Yintoni ukuqonda?
Ukuqiqa bubuchule baseNtshona obunenjongo ephambili Ukunxibelelana nemizimba yethu, ukuze siqonde ukuba zithini iimvakalelo zethu kunye neemvakalelo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba nengqondo Nika ingqalelo ngokupheleleyo kulo mzuzu wangoku, ungahoyi izigwebo zexabiso. Zama ukuyiqonda ngokupheleleyo into esiyenzayo kunye neemvakalelo ngalo lonke ixesha. ngengqondo evulekileyo.
Ngaphandle kweqela lokuphefumla, ukuphumla kunye neendlela zokucamngca, Ukuba nengqiqo yindlela yokuphila ezisa ukuzola ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni kubomi bethu.
Ukuziqhelanisa nengqiqo rhoqo Ibonelela ngeenzuzo ezininzi kwimpilo yabantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Ubuchule bakho kunye nemithambo Faka inxaxheba kwi ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla kunye namanqanaba okuxhalaba.
Ngaba ukuba nengqiqo kuyasebenza ebantwaneni?
Kanjalo. Ngelishwa kuluntu lwethu yonke into ingxamile kunye noxinzelelo kwaye, wonke umntu Sikhokela isantya esingenamdla kwimpilo yethu. Abantwana nabo bantywiliselwe kulo mjikelo wokubaleka imini yonke ngaphandle kokuba nexesha lokuma umzuzwana ukuziva kunye / okanye ukuphumla.
Injongo ephambili yokunyamekela abantwana bakhuthaze umdla ngehlabathi elibangqongileyo kwaye bafunde ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo, ezintle nezimbi. Enkosi ngengqondo, bantwana bayakhula kwaye bakhule ngendlela esempilweni nengenaxinzelelo kakhulu.
Ukuziphatha kwengqondo okanye "ingqwalasela epheleleyo" kunika iziphumo ezilungileyo kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka eyi-3 ubudala kuba kule minyaka abantwana baninzi kakhulu. ukwamkela iimvakalelo zomzimba.
Iinzuzo zokuqaphela abantwana
Iinzuzo zokuqaphela abantwana zininzi, zininzi kakhulu ezinye izikolo sele ziqalisile ukuyingenisa kwezazo amagumbi okufundela.
Ukuziqhelanisa nengqiqo rhoqo:
- Ukuphucula i ukuzazi kunye ukuzithiba
- Fundisa lawula kwaye uvakalise iimvakalelo
- Iphucula amanqanaba e ngqalelo, ingqalelo y imemori
- Yehlisa i ukuziphatha ngokungxama
- Iyaphucula i unxibelelwano kunye ukumamela ngokukhutheleyo
- Yenza i ngqondweni
- Iphucula izakhono zentlalo
- Ukuhla kwamanqanaba uxinzelelo y uxhalaba
- Iyaphucula i amandla okuhlola
Ukuqhelisela ukuba nengqondo njengentsapho
Ziqheliseni ukuba nengqiqo njengentsapho Yindlela yokwabelana ngexesha elisemgangathweni kunye nexesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nabantwana bakho. Ufuna nje kancinci ukuziqhelanisa, umonde nonyamezelo ukwenza lo mkhuba ube ngumkhwa kuwe.
Zininzi imithambo onokuziqhelanisa nabantwana bakho. Ezona zaziwa kakhulu zezi:"Ikona yokuzola", "Umdlalo wokuzola", "Singoosomajukujuku", "Ingqalelo, sithini izandi?", "Umthambo wesele", njl.
Ukuba unomdla wokufunda malunga nezi kunye nezinye iindlela ezilula kunye nezonwabisa zokuziqhelanisa nokukhumbula abantwana, ndincoma ukufunda "Ukuzola kwaye ubeke ingqalelo njengesele" ngu-Eline Snel (uMhleli Kairós).