Ngoku kushiyeke okuncinci ukuba ihlobo liphele kwaye abantwana baqala isikolo, kunokwenzeka ukuba nangona kusekho inyanga eshiyekileyo, intloko yakho sele iqala ukulungiselela iintsuku apho iindlela ziya kuba ngabahlobo bakho bemihla ngemihla kwakhona. Kodwa mhlawumbi nawe uqala ukucinga ukuba emva komhla wesikolo, ukuba ingangumbono olungileyo ukubhalisa abantwana bakho kwimisebenzi yangaphandle okanye ukuba kubhetele kunokuba.
Ukuze wazi ukuba ingaba luluvo oluqinisekileyo- okanye akunjalo- kufuneka ube nezinto ezithile zicace gca, kuba nangona unoxanduva lokuba umntwana wakho kufanele okanye angazenzi izinto zangaphandle okanye ukuba unako okanye awunakho uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho-, Lowo uya kuba nelizwi lokugqibela malunga nokuba uyenze okanye awuzukuyenza kuya kufuneka abe ngunyana wakho.
Lwabiwo mali
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyiqwalasele kwangaphambi kokuba uthethe nomntwana wakho malunga nokwenza izinto zangaphandle ngaphandle kweeyure zesikolo luhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho. Izinto ezenziwa emva kweeyure zesikolo azikho simahla kwaye ayizizo zonke ezinamaxabiso afanayo, kuba iya kuxhomekeka kuhlobo lomsebenzi, ubude bexesha kunye nalapho zenzeka khona.
Cinga ngezinto umntwana wakho afuna ukuzenza okanye ezo ucinga ukuba zingangumbono olungileyo kuye okanye ekukhuleni kwakhe, emva koko ucinge ngohlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho ngokuxhomekeke kwindleko nganye nganye. Ukuba ungavumela umntwana wakho / abantwana bakho ukuba benze imisebenzi yangaphandle emva kwenyanga kwaye bayavuma, iya kuba licebo elihle ngokuqinisekileyo. Kananjalo uqonde ukuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwemisebenzi yomntwana alufani, ukuba unabantwana ababini okanye abathathu kwaye bonke bafuna ukwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle, uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lungaphezulu kakhulu.
Umdla wabantwana
Ukuze abantwana bakho benze imisebenzi yangaphandle, enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kukuba bafuna ukuyenza. Ungaze ubanyanzele abantwana bakho ukuba benze imisebenzi yangaphandle ngenxa yokuba ucinga ukuba ilungile kubo kwaye awuthatheli ngqalelo uluvo lwabo, Ngale ndlela uya kubenza bazive ngathi abazenzi kwaye ungazonwabisi kwaye ungaziva ngathi yinto ebalulekileyo kubo.
Imisebenzi yangaphandle kufuneka ibe yimisebenzi ebanceda ukuba baphucule izakhono zabo mihla le, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, kufanele ukuba ibe zizinto abazithandayo ukuzenza. Ukuba umntwana wakho akacacanga okanye usemncinci kakhulu ukuba angazi ukuba yeyiphi imisebenzi athanda ukuyenza kakhulu, kuya kufuneka udlale ukuze ube ngumcuphi wakhe wabucala. Oko kukuthi, kuya kufuneka ujonge ukuba zeziphi izinto abanomdla kuzo, uzijongile yonke imihla. Unokufumanisa ukuba unomoya wokuyila, Into enkulu ukubhalisela imisebenzi yobugcisa yasemva kwesikolo, okanye ungayithanda imidlalo, kodwa yintoni enye into?
Kuyenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho afune ezinye iintlobo zemisebenzi yokufunda ukuze aqinise izakhono zesikolo, into ethi, ngolu hlobo, kufaneleke ukuba ithathele ingqalelo ukudibanisa nezinye izinto abanomdla kuzo kwaye bangaze bazive ngathi zibekiwe okanye unyanzelwe. Ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yecandelo langaphandle -nokuba nabo bayafunda-, kufuneka kuqala kwaye kuqala, afune ukuzenza.
Akuninzi kakhulu
Imisebenzi eyenziwa emva kwexesha ilungile ukuba nje ikwimilinganiselo efanelekileyo. Xa umntwana enemisebenzi emininzi yangaphandle, banokudinwa kakhulu emini okanye bazive bexinezelekile okanye bexhalabile. Abantwana badinga ixesha lokuba ngabantwana kwaye babaxakekisa kakhulu ngezinto zangaphandle ngekhe ibe yinto elungileyo.
Imisebenzi yangaphandle kufuneka ibe mbalwa phakathi evekini, ngokungathi inye kuphela. Okona kubalulekileyo kukuba loo misebenzi uyenzayo uyithanda kakhulu kwaye ikukhuthaze ukuba uzisebenzise ngokuchanekileyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ubeke phambili ukuba yeyiphi imisebenzi abantwana bakho abangayithanda kakhulu kwaye ungabeki kakhulu phezu kwabo nangona besenokuyithanda yonke. Bamele bakhethe abo banokubathanda kakhulu kwaye ke bayonwabele imisebenzi kakuhle. Baya kufunda ukubeka phambili kwaye baxabise umsebenzi abawenzayo.
Ixesha lamahala
Kodwa ukongeza ekubekeni phambili imisebenzi yangaphandle yabantwana bakho kunye nokukwazi ukukhetha izinto abazithandayo nabanomdla kuzo, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba abantwana badinga ixesha lokudlala, ukuba ngabantwana, ukuphumla kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuba icala lakho.
Ngesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantwana abazimase imisebenzi yecandelo langaphandle, Banalo nexesha lokwenza imisebenzi yokufunda kunye nokufundela ekhaya, ixesha lokudlala kunye nexesha lokuzonwabisa, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke ukuba nexesha lokuba ngokwakho kwaye ube secaleni kwakho.
Ixesha lasimahla nelingacwangciswanga libalulekile ebantwaneni ukuba baphuhlise ubuchule bokucinga kunye nokucinga, into ebaluleke ngakumbi kodwa ikwayimfuneko ukukwazi ukonwabela ezinye izinto ezinje ngemisebenzi yangaphandle.
Kwaye khumbula ...
Ukuba ucinga ukubhalisa abantwana bakho kwimisebenzi yasemva kwexesha lesikolo xa kufika uSeptemba, khumbula ukuba into yokuqala ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni luluvo lwabo, bazi ukuba bayayifuna nyani okanye abafuni ukuyenza, ungabanyanzeli into, yazi uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali onalo ekhaya ukuze bakwazi ukulwenza, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke balandele imidla yabo kwaye baziva bekhuthazekile ukwenza ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi. Ukuba uyabona ukuba abachazwanga, eyona nto intle kukuba ubancede bakhethe imisebenzi ocinga ukuba ingabanomdla kubo, ukhumbula ukuthanda kwabo kunye nezinto abanomdla kuzo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungagcini abantwana ngokweeyure ngezinto zangaphandle, kuba banokuziva ukuba bacaphukile, badiniwe, abanamnqweno wokwenza nantoni na, inokonakalisa intsebenzo yabo ezifundweni ... kungcono ukuba kukho imisebenzi embalwa kodwa ndiyayithanda
Ukuba uyaphumelela kwimisebenzi yangaphandle, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo baya kuba nezibonelelo kubo kuphela kuba izakhono zabo ziya kuphuculwa kwaye baya kuba nakho ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi na imisebenzi abayithandayo kakhulu okanye leyo ingaziva mdla kangako. Ngaba sele uyazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwezinto ezenziwa emva kwexesha oza kujolisa kuzo kubantwana bakho ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo?