Ungamkhuthaza njani umntwana wakho ukuba afunde

Ngalo lonke ixesha sisondela esiphelweni sekhosi kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba unokubona ukuba ayintoni amanqanaba okugqibela abantwana bakho. Kuyo yonke le khosi uye wakwazi jonga isimo sengqondo somntwana wakho ekufundeni kwaye ibe yintoni ukusebenza kwabo kwizifundo. Ngoku kuba ihlobo liza nje ngaphezulu kwenyanga, ayisosizathu sokwehlisa iingalo zakho ulinde uSeptemba ukuba akhuthaze abantwana bakho ukuba baphinde bafunde, ngumsebenzi oqhubekayo,

Abakwishumi elivisayo akufuneki bavakalelwe kukuba ukufunda kukufumana nje amabakala amahle, kufuneka baqonde ukuba ukufunda kuyo yonke indawo kwaye xa sifunda into sele siyifunda. Kubalulekile ukuba baqonde ukuba isifundo asiyonto ekufuneka beyenzile ngokunyanzelwa, kodwa yinto evela ngaphakathi kwaye iluncedo kubomi bemihla ngemihla, hayi kuphela esikolweni ukupasa iimviwo ezithile.

Kodwa umntwana wakho uya kufuna ukuba kwenye indawo kunokuhlala etafileni yokufunda okanye athabathe incwadi ukuze afunde kwaye afunde iinyani ezinomdla. Abazali kufuneka bayazi indlela yokukhuthaza abantwana babo ukuba bafunde, ayipheleli nje ekuphumeleleni iimviwo okanye kuvavanyo olulindileyo kodwa ebomini. Nangona kubonakala ngathi kuyadinisa okanye kuyadinisa, akufuneki kube njalo.

Isisombululo kukufumana iindlela zokwenza ukuba ukufunda kube mnandi nokuba ungawuphi umxholo. Ukuba ucinga ukufezekisa oku akunakwenzeka, ndiyaxolisa ukukuxelela ukuba uphazamile. Isitshixo kukuba ubhetyebhetye, usebenzise izixhobo onazo kunye nokucinga ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ayisiyiyo yonke into ekufuneka iphindwe kabini.

Makhe ndikhethe indawo

Ngumbono olungileyo ukuba umntwana wakho akhethe indawo yakhe okanye indawo yokufunda, kuba ngale ndlela uya kuziva eyakhe. Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke kuphela ukuba le ndawo yokufunda ifezekisa iimeko eziyimfuneko ukuze ungaziva udiniwe (ukukhanya okuhle, intuthuzelo yesifundo, indawo epholileyo, njl. Kwindawo ayikhethayo, unganikezela ngokubeka izinto ezithile ezinjenge desika, isibane kunye nezinto ezithile zokuhombisa ukuyenza ibe nomtsalane. Unokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe izinto ngaphakathi kwemida. 

Injongo yeyokuba umntwana wakho abone kule ndawo "indawo yakhe", oko kukuthi, indawo apho angathatha khona umhlala-phantsi ukuze afunde hayi iimviwo kuphela kodwa nayo nayiphi na into enomdla kuye kwaye efuna ukuyifunda kuba kubonakala ngathi ngumbono olungileyo. Ngele ndlela, Umntwana wakho uya kuphefumlelwa ukuba afunde kwaye ayizukuziva ngathi iyadinisa okanye inyanzelisiwe.

Uluhlu lwemisebenzi emifutshane

Xa abakwishumi elivisayo befunda kangangeyure, bafuna imizuzu elishumi okanye elishumi elinesihlanu yokuphumla ukuze iingqondo zabo zikwazi ukuphumla kwaye baphinde bahlaziye iibhetri zabo baqhubeke nokufunda. Ukuze isifundo singadinisi kubo okanye bangachithi xesha lokuphumla, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuseka uluhlu lwemisebenzi emifutshane kule kota yeyure kwaye ngale ndlela ungayikhetha. 

Kunokubakho izinto ezikuluhlu onokuzenza ngeli xesha lifutshane lekhefu lakho lokufunda. Ingabandakanya ukufunda incwadi okanye iphephancwadi elinomdla kuwe, ukudlala umdlalo, ukuthatha uhambo, ukuhamba nenja, ukubiza umhlobo, okanye nokuzolula ebhedini kunye nokuvala amehlo akho ukuze uphumle. Ezi zikhefu zimfutshane ziya kunceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo lokufunda, kwaye ayizukuziva ngathi yinto enzima ukuyiphumeza.

Funda kwiqela

Ukuba umntwana wakho unabahlobo abaya kwiklasi enye okanye abanezinto ezifanayo ezifanayo kwaye banobuhlobo obuhle, inokuba licebo elihle ukumema umhlobo okanye ababini kubo ukuze bafunde kunye. Nangona le yindawo ebuthathaka kuba kukho ulutsha olufunda kakhulu kwinkampani kodwa abanye bakhetha ukuyenza bodwa ngokupheleleyo kuba kungenjalo banokuphazamiseka kwaye bangasebenzisi ithuba abalifunayo ngokwenene lokufumana izinto ngokuchanekileyo.

Ngale ndlela, licebo elilungileyo ukubuza umntwana wakho ukuba kulungile na ukumema abahlobo ukuba bafunde kunye okanye ukuba ukhetha ukukwenza yedwa. Ukongeza, kuya kufuneka ubenoxanduva olwaneleyo lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ukhetha ukufunda njani kwaye ukuba ugqiba kwelokuba ukwenze uliqela, ungalingwa ukuba wonwabe emva kwemini yokuhleba kunye nemidlalo endaweni yokufunda. Kodwa Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba angayikhupha kwaye akwazi ukuzuza kwiseshoni yokufunda ekwabelwana ngayo, ke khululeka ukuvumele.

Nika indlela yamava

Ukufunda ithiyori kulungile, kodwa amava yeyona nto inokwenza umahluko ekufundeni kwabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo. Ke ngoko, ukuba umntwana wakho ufunda into enxulumene nembali okanye ubugcisa, ungamsa kwiimyuziyam ukuze azibonele ngokwakhe. Ukuba ufunda ibhayoloji, mthathe umboniso webhayoloji okanye umse ezintabeni ...

Cinga malunga noko kufundwa ngumntwana wakho kwaye ufumane indlela yokuba asebenzisane ngokuthe ngqo nolwazi oluza kumvumela ukuba afunde ngcono ukufunda.

Zihlonele izigqibo zabo

Kukho ulutsha olunokuthi lufunda ngcono ngomculo. Mhlawumbi awucingi ukuba licebo elilungileyo okanye ucinga ukuba umculo ungamphazamisa, Kodwa makhe ayizame kwaye ukuba ayihambi kakuhle makazifunele ngokwakhe. Ukuba emva kokufunda ngomculo ubonisa ukuba akafumananga lwazi, kungcono ukuba umkhokele kwaye umxelele ukuba umculo ulungile kodwa mhlawumbi xa kufuneka enze ezinye iintlobo zemisebenzi, kodwa akwazi ukukhumbula ngentloko idatha okanye imiba yokufunda, kungcono ukuyenza uthule ... okanye kungcono uyenze uthule.

Umntu ngamnye ofikisayo uya kuba namandla ahlukeneyo kwaye kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba yintoni amandla omntu ngamnye ukuze azi kakuhle ukuba bafuna ntoni.