Ukuba isigqibo sakho kukubeka amacici, qiniseka ukuthenga igolide okanye oko kubizwa ngokuba yi "hypoallergenic".
Ngokwesiko lethu kuqhelekile ukugqobhoza iindlebe zamantombazana amatsha. Kwelinye icala, kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi, amantombazana awenzi macici de afikise ebudaleni kwaye kumaxesha amaninzi akabahlabi okanye anxibe nantoni na. Isizathu sokuba sigcine amantombazana amancinci elindile kwilizwe lethu kuhlala kuhlala kuyinto entle, ukuze yahlulwe kakuhle kwindoda (ngokungathi ifashoni yepinki ayonelanga).
Ukukhetha ukuzinxiba okanye ukungazinxibi, phantse zonke izinto ezikhethwa lusana, kuxhomekeke kubazali. Ukugqobhoza iindlebe kudala kwenziwa kumantombazana. Namhlanje, ngokuvuka komzali ohloniphekileyo (kwaye enkosi), imisinga iqalile ukuvela echaza umba we faka amacici emntwaneni awunakuzenzela isigqibo okwangoku. Kuyinyani yinto yesini, abafazi banamacici kunye namadoda ngaphandle kwabo, kodwa kule mihla akuqhelekanga ukubona amadoda (kwanabantwana abancinci) benamacici. Ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba sifake amacici njengokuzihombisa komzimba kunye nokuzikhethela kwisini nakwezesini hayi into eyahlukileyo phakathi kwabesini, mhlawumbi ukuze sikwazi ukubona izinto ngokwahlukileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unentombazana kwaye uqinisekile ukuba ubeke amacici kuye, Ingcebiso yam kukuba ulinde kancinci ukuze i-lobe ikhule (malunga neenyanga ezisi-8 malunga), ukuba ayithambanga kangako kwaye ikhula ngobukhulu. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kukuba uye iisayithi ezifanelekileyo ukufezekiswa kwamacici "angenabuhlungu"; ababelekisi abaninzi kwizenzo zabo babenza besebenzisa ukutshiza okubulala iintlungu.
Ungaze uye kwindawo abasebenzisa kuyo umpu, nokuba ibiza kangakanani. Umzuzu "ongenazintlungu" ulindelweyo uyabenzakalisa abantwana bethu, kodwa khawufane ubenze ngompu, ngaphandle kokonzakalisa ngakumbi, othusa ngengxolo ekhutshwe sisixhobo, enokwenza ukuba abantwana bethu bahambe kwaye bahlale kumathambeka enziwe kakubi, engalingani kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba bosulelwe. Ukuba awukhethi, linda kwaye ungayenzi kubo. Uya kuba nexesha lokukubuza, kwaye mhlawumbi kungekudala kunokuba ucinga!
Molweni, ndingathanda ukuphawula ngamava am malunga noku: siye sagqiba kwelokuba singabeki amacici kwintombazana xa izalwa, okanye emva ... Umbono yayikukuvumela ixesha lidlule kwaye yayinguye oya kuthatha isigqibo.
Iminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo (nge-9) wayefuna ukugqojozwa iindlebe, kwaye saya kwivenkile yobucwebe, bamfaka amacici okwexeshana. Kwathi ngengomso waphulukana nomnye wabo wavala umngxuma, xa wamxelela ukuba siza kuphinda sikwenze, wala kuba ekhumbula ukugqojozwa. Kwaye ke iyahamba, nge-11 kwaye akukho mathambeka.
Akukho nto yenzekayo ukuba awuzinxibi, akukho nto inokwenzeka ukuba bendifuna ukuzama kwakhona ngomso. Ndiqinisekile ukuba iintlungu ziyafana, nokuba badala kangakanani, kwenzeka ntoni kukuba abantwana abancinci kakhulu khange bavuthise impendulo yabo, kwaye ukuba abalili kungenxa yalonto, hayi kuba bengasokoli.
Ewe, njengoko uYasmina echaza, kukho iindlela zokwenza ngcono izinto, ukulungiselela abantwana, yiyo loo nto. Iposti inomdla kakhulu.
Njengomdla, kwiminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo (ngokuhambelana nokuzama kwentombi yam) ndathetha nomntu owayesenza ukubhoboza; Undixelele ngokumangaliswa kukuba kukho abazali abothusayo xa amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo efuna ukwenza imingxunya kwamanye amalungu omzimba, kwaye abaqondi ukuba ngokwabo ibingabo abagqibe ngokufaka amacici emva kokuzalwa.
A ubingelele.