Uqhawulo-mtshato alukho lula nakubani na, hayi eyabantu abadala abahlukanisiweyo okanye abantwana abaphethwe ziziphumo zabazali abayeke ukufuna ukuba kunye. Kuyimfuneko ukuba abazali, nokuba zithini iimeko zabo zobuqu, baqonde ukuba bangabazali kwaye banabantwana ngokufanayo abaya kuxhomekeka kubo ukuze bakwazi ukuqhubela phambili nokuvela kuyo yonke imiba.
Nje ukuba oku kuthathelwe ingqalelo, kufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni ezinye zezinto ezingafanelekanga ukuba zithethwe ebantwaneni xa uza kuqhawula umtshato, Ngenxa yakho nangenxa yakhe!
Baxelele ubuxoki
Akukho mzali ufuna ukukhathaza abantwana bakhe, ngamanye amaxesha okwenza ukuxoka kubonakale ngathi yinto elungileyo. Ngelixa ungafuna ukubathintela ekubandezelekeni, ukuxoka akusoloko kuyinto elungileyo kuba ekugqibeleni kuyaphula ukuthembana. Oko kwathethileyo, kuya kufuneka wabelane ngolwazi olulinganayo nobudala kunye nabantwana bakho, kwaye into owabelana ngayo kufuneka ixhomekeke kubudala babo kunye nokukhula ngokweemvakalelo.
Ingcebiso elungileyo kukuba usebenze kwisiseko sokwazi; Sikela umda kwinto owabelana ngayo nokwenzekayo malunga nobomi bomntwana wakho, hayi eyakho!
Benze izithembiso ezingenanto
MUSA ukwenza izithembiso… ingakumbi izithembiso ongasokuze uzigcine! Sonke sinetyala lokuhlawula ngaphezulu xa sizama ukubuyekeza abantwana bethu, kodwa ngokuthembisa umhlaba ukuba uya kuzama ukunciphisa ityala labo, uyakumenza umntwana wakho azive engcono okomzuzwana. Kwaye, iya kubuya ngomlilo xa uthembisa kancinane.
Menze azive ebambekile phakathi kwakho ne ex yakho
Kungokwemvelo ukuba nobabini kunye nekamva lakho langaphambili niza kujongana kwiinyanga nakwiminyaka ezayo, kodwa gcinani engqondweni ukuba xa nifumana ukungqubana, abantwana benu abasayi kuba sembindini ... akufuneki babekho embindini we wena. Kuya kufuneka ugcine iintliziyo kunye nabo ngentlalo-ntle yabo yeemvakalelo kunye nengqondo yokujongana xa kufanelekile ... Nangona kusoloko kufanelekile ngakumbi ukwenza uqhawulo-mtshato lube lolonwabisayo ukuze kulunge kubo bonke.