Ndihlala ndizibuza Lizakuba nini elona xesha lokuba intombi yam iqale ukuthambisa. Xa iintombi zethu zincinci zinomdla wokwazi ukuba senzani ngalabo matshini benza ingxolo engako, kunye ne-tweezers ezijikeleze amashiya okanye ngokurhuqa amagwebu phantsi kwemilenze, besenza uhambo olumnandi. Ndithe iintombi zethu, nangona inyani kukuba abantwana banomdla wokuthambisa xa besebancinci nangona, ubuncinci kumava am, hayi kangako.
Apha ngezantsi ndiza kukuxelela izigqibo endifikelele kuzo ngokufunda malunga leliphi elona xesha lilungileyo lokuba amantombazana aqale ukuthambisa.
Ukufika kokufikisa
Ixesha lokuqalisa ukuthambisa liya kufika kunye nokufikisa. Okwangoku, umzimba wentombi yakho uya kuqala ukutshintsha. Intombi yakho inokufumana olo tshintsho kungekudala, phakathi kwe-8 okanye i-9 yeminyaka ubudala, okanye ingathatha ixesha elincinci kwaye ilibaziseke kude kube li-13 leminyaka.
Olunye lweempawu zokufikisa emantombazaneni kukukhula kwevumba lomzimba, amathupha amabele kunye nokuqala kokukhula kweenwele kwindawo ye-pubic kunye nendawo ye-armpit, kunye nokuqina kunye nobumnyama beenwele emilenzeni.
Kutheni le nto amantombazana kufuneka axile xa befika ebusheni
Isizathu sokukhula kwangoko kumantombazana kukuba baziva bengcono ngeziqu zabo. Ukufikisa kuyanzima ngokwaneleyo ukulibazisa into njengesiqhelo kwiindawo ezininzi zangoku njengokuthambisa.
Intombi yakho inokuza kuqala ize ikubuze malunga nokuthambisa. Ngeli xesha kubalulekile ukuba umkhathalele, umcebise kwaye unakekele ukususwa kweenwele ngokwakho.
Ukuba ubona ukuba akathethi kwanto kodwa ubona ukuba ukufikisa kuyinyani, kufanelekile ukuba ubukhulise. Isenokungathethi nto kuwe ngenxa yeentloni okanye kuba engayiqondi. Kodwa ukuba amantombazana akwisangqa sakhe sele eqalile ukukhula kwaye sele eqalile ukuthambisa, kubalulekile ukuba naye akwenze oko sukuba sisigculelo okanye ukuze bangamkhethi.
Yeyiphi eyona ndlela yokususa iinwele onokuthi uqale ngayo
Le yinto ekufuneka uzikhethele yona. Ndingayokucheba iintlungu nge-cream yokuphelisa (akukho blade) amaxesha ambalwa okuqala ndize ndiye kwi-wax. Ukuqala, ukususwa kweenwele kweengcambu kubuhlungu, kwaye andicingi ukuba ngumbandela wentlungu leyo kwintombazana leyo. Ngapha koko, ndicinga ukuba kufuneka simlinde ukuba ayicele.
Ngexesha ndingakhetha ukususwa kweenwele. Kodwa oku kuya kufuneka ulinde kude kudlule ixesha lokufikisa kwaye iinwele ziphuculwe ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba unomdla kwesi sihloko kwaye intombi okanye unyana wakho usemncinci, kuya kufuneka ubonane nogqirha oyingcali.
Akukho ngxaki! 🙂