Xa sithetha nabantwana asiliboni ixabiso kunye nobunzima abanamagama ethu kubo. Sithetha njengoko benzayo kuthi okanye ngendlela ezenzekelayo, ngaphandle kokubuza. Emva kokufunda eli nqaku, ndiyathemba ukuba uza kujonga indlela othetha ngayo nozibonisa ngayo kubantwana bakho, kangakanani Isiphumo sePygmalion ebantwaneni.
Yintoni umphumo wePygmalion?
Isiphumo sePygmalion sibhekisa kwi nefuthe kwabanye kuthi ngenxa yokulindela kwabo. Oko kukuthi, ngokulindelekileyo kunye neenkolelo zethu sinokufumana indlela yokuguqula ukusebenza kwabanye abantu.
Imvelaphi yayo ibuyela kwiintsomi zamaGrike, apho uKumkani wePygmalion engazange amfumane umfazi wobomi bakhe, akukho namnye owayefezekile ngokwaneleyo. Ukudinwa kukukhangela, wagqiba kwelokuba enze umfanekiso oqingqiweyo owawuza kubonisa umfazi wamaphupha akhe. Usebenza njengomfazi wokwenene: wamnxibisa, wamwola, wamanga ... Uthixokazi uAphrodite, uthixokazi wothando, oshukunyiswa leli bali wagqiba kwelokuba amenze umfazi wokwenene. Yiyo loo nto uKumkani uPygmalion wafumana umfazi wamaphupha akhe.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo malunga nefuthe lePygmalion ebantwaneni?
Esi siphumo sibaluleke kakhulu ebantwaneni, sifundwe ngakumbi kwinkalo yemfundo, apho ifuthe lolindelo lootitshala kwiziphumo zabafundi lufunyenwe. Ukuba siziva sixabisekile, sifumana ulindelo oluqinisekileyo kuthi, siya kuphumelela ukuba umntu akasithembi, nokuba umsebenzi uyafana.
Abantwana bakha ukuzithemba kwabo ngokulindela abanye ukuba bakwenze. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uyakusilela okanye akazokukwazi ukwenza into, iyakuba kukuba uyakukuthatha okulindelweyo njengenyaniso.
Isicelo kumagumbi okufundela
Olunye lwezifundo isiphumo sePygmalion saqhutywa eUnited States. Kwenziwa amaqela amabini abafundi: elinye linamanqaku aphezulu elinye linamanqaku asezantsi. Uphononongo lwenziwe ngobumfama kabini: abafundi okanye utitshala babengabazi ubunjani besifundo ukuze bangabinampembelelo kwiziphumo.
Kwaququzelelwa iziphumo eziguqulweyo kutitshala kuwo omabini la maqela, Oko kukuthi, iziphumo zamanqaku aphezulu zazenzelwe iqela lamanqaku asezantsi kwaye kungenjalo. Emva kwexesha lafunyanwa Iqela elinamanqaku aphezulu lafumana ukuhla kakhulu kwaye abo banamanqaku asezantsi bawonyusa amanqaku abo. Utitshala engaqondanga waba nefuthe kulindelo lwakhe malunga nokusebenza kwabafundi bakhe.
Isicelo sasekhaya
Ukuba uhlala uxelela umntwana ukuba babi, baya kuphelela ekubeni babi. Olo lulindelo onalo kuye, kwaye uyakuthatha ukuba yindima yakhe kwaye uya kuziphatha njalo. Kuya kufuneka sihlalutye ukuba myalezo mni esiwuthumela abantwana bethu, silindele ntoni kubo kwaye sifuna ukudlulisela kubo.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bobabini abazali kunye nabahlohli bawazi amagama esiwadlulisela ebantwaneni kunye nakwizimbo zomzimba ezihamba nabo, ukuze bangachukumisi amaphiko abo ekukhuleni kwabo. Kuya kufuneka sihlalutye ukuba loluphi ulindelo lokwenene esinalo malunga nabantwana bethu, into esiyilindeleyo kubo, ukuba sifuna ukuba benze into ethile ngenxa yokuba singakwazanga ukuyenza okanye ukuba siphila kubo.
Abantwana abakho apha ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zethu. Bangabantu abahlukileyo, abanokuthanda, izakhono, ubuchule kunye neenjongo ezinokuthi zahluke kwezethu. Kuya kufuneka senze umsebenzi omninzi wangaphakathi ukubona ingcambu yezinto esizilindeleyo ebomini, uthando kunye nosapho. Amaxesha amaninzi siphinda iipatheni ngaphandle kokungabaza, yile nto basifundisa yona kwaye siyayenza. Kodwa kunokuba nefuthe elibi kwinto ebalulekileyo njengokuzithemba komntwana wakho, ukukhula kwengqondo, kunye nempumelelo ebomini.
Kufuneka sivelise izinto esizilindeleyo kwabanye nakuthi ukuba nokuzithemba okusempilweni kunye nokwandisa ukuzithemba kwethu.
Kuba khumbula ... impumelelo okanye ukusilela komntwana wakho kuya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kulindelo kuye.