Ngokuqinisekileyo uyibonile le vidiyo ukuba malunga neveki enesiqingatha eyadlulayo (mhlawumbi ngaphezulu) yaduma kangaka. Unayo apha ngezantsi kodwa imalunga nosana olukhala lungathuthuzeleki (lodwa phezu komhlaba); Ndifundile ukutolika okungu-2, okuyile: umama usekuhambeni, kwaye umama uphume "ebaleka". Kwimeko nayiphi na into incinci kakhulu (iinyanga ezi-3), kwaye ujongene nezimvo ezithile ezinobubele (zohlobo "oh intle kanjani!") Ndikubona kungeyomfuneko kwaphela kutata ukuba arekhode isililo esingacacanga ngelixa echaza amava akhe.
Ndikubona kungeyomfuneko, kuba ukubamba umntwana ngelixa emncinci kakhulu, ajike abe sisenzo esingokwemvelo, isenzo sendalo esifanele ukuba siqheleke. Ukuthabatha kukuxutywa, Kwaye kubonisiwe ukuba kunezibonelelo ezininzi. Ukuba sezandleni zikamama okanye umnakekeli ophambili kuyaphumla kwaye kubuyisela ukuphefumla emva kokukhala. Yenye yeendlela abuzwa ngazo wonke umama okhoyo ngoku, kuba sihlala singqongwe ngabantu abanika izimvo ngaphandle kwesiseko (kwaye ngaphandle kokufuna ngokwenene ukunceda); Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kweemeko zomzimba (ngamanye amaxesha sineentlungu ezininzi zangasemva), akufuneki kubekho zithintelo ekubeni kunye kwaye ungabambi umntwana omncinci kangako.
Ayisiyomlingo: yimpendulo kwisidingo sokuqala.
Ngendlela efanayo nokondla umntwana kuyayeka ukulamba kunye nokungazinzi, xa uyithatha ezandleni zakho, imeko-bume enobuhlobo inokwenzeka ukuba iyinxalenye yokukhumbuza ubomi be-intrauterine. Iintlobo zethu zifuna iinyanga ezili-9 ngaphezulu "kunxibelelwano olusisigxina" ukugqibezela ukukhula kwesibeleko, kwaye ithuku langaphambili loomama alilunganga. Ngokwahlukileyo, iindibano zentlalo zihlala zixhomekeke kwifashoni, ke azithembekanga.
Iingalo zihlala zisombulula isikhalo esingenakubangelwa yindlala, ukubanda, ukungonwabi; Ewe, iintsana ziyaziqhelanisa nezinto eziluncedo kuzo, ngubani ongayi kuthi? Ngapha koko, ngokuchasene nento eqhele ukuthethwa, ukunxibelelana ngokusisigxina akukuthinteli ukuzimela kobuqu. Ukuba kukho into esonwabisayo, kutheni uyala?
Oku kungokunxibelelana komzimba kunye nevumba ...
Ingabonakala ngathi uthetha izinto ezingathandekiyo, kodwa uyakuqonda nje ukuba ubukele ividiyo: njengoko bendikulindele ukuba umntwana uyakhala, kuthiwa kungenxa yokungabikho kukanina. Ejongane nale meko, utata wabuza umhlobo, wathi into enje "mphathele ingubo kunina." UKUYAXa isenza njalo, isidalwa sincamathele kuyo kwaye sithobe, sibonisa ukuthanda kwaso. Kwaye bayakwazi ukuliqonda ivumba likamama.
Ukubonakaliswa endikucacisileyo xa ndabona ividiyo yayikwindlela yokuba mhlawumbi utata bekufanele ukuba umfunqule ukuze amthuthuzele. Okanye mhlawumbi ukwenzile Kwaye yayingenamsebenzi ungako (nangona ngokuqinisekileyo yayiya kuba ngcono kunokuba imyeke akhale). Xa ndifunda ezi ndaba, Bendicinga ukuba utata uyaphosisa ngokunika amava akhe njengeyona ngcebiso yakhe iphambili, kuba nangona ndingaboni kuphosakeleyo ukuzisa ivumba likamama kufutshane (njengoko izinto zenguqu ngamanye amaxesha zisondela emntwaneni): ingcebiso yokuqala esebenzayo yokungabikho komama loo mzuzu, kufanele ukuba uyithathe, kwaye uyigcine ecaleni komzimba wakho, okoko umntwana efuna.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, sinokuyicinga loo nto Ukuba siqaqambisa iimfuno zomnye nomnye, ezo zomncinci kufuneka zilinganise ngaphezulu, akunjalo?
Umntwana okwividiyo mncinci kakhulu kwaye ke kubuhlungu kakhulu ukumyeka akhale ...
Inyani yile yokuba umba wokulila kwabantwana abancinci kuba bekhumbula umama wabo okanye ukuba kufuneka bavunyelwe ukuba bakhale ukuze baqhele umba obaluleke kakhulu kusapho ngalunye. Kwimeko yam, ndithathe isigqibo sokwenza into endikholelwa ukuba ichanekile kwimeko nganye, kuba andinakho ukuhoya wonke umntu onoluvo kukhathalelo lwabantwana bam….
Molo Maria, enkosi kakhulu ngezimvo zakho. Ndiyavumelana nawe ukuba ngekhe kufaneleke ukumamela izimvo zendalo, kuba into ekufuneka yenziwe ngabo basingqongileyo kukuzama ukuqonda ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba ngumzali.
A ubingelele.