Imfundo lilungelo elibalulekileyo labantwana elibandakanyiweyo kwiSibhengezo seHlabathi samaLungelo abaNtwana, njengoko sibonile kwinqaku "10 amalungelo asisiseko abantwana". Kwaye ayisiyiyo imfundo ebonwa njengokukhumbula idatha, kodwa imfundo ebanzi kuzo zonke iindawo, esekwe kumaxabiso kunye nezakhono ezenza ubomi bube lula kubo. Masibone ukuba zeziphi iintsika zemfundo ebantwaneni.
Ukuzithemba
Ukuzithemba iya kugqiba impilo yakho yeemvakalelo Kungenxa yoko le nto ibaluleke kangaka. Ichaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu kwaye ukuzithemba kwethu kuyenziwa kuba sibancinci. Amava ethu kunye nendlela esiwatolika ngayo enza ukuzithemba kwethu kulungile okanye kubi. Kwindima yokuzithemba kwabantwana thina bazali sinoxanduva olukhulu, singabo amanani okuncamathisela aphambili ezincinane banazo.
Imfundo kufuneka incede abantwana bafunde ukuzazi ngcono, bazixabise kwaye bazithande. Ukuphathwa ngolwimi oluchanekileyo ngaphandle kokuzigxeka okanye ulwimi olubi. Bafundise ukuba ngamnye wethu wahlukile kwaye ukhethekile, ukuba sinempawu zethu ezizodwa kwaye loo nto isenza sahluke.
Ungaphoswa linqaku "Ungakukhuthaza njani ukuzithemba ebantwaneni" apho ndicacisa nzulu ngakumbi ukuba nokuzithemba kubandakanya ntoni kwaye ungabanceda njani ukuba baphucule kwaye basebenze kuyo.
Iimpawu zentsulungeko
Ewe kunjalo, thina bazali kufuneka sihlolisise ukuba yeyiphi imilinganiselo esifuna ukuyityala ebantwaneni bethu kwaye siyisebenzele, kodwa Ootitshala banakho ukusebenza ngokuxabiseka kwigumbi lokufundela. Oku kuyakuqinisa ukufunda kwabo kwaye baya kwenziwa ngaphakathi, kuba baya kuyibona kwabanye abantwana njengesiqhelo.
Iimpawu ezifana nokubumbana, intlonipho, ububele, ukulingana… Yintoni abayenzayo ukulawula indlela esiziphatha ngayo kwicala elithile. Ngokokuxabiseka ebesinako kusapho lwethu, kuyakuba njalo xa sibadala.
Kwinqaku "Ukubaluleka kokufundisa ngexabiso" Ndikuxelela malunga neenqobo eziphambili ezikhoyo, ukuba zibuchaphazela njani ubomi bethu kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokufundisa ngexabiso.
Zobulumko
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa abantwana ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo. Enkosi kubantwana bakhe baya kuba nako ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo, ukwazi ukuba ungazithiya njani igama ngalinye, ukubazi kwabanye (okuphucula uvelwano) nokwazi ukuzikhuphela ngaphandle ngendlela esempilweni.
Ukubaluleka kwayo kukuba imfundo yeemvakalelo eya kuthi igqibe ngamathuba amakhulu okuba siza konwaba okanye hayi, njengoko sibonile kwinqaku "Imfundo yeemvakalelo: ingqikelelo yempumelelo ebomini". Iingxaki ezininzi zeemvakalelo ezikhoyo namhlanje kubantu abadala bezingayi kubakho enkosi kubukrelekrele beemvakalelo: uxinzelelo, ixhala, iziyobisi ... Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukubaqeqesha abo bakule ntsimi, baya kuba nempilo entle ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo, kwaye baya konwaba ngakumbi.
Ngale nto, ngokukhawuleza siqala ngcono. Sele ziqala ukubonakala ngathi iiklasi zangaphandle, nangona eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba ibisisifundo esimiselweyo sabo bonke abantwana bayo yonke iminyaka. Xa siqonda ukuba okona kubaluleke kakhulu ayisiyiyo idatha abayikhumbulayo kodwa indlela abazitolika ngayo iimeko abaphila kuzo kunye nendlela yokulawula ezo mvakalelo, siya kuyazi indlela yokunika ukubaluleka kwempilo yethu yeemvakalelo.
Isiphelo
Imfundo kufuneka ibonwe iphelele, ingekuko ukufunda nje ukuphindaphindwa kwetafile kunye nokukhumbula amanqaku. Kwaye oku kufuneka kubekho umsebenzi odibeneyo isikolo-sasekhaya-uluntu, apho imigca yomsebenzi yabelwana ngayo kubo bonke. Sele kubonisiwe ukuba kukho uhlobo olungaphezulu kolunye lobukrelekrele nangona imfundo iqhubeka ukugxila kwinye kuphela.
Inkwenkwe nganye kunye nentombazana nganye kufuneka ifundisiwe ukuze ifumane ubuninzi bayo ngaphakathi kweyantlukwano, ihloniphe amaxesha abo kwaye kufanele ukuba ibe yinto edibeneyo phakathi kosapho nesikolo. Funda idatha, iinkcubeko, inkqubela phambili, imbali kodwa nayo unyamezele ukukhathazeka, lawula umsindo kunye nentlungu yeshaneli. Fundani ukumanyana omnye nomnye, ukunganyatheli nabani na nokuhlonipha abanye kunye nesiqu sethu.
Kuba khumbula ... imfundo lilungelo elisisiseko labantwana.