Kuxhaphakile ukuphazamisa abantwana abancinci. Bafuna ukuviwa kwaye ukulinda akuyonto yabo eqinileyo. Bobabini abazali bafanele bakuqonde oku baze bafundise abantwana abancinane ukuba bangaphazamisi. Le ndlela Baya kuqonda ukuba baviwe kwaye bayaqondwa; kodwa kufuneka bahloniphe imithetho ethile yonxibelelwano ukuze baqonde ukuba emva kokulinda baya kuphulaphulwa.
Ukuba unomntwana ongenamonde ongakwaziyo ukulinda ngelixa uthetha nabanye abantu okanye xa usefowunini, ungawaphoswa la macebiso ngoba ukuqala namhlanje, yonke into izotshintsha. Nokuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuwulawula umnqweno wakhe wokuthetha nawe, Ngaphandle kokuba yimeko kaxakeka ungamnceda afunde ukulinda, kodwa ungayifumana njani?
Ulawulo lokuphazamiseka
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaphazamisa, ungazama ezinye okanye zonke ezi zilandelayo:
- Khumbuza umntwana wakho ngemithetho yonxibelelwano lwentsapho. Ngaphambi kokuba ufune ukuthetha kufuneka ucele imvume ngamagama angundoqo afana nala: 'Uxolo', ukuze waziswe ngexesha ekuya kufuneka ulinde.
- Xa umntwana wakho ethetha igama eliphambili, kufuneka uvuze ingqalelo yabo ngokukhawuleza ukuba wenza into elungileyo ukucela imvume yokuthetha.
- Ukuba uthetha nomntu, kufuneka athathele ingqalelo yakho ukuze wazi ukuba ulinde ukuba ugqibezele ukuze akuxelele oko kusengqondweni yakhe. Kodwa Ngaphantsi kweemeko kufuneka akhwaze okanye abize ingqalelo yakho ngeendlela ezimbi. ngokuba ayisayi kunyanyekelwa ngoko. Uya kuqonda ukuba xa wenza into elungileyo, uya kuyifumana ngokukhawuleza le nto uyifunayo.
- Bancome abantwana bakho xa bekwazi ukulinda emva kokuba becele imvume yokuthetha. Umzekelo, ukuba umxelela ukuba alinde umzuzwana ngelixa ugqibezela umnxeba wakho kwaye ayenze, ngoko kufuneka umdumise ngaloo nto, kuye linyathelo elikhulu.