Xa abantwana bebancinci kwaye beqala ukuya esikolweni, banokuvela iingxaki Zonke iintlobo, kodwa uninzi zilungiswe kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Inkqubo ye- si kolweni Ubuntwana bumnandi, abantwana bafunda ngokudlala kwaye ootitshala banolwalamano olusondeleyo nolobuqu nabazali. Kodwa yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci, nakwiminyaka yokuqala yamabanga aphantsi, oko akuthethi ukuba abayi kuvela iingxaki esikolweni kamva.
Njengoko iminyaka ihamba Imicimbi iba nzima (amaxesha amaninzi, ngaphezulu kokulindelweyo), imisebenzi iyanda kwaye abantwana baqala ukufumanisa oko ubudlelwane boontanga banemibala. Baqala ukufumana amava ngendlela yokuziphatha kwabo ebachaphazela ngayo abanye kunye nokufumana ubunzima bezinto ezenziwa ngabanye. Abantwana nabo baqala ukubazi ubuchule babo, ukusikelwa umda kunye neetalente zabo, kungekuphela nje ezifundweni, kodwa nangobuqu. Zonke ezi zizithako ezingalawulekiyo kwi-cocktail ethi, xa ishukunyisiwe, ingakhokelela kwiziphumo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye nokuba umntwana ubonakala eqhuba kakuhle esikolweni kwaye esenza kakuhle nasesikolweni, i-cocktail ingaqhuma.
Wazi njani xa umntwana wakho enokuba neengxaki esikolweni
Xa umntwana okanye umntwana ofikisayo eqala ukusokola ngomsebenzi wasekhaya, kuya kufuneka ukuba unike uncedo abaludingayo ngokukhawuleza. Ixesha elininzi elidlulayo, kokukhona uya kuphulukana kwaye kuya kusiba nzima kuwe ukufumana. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukumisela uyintoni umthombo weengxaki kwaye uvavanye ukuba ngaba ukusebenza kwabo gwenxa kunye nesimo sabo sengqondo esibi siphenjelelwa bubudlelwane noontanga babo.
Zezi imiqondiso yokuba umntwana wakho unengxaki esikolweni kwaye ufuna uncedo.
Akafuni ukuthetha ngezifundo zakhe
Nokuba umntwana wakho akathethi kangako ngesikolo, into eqhelekileyo kukuba akuxelele izinto, akuxelele ngabantu afunda nabo, malunga noko bakufundayo, malunga nemidlalo yekhefu, njl. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngenye imini uqaphela ukuba umntwana uyayeka ukuthetha ngesikolo kunye / okanye ukuvala ibhendi xa uzama ukwenza ukuba incoko iqhubeke, kuya kufuneka ukrokre ukuba kukho uhlobo lwengxaki.
Guqula indlela ojonga ngayo isikolo
Abantwana banokuthanda izifundo ezahlukeneyo ngaphezulu okanye kancinane, kodwa kuhlala kukho into abayithandayo ngakumbi okanye, ubuncinci, ukuya esikolweni kunenkuthazo yokubona abantwana ofunda nabo, ukuthetha, ukudlala kunye nokuhleka kunye. Nokuba imeko injani na yomntwana wakho, ukuba uyayigcina Ukutshintsha ngesiquphe kwesimo sengqondo esikolweni kufuneka ukrokre ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukujonga nje ukuba iyabonisa isithukuthezi kwaye ukungabi namdla kwizifundo zokufunda sele kungumqondiso olungileyo wokuba kwenzeke into. Ngokubanzi, ukubonisa ukukruquka luphawu lokuqala lokuba abayiqondi into eyenzekayo eklasini, ukuba abawuqondi umxholo.
Ukuchitha ixesha elininzi usenza umsebenzi wesikolo
Ukuba umntwana athathe ixesha elide ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ngumqondiso omkhulu wesilumkiso. ukuba abe neengxaki esikolweni. Banokuba ziingxaki zemfundo, ke unokufuna ukomeleza. Kodwa neemvakalelo, kuba ukuba umntwana uneengxaki zobuqu nabantu afunda nabo okanye ootitshala kuya kuba nzima ukugxila kulo msebenzi.
Esinye isizathu sokuba umntwana wakho afune ixesha elininzi lokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo kukuba useklasini Ukuphazamiseka ndilungile sukuya (nto leyo eza kwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ube nzima) okanye ungasebenzisi eli xesha ulinikiweyo eklasini ukuba usebenze. Ukufuna uncedo kwezi meko kunokuba kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana ngenkqubo yesikolo.
Ukuziphatha gwenxa
Ukuze umntwana abonise ukungaziphathi kakuhle esikolweni kunye / okanye ekhaya kunokuba luhlobo lwe Susa ingqalelo kwiingxaki zakho izifundiswa okanye indlela yokufumana ingqalelo kuba unengxaki ethile yeemvakalelo. Isohlwayo kunye nesohlwayo sisebenza ekugxininiseni ingxaki kwaye siyenze ibe nzima.
Abantwana nabantu abancinci kufuneka bafunde nabo izakhono zentlalo ukuveza iimvakalelo zakho. Ngapha koko, ukuchonga iimvakalelo kunye neengxaki zabo akukho lula kubo, kwaye eso sisiseko sokuchaza izimvo zabo. Ke ngoko, ukuba uyabona ukuba umntwana wakho akaziphathi kakuhle ekhaya okanye bakwazisa ukuba indlela aziphethe ngayo ayilunganga esikolweni, kuya kufuneka uzixhobise ngezakhono zentlalo umntwana wakho angakwaziyo ukumnceda kwaye ajonge imvelaphi yengxaki ukuze akwazi ukuthatha amanyathelo.
Ingxaki yokulala
Ukuba ngequbuliso umntwana wakho unayo Iingxaki zokulala, ulala kakubi, uvuka ngaphezu kwesiqhelo okanye ude uchame ebusuku, kuya kufuneka uqale ukrokre ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Nangona ingezizo zonke iingxaki ezivela esikolweni, ubomi babantwana bujikeleze loo nto, ngoko ke akukho ngqiqweni ukucinga ukuba baneengxaki kwizifundo okanye nabo bafunda nabo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uziva unyanzelwe ngabazali bakho ngenxa yamabanga akho.
Iingxaki zokutya
Ngokufanayo, ukuba umntwana ubonakalisa ukulahleka komdla ehlala iintsuku okanye enexhala elininzi lokutya (ngakumbi izinto ezingenampilo) kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo. Inkqubo ye- iingxaki zokutya akufuneki zithathwe kancinci kwaye into enokusonjululwa ngokulula kungakhokelela kwisifo esikhulu esiza kubumba ubomi bomntwana kwixesha elizayo.