yokwenyani xa kufikwa kumba wokuhlukunyezwa
Nangona ungaboni kuhlaselwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye nantoni na enjalo, iinethiwekhi zentlalo xa zisetyenziselwa ukuhlukumeza omnye umntu iba yingxaki yokwenyani ekufuneka isonjululwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuxhaphaza nge-intanethi kunokuba sisibetho kanye njengokungcungcuthekisa nokuba akukho mntu ubethayo. Umonakalo ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo onokubangela ukuba mkhulu kakhulu. Yale, Kuyimfuneko ukuba phambi kwayo nayiphi na impawu yokuhlukumeza, abazali bathathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza.
Ixhoba lifuna inkxaso yabazali balo kunye nayo yonke imeko ukuze likwazi ukoyisa le mpatho-mbi kwaye ayimchaphazeli ngokwasemphefumlweni. Ngokunjalo kubalulekile ukuba abazali bomxhaphazi bathathe amanyathelo kwaye bangavumeli ukuba umntwana wabo abonzakalise abanye nangayiphi na indlela.
Musa ukucinga ukuba ngokuthabatha ixesha lescreen ukhusela umntwana wakho
Nangona kuyinyani ukuba kufuneka ulilawule ixesha elichithwa ngabantwana bakho phambi kwesikrini, ungacingi ukuba ukuthatha ixesha lomntwana wakho ekusebenziseni izixhobo ze-elektroniki kuyisombulula ingxaki. Kwimeko yexhoba, baya kuba nakho ukubona imiyalezo yokuhlukumeza kwakamsinya nje emva kokuqhagamshela kunye nomhlukumezi, Uyakwazi ukukhathaza kwaye wenzakalise abanye ngexesha elifutshane olichitha nezi zixhobo ezandleni zakho.
Nangona kubalulekile ukulawula ukusetyenziswa kweinethiwekhi zabantu bakho. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba imifanekiso eqingqiweyo, iiakhawunti zohlaselo, kunye neempendulo ezingalunganga zifikelela kubo ngandlela thile ngemidiya yoluntu.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yindlela yokujongana nengxaki nabantwana kunye nokuba bafundiswa njani ngezixhobo ezifanelekileyo ukuze bakwazi ukujongana nengxaki kunye.
Thetha ngemidiya yoluntu kunye nomntwana wakho
Musa ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo uyayazi indlela yokulawula i-intanethi ngokuvula iakhawunti, kuba oku akunjalo.. Ulutsha lufuna ukhokelo kunye nolwalathiso lokwazi ukuba lwenza into elungileyo. kwaye wazi ukuba imida yenethiwekhi yoluntu ikuphi.
Kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ixesha lakho lokuthetha nabantwana bakho malunga neenethiwekhi zonxibelelwano ubacacisele ezona zinto zibalulekileyo uthathela ingqalelo iminyaka yabo kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukuqonda. Umbutho kaZwelonke weSikolo seNgqondo eMelika uthi Abazali kufuneka bathathe ixesha lokuncokola okunentsingiselo nabantwana babo malunga neziganeko eziza kubo kunye nokubaqinisekisa ukuba bakhuselekile kwinethiwekhi yoluntu.
Kuya kufuneka ujonge imiqondiso yokuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuthetha, uchithe ixesha elininzi nawe ... Kwaye uthathe naliphi na ithuba lokuba nezi ntlobo zeencoko.
Ukhuseleko kwinethiwekhi yoluntu
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufundise abantwana bakho ukubaluleka kokukhuseleka kwiinethiwekhi zonxibelelwano kwaye bafunde ukumisela ubumfihlo babo kwinethiwekhi nganye yoluntu. Ezinye iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngabantwana bakho zezi:
- Umxholo wakho akufuneki ube esidlangalaleni ukuze ungabonwa nangubani na.
- Akufuneki ubamkele abantu ongabaziyo njengezihlobo kwiinethiwekhi zakho zentlalo.
- Akufanele ubeke idatha yakho kwiprofayili yakho yoqhagamshelwano.
- Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ulayishe iifoto okanye iividiyo ezinokuqulatha okungafanelekanga okanye zikuveze nangayiphi na indlela.
- Kuya kufuneka uhloniphe abanye kwimidiya yoluntu kwaye wazi ukuba ungazigcina njani iifom phantse.
- Kuya kufuneka ufikelele kwiinethiwekhi zabo nanini na xa ufuna, hayi ukuba ungene kwimfihlo yabo, kodwa ukuze ubone ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle.
- Kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba ukuvala njani incoko okungafunekiyo kunye nabo.
Yazi indlela yokusebenzisa uthungelwano lwasentlalweni
Ukhuseleko kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kubalulekile, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba bafunde ukuba iinethiwekhi zentlalo zisebenza njani ukuze bakwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo. Ke ngoko, njengabazali, kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokunceda abantwana, ngakumbi abakwishumi elivisayo, ukuba baqonde ukuba ukusetyenziswa kweendawo zonxibelelwano kuhlala kuyingozi.
Kuya kufuneka ubacacisele ukuba iintlobo zomxholo abazibonayo kunye nabantu ababalandelayo banefuthe kuhlobo lolwazi olufakwa kumaqonga afana ne-Facebook okanye i-Twitter kwiifidi zabo. Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba imithombo yeendaba zentlalo ayikho mxholweni. Kukho umxholo ogcweleyo kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo, ethi ukuba ayiqondwa ngokupheleleyo, inokushukumisela abantwana ukuba bathathe amanyathelo aqatha okuzikhusela xa bengaziva bekhuselekile.
Amandla olwazi awela ezandleni zakho
Ulwazi ngamandla, ukuba nje iyaqondakala kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, isetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo. Kuya kufuneka uncede umntwana wakho aqonde ukubaluleka kokuba unalo lonke ulwazi ezandleni zakhe. Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zinokusinceda siqonde okwenzekayo namhlanje, kodwa kwangaxeshanye zinokusikhohlisa.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze nabantwana ekucingeni nzulu ukuze babenako ukwazi ukuba yinyani kwinto engekhoyo, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukuze bakwazi ukwahlula umxholo osemgangathweni kwinto engekhoyo. Oku kubalulekile ukuze abantwana bakwazi ukuzicingela kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuze bangakholelwa kuyo yonke into abayibonayo kumnatha wonxibelelwano. Kubalulekile ukuba bayazi indlela yokubuza yonke ingcaciso abayifumana kumajelo eendaba.