Ndiqinisekile ukuba zonke iintsapho emhlabeni zifuna ukuhlala kwikhaya elonwabileyo kunye nemvisiswano. Kubonakala ngathi ngobomi obunoxinzelelo esihlala sikhokelela kubo ngenxa yokusebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya, imisebenzi yabantwana eyenziwa emva kwexesha, iishedyuli ezahlukeneyo kwilungu ngalinye losapho, kubonakala ngathi ubomi bentsapho buhle. Kodwa akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani ukuba uyafuna nyani, unokufumana ikhaya eligcwele imvisiswano.
Ukwenza ikhaya eligcwele imvisiswano, kubalulekile ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo izinto ezininzi, ukusuka kumhombiso wasekhaya nakwigumbi ngalinye imikhwa yosapho ekufuneka yomelezwe ukuze iqhina losapho, unxibelelwano kunye nomsebenzi olungileyo welungu ngalinye liqinise ubudlelwane, baziva bemvisiswano ngakumbi kwaye bobabini abatshatileyo bonwabile kwaye abantwana banokukhulela kwindawo ezinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo.
Imibala ekhaya
Imibala ekuhombisweni inokubangela imvakalelo eyahlukileyo ebantwini abayibonayo, ngenxa yesi sizathu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyithathele ingqalelo le nto ukuze khetha eyona mibala ifanelekileyo kwigumbi ngalinye. Umzekelo, umbala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ngumbala ozolisayo okhuthaza ubuchule kunye nokuchuma, uluhlaza kudala imvakalelo yamandla, umbala otyheli okhanyayo ngumbala othoba iimvakalelo (xa umbala onamandla uzisa amandla), iorenji ikwangumbala ozisa ubuninzi bomzimba. Kwaye nayo yonke eminye imibala.
Ngale ndlela, kufanelekile ukuba imibala ethathelwa ingqalelo kumhombiso yimibala ebikade ixabiswa ngawo onke amalungu osapho. Umzekelo, ukuba ucinga ukuphinda uhlobise amagumbi okulala abantwana bakho kuba sele bekhulile kwaye abangobantwana, Kubalulekile ukuba kudibaniso losapho ukhethe imibala kunye ukuze bazive ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kweso sigqibo sibalulekileyo.
Kwimibala oyikhethayo ukuba ibe yimibala ebonelela ngemvisiswano, kuya kufuneka ukuba ube yimibala ekhanyayo okanye imibala ye-pastel. Umdibaniso wemibala uya kuxhomekeka kukhetho kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathele ingqalelo iimvakalelo abazibonisayo.
Yenza uxanduva ekhaya lucace
Ukuze iingxoxo ezingeyomfuneko zenziwe ngaphakathi ekhaya malunga nomsebenzi wasekhaya, wonke umntu osendlini kuya kufuneka azi ukuba yintoni umsebenzi wakhe. Ukwenza oku, abantwana kufuneka baqhele ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya besebancinci kakhulu, kubenza babenoxanduva lwemisebenzi efanelekileyo kwinqanaba labo kunye nenqanaba lokukhula.
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba kungabikho namnye «olibalayo» ukuba kufuneka benze umsebenzi wabo wasekhaya (ngakumbi abantu abadala, kuba abancinci bahlala bonwabile ukusebenzisana), Kufuneka icaciswe into elindelekileyo kwilungu ngalinye losapho malunga nomsebenzi wasekhaya. Abantwana kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba ekwenziweni kwemithetho, imigaqo, kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya (ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile), ukuze babenokukhetha kuxanduva lweveki. Umzekelo, kwimisebenzi yeveki, unokukhetha izinto ezinje: Ukhetha ntoni ukuhamba nokunyamekela inja, ukucoca itafile emva kwesidlo ngasinye okanye ukukhupha inkunkuma?
Kwelinye icala, kukho imisebenzi ekufuneka beyenzile, njengokucoca igumbi labo lokulala, ukuphosa iimpahla ezimdaka zokuhlamba okanye ukulungisa izinto ezimdaka.
Izityalo ekhaya
Ingabonakala ngathi iyabhanxa kuwe kodwa ayifani kwaphela. Ukuhombisa amakhaya ngezityalo yindlela entle yokugcwalisa ikhaya ngokuzola kunye nemvisiswano. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ugcwalise igumbi ngalinye ngezityalo ezininzi okanye ngaphantsi kakhulu, kodwa kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba zeziphi izityalo ozozibeka, uzibeka phi kwaye bonwabele kwaye zonke izibonelelo abanazo kuwe nakumalungu osapho lwakho
Izityalo ziya kukunceda uvuselele ioksijini ekhayeni lakho ukuze uphefumle umoya omsulwa nococekileyo. Ngokuphefumla umoya ococekileyo uya kuziva uzolile, ungaxinzekanga kwaye uzimisele ukonwaba ngokweemvakalelo. Izityalo ngabahlobo bethu kwaye indalo ifuna kuphela okuhle kuthi. Kodwa kufuneka ubakhathalele! Kubalulekile ukuba usasaze imilinganiselo elungileyo ebantwaneni bakho, ukuba uzibophelela ekubeni nezityalo ekhayeni lakho kukuzikhathalela kwaye zikhule ngendlela esempilweni.
Hleka kunye
Ukuthetha iziqhulo, ukubukela iimovie ezihlekisayo, kunye nokufunda ukuzihleka kubaluleke kakhulu ekuhlakuleleni imvisiswano elungileyo ekhayeni naphakathi kwamalungu osapho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kwi-nucleus yosapho kukho uburharha kunye nokuqina phakathi kwabazali nabantwana naphakathi kwabantakwabo. Ukongeza, i-rose iluncedo kakhulu kuye wonke umntu kuba ukongeza ekubeni uziva kakuhle ngokwasemoyeni iyanceda ukomeleza amajoni akho omzimba kunye nokuphucula impilo yentliziyo.
Yitya okanye utye kunye yonke imihla
Kwangokunjalo, iishedyuli azikuvumeli ukuba utye kwaye utye kunye yonke imihla, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba isidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa onke amalungu osapho enze umzamo wokuchitha ixesha kunye kwaye onwabele ixesha kunye. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuba unabantwana abancinci, bobabini utata okanye umama kuya kufuneka balungelelanise iishedyuli ukuze bakufezekise kwaye ukuba unabantwana abadala, nonke kuya kufuneka nenze umgudu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana imvisiswano ekhaya kwaye ngakumbi ukomeleza ukudibana ngokweemvakalelo.
Imvisiswano yekhaya inokufumaneka kuphela ukuba ubudlelwane obuchaphazelekayo bunyanyekelwa kakuhle. Nokuba ungazama kangakanani ukulandela imigaqo yokuhombisa ukuze ube nekhaya ngokuvisisana, ukuba awuzinikelanga ekunyamekeleni uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo kunye nezibophelelo zothando phakathi kwawo onke amalungu osapho olunye, ngekhe kubekho mvisiswano ikhaya. Imvisiswano kunye neentshukumo ezilungileyo ziyaziva kwaye ziyaqondwa ngokusingqongileyo.
Yintoni enye ocinga ukuba kubalulekile ukuyithathela ingqalelo ukwenza imeko yosapho ehambelanayo? Bhala uphononongo lwakho!