Xa uneentsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba uchithe nabantwana, unokuhlala uza nezicwangciso ezintle. Namhlanje ngumhla "Ukuphuma nabantwana kuhambo oluya entabeni" kwaye akukho ndlela ibhetele kunokubhiyozela ubaleka. Kuba nabantwana unokwenza ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi ukonwabela kunye.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uziva usoyika ngolu hlobo lwesindululo, kuba umba wokhuseleko okanye ukudinwa kusenza sicinge ukuba sinenkululeko encinci yokonwabela usuku ezintabeni. Kodwa akukho nto ifana nayo yizame kwaye sinokwenza ukuba isebenze kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukuzonwabisa okukhulu kubo.
Cwangcisa uhambo lwakho lokuya ezintabeni
Ngokuqinisekileyo inyathelo lokuya entabeni liye laba lelo ukukhohlisa okuncinci ukuze ukwazi ukonwabela usuku olukhethekileyo. Wonke umntu kusapho lwakho unoxanduva lokucwangcisa uhlobo lomsebenzi ngokunxulumene nobudala babantwana. Siyazi ukuba ukuphuma kunye neentsana kufuneka siziphathe nomntu ophethe umntwana. Ukuba ukhetha ukwazi ubudala obuchanekileyo bokuhamba nabantwana, kufuneka sitsho ukuba ukusukela kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala abantwana sele bekwazi ukulawuleka kwaye, nabo sele befuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni ebangqongileyo.
- Kuya kufuneka ukhethe umsebenzi olungileyo kunye nohambo ngokobudala bomntwana. Iintsuku zokucwangcisa ezidlulileyo zibalulekile. Kuhlala kufanelekile ukukhangela iindawo ezimfutshane, apho umlambo udlula khona, ihlathi elininzi kunye nomthunzi ukuba kushushu kakhulu kwaye apho kukho ukwakheka okuhle kwezinto ezahlukeneyo zomhlaba.
- ukuba wazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lweendlela ezinokubakho kwindawo yakho, unokujonga kweli phepha Apho bancomela khona iincwadi ezinokuthi zihambelane nendawo oza kuyityelela. Okanye ungandwendwela "Intaba nabantwana" apho bakuxelela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezicwangcisiweyo ezikhoyo ukuhamba nabantwana. Unokufunda elinye lamanqaku ethu echaza ukuba zeziphi iipaki zendalo kwaye ziyonwabela njani nabantwana.
- Yenza imephu yendawo yalapho ukuba uza kutyelela, ukusuka ezindala, ephepheni. Ukuba kuyenzeka, yenza enye imephu ukuze abantwana bakwazi ukuyilandela, enemizobo kunye namanqaku abalulekileyo. Ngale ndlela, ugqibezela ubumnandi kwaye baya kuziva benovelwano ngakumbi ngokucwangcisa.
- Kuya kufuneka ucwangcise esinye isicwangciso, Abantwana banokudinwa okanye babesengozini kwimozulu embi. Kubalulekile ukuba bangabinalo ixesha elibi, ukuba abahlali kakuhle abayi kufuna ukuphinda amava.
- Qokelela zonke iintlobo zezinto ezibonakalayo kwangaphambili ukuba uzakufuna. Phatha ubhaka nazo zonke izinto ezicwangcisiweyo, zisa iimpahla ezinokudingwa ngabantwana, ukutya okulula ukuphatha, amanzi amaninzi, iikhampasi, iGPS, ikhithi encinci yoncedo lokuqala, ifowuni ephethe ibhetri egcwaliswe kakuhle ...
- Yenza uhambo lube mnandi kangangoko. Abantwana bayathanda ukuziva bekhululekile kwiindawo ezingaphandle, bafuna nje ukudlala kunye nokudlala kwaye ukuba kungakhangela. Abazali banokuba yindawo efanelekileyo yokuxhasa, baya kuba nakho ukucacisa ukuba yintoni ebangqongileyo yintoni na eyindalo. Ungawuchaza umjikelo wentyatyambo, ubomi benyosi, ukuba lihlala njani isele, njl.
- Abantwana banokuzonwabisa nabo ukuba banxiba ingxowa yokuqokelela zonke izinto ezintle abazifumanayo, ezinokuba bubuncwane bakho obuncinci. Iipinecones, amatye amancinci, iminenke, izityalo ... bayakuthanda ukuba nememori entle yokuyixela.
Kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo malunga nohambo nabantwana yile yiba nomonde ngamaxesha onke, sukuba novalo kwaye uphumle amaxesha ngamaxesha njengoko kufuneka. Yenza umbono obonakalayo kwaye ulindele ukuba kungenzeka ntoni, kwaye kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukuba indlela yenziwe ngabantwana abaninzi kunye neentsapho zabo.