Baninzi abazali abakusebenzisa gwenxa ukusetyenziswa kweeselfowuni xa bekunye nabantwana babo. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba abantwana bazive bekude nabazali babo kwaye kubi, baya kubakude ngokweemvakalelo ngenxa yoku. Ngenxa yoko, xa abazali bengawulawuli umlutha wefowuni, baya kuphulukana nexesha elifanelekileyo nabantwana babo kwaye baphose amathuba abalulekileyo.
Abazali kufuneka bazi ukuba abanakho kusini na ukuba likhoboka elihamba neselfowuni lokubeka umda kwaye ukuba lo mkhwa awuchaphazeli ubudlelwane nabantwana babo okanye izihlobo.
Lumka xa unengxaki nokusetyenziswa kwefowuni okanye ukuba akukubi kangako. Ukuba uhlala ujonga iselfowuni amatyeli aliqela ngeyure, ewe kuya kufuneka uyilungise ngokukhawuleza, kuba nokuba awukuqondi oko, abantwana bakho bakubona njengotata ophazamisekileyo okanye umama kananjalo, ulwalamano lwakho lweemvakalelo lunokonakaliswa kakhulu.
Ulawulo lweziyobisi eziselfowuni: amaqhosha ama-5
Landela le mithetho ukuthintela ukusetyenziswa kwefowuni ekulimaleni ubudlelwane bosapho
- Misela umthetho ekhaya ebonisa ukuba akuyi kubakho fowuni (akukho meyile, akukho zithuba zemidiya yoluntu, njalo njalo) emva kweeyure ezithile ngokuhlwa.
- Gcina ixesha lesidlo ngaphandle kwefowuni kwaye usebenzise eli xesha njengethuba lokunxibelelana kwakhona kunye nokuthetha malunga nosuku.
- Sebenzisa usetyenziso ukulawula ukuba abantwana bakho bazisebenzisa kangakanani iifowuni (ngokwakho) kwaye uyisebenzise ukugcina umkhondo.
- Gcina ixesha kunye neqabane lakho njengeyona nto iphambili kwaye ungajongi ifowuni xa uthetha naye okanye xa ungena ebhedini. Kulusizi ukungabikho konxibelelwano kwaye nobabini nijonge emnxebeni.
- Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukungasebenzisi ifowuni rhoqo, qaphela ukukhangela uncedo. Uphando lubonisa ukuba umlutha wefowuni uyinyani kwaye ufana nolunye uhlobo lweziyobisi. Ukuba ubona ukuba awunakulawula koku, kuya kufuneka uye kunyangi ukunceda ukusombulula le meko kwaye woyise umlutha wakho.