Asinakukhanyela ukuba enye yezona ntsuku zibalulekileyo ebomini banoma yimuphi umntu ngumzuzu apho abe nguyise okanye umama, ukuqhuma kweemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye neemvakalelo. Into abathi abo banamava kuyo, abakwazi ukuyichaza ngamagama. Kungekudala emva kokwamkela umntwana wakho, lixesha lokumbhaptiza kwaye ukhethe i-godparents. Ngamanye amaxesha akulula ukubabuza, ke sikuzisela indibaniselwano yamabinzana ukuze ubacele ukuba babe nguthixo wakho xa ubhaptizwa.
Nje ukuba ukhumbule abantu abafanelekileyo ngalo mzuzu ukhethekileyo, akufanele uchithe ixesha kwaye unxibelelane nabo ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ewe, ngendlela yokuqala kunye neemvakalelo.. Kwaye ngenxa yoku silapha, ukuze ukhethe elona binzana lalo mzuzu ukhethekileyo. Unokwenza ngasese, esidlangalaleni, ngesipho, njl.
Amabinzana ukubacela ukuba godparents yobhaptizo
Ukhetho lwee-godparents luyinto ebalulekileyo ukuba abazali bomntwana kufuneka bacinge kwaye bathathe isigqibo. Ukunikela ukuba babe nguthixokazi kuyisenzo sokubulela, kubenza babe yinxalenye yentsapho yakho, kwaye bathembele kuye ngesinyathelo ngasinye esithathwa ngumntwana. Ngesi sizathu, sifuna ukukubonisa apha ngezantsi, ingqokelela yamabinzana aneemvakalelo kunye nentsusa yalo msitho. La mabinzana anokuthi alungelelaniswe kubo bobabini i-godparents kunye ne-godmothers.
- Ubusoloko ungumhlobo wam osenyongweni, ungandenzela iwonga lokuba nguthixo womntwana wam?
- Namhlanje lusuku olukhethekileyo, utata nomama bafuna ukuba ube yinxalenye yobomi bam, uyafuna ukuba nguthixo wam?
- Iintliziyo zethu zizele luvuyo kunye neemvakalelo kwaye kuya kuba ngakumbi ukuba uvumile ukuba nguthixo wonyana wethu.
- Bambalwa abantu abafanelwe ngaphezu kwakho ukuba ube nguthixo wam xa ndibhaptizwa. Umhlobo wabazali bam, umzekelo womsebenzi, ukunyaniseka kunye nobubele
- Abazali bam bayakuthanda kakhulu kwaye bayakuthemba, yiloo nto ndingavuya kakhulu xa ungavuma ukuba nguthixo wam ekubhaptizweni.
- Ngaba uyafuna ukuba nguthixo woyena mntwana upholileyo emhlabeni?
- Uyakuhlala uyinketho yethu.Uyafuna ukuba nguthixo womntwana wethu omncinci?
- Umntwana wam usixelele ukuba xa ufuna ukuba nguthixo wakhe ekubhaptizweni, awuzukwazi ukwala, akunjalo?
- Amaxesha akhethekileyo kwabelwana ngawo nabantu abalungileyo, yiyo loo nto sikucela ukuba ube nguthixo womntwana wethu
- Njengomnye wabafazi balapha emhlabeni, ndifuna ukukubuza into ebaluleke kakhulu, uyafuna ukuba nguthixo wam?
- Ndiyakuvakalisa njengothixo wam osemthethweni wobhaptizo, ndiqhwatywa izandla
- Ungumntu obaluleke kakhulu kusapho lwethu kwaye ukukhetha wena njengothixo wam ukuze ubhaptizwe sesona sigqibo silungileyo.
- Sifuna nje ukubulela ngokuzinikela kwakho, uthando kunye namaxesha amnandi. Uyafuna ukuba nguthixo wonyana wethu?
- Nawona maxesha anzima ubusecaleni kwethu. Ngoku lixesha lokubhiyozela abonwabileyo esikuthandayo ngokusondeleyo kuthi, uyavuma ukuba nguthixo womntwana wethu.
- Abazali bam bafuna ukuba ube nguthixo ekubhaptizweni kwam. PS: Akufanelekanga ukuthi hayi
- Abona bahlobo bangenamiqathango ebesinabo kubo bonke ubomi bethu, yiyo loo nto sinqwenela ukubabona besecaleni kwethu kubhaptizo lomntwana.Uyafuna ukuba nguthixo wabo?
- Ndiza kuba ngumntwana owonwabileyo emhlabeni ukuba uyavuma ukuba nguthixo wam ekubhaptizweni.
- Ngaba uyafuna ukuba nguthixo wam xa ndibhaptizwa? Oko kubandakanya; dlala ngam, undikhaphe ekukhuleni kwam, ndifundise izinto ezintsha, undinike umvuzo weveki...
- Siyazi ukuba uyamthanda usana lwethu ngentliziyo yakho yonke, siyakuthemba ukuba uyamfundisa kwaye umkhokele, ngokuba ungumntu onyanisekileyo, omnandi onemilinganiselo.Ngaba uyafuna ukuba nguthixo wakhe ekubhaptizweni?
- Ubhaptizo lwam luza kubhiyozelwa kungekudala kwaye kufuneka ndikhethe abantu ababini abakhethekileyo ukuba babe nguthixo wam. Ukuba uthi ewe, nam ndiza konwaba njengotata nomama.
Sincoma ukuba usebenzise amanye ala mabinzana ahamba nesenzo esikhethekileyo, sinokuba kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, ekudibaneni kwentsapho, sikhatshwa sisipho, ukuba umntwana wakho omncinane abanike inqaku, into enokuvuyisa ngayo abo bantu babini banyuliweyo. nangakumbi . I-Godparents ibalulekile kubomi bomntwana wakho omncinci, ngoko kunokutshiwo ukuba sisigqibo esibalulekileyo ekufuneka senziwe.