Ukufika kosana lixesha lokonwaba nolonwabo. Kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo abazali bexesha elizayo kuya kufuneka benze njalo lungiselela ukufika kosana lwakho. Ingalixesha elididayo, kuba kwimarike kukho izinto ezingenakubalwa zincinci yendlu kodwa ngokucacileyo asizokwazi ukuthenga yonke into. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndigqibe kwelokuba ndibelane nawe ngolu luhlu Izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufikeni kosana lwakho. Makhe sibone ukuba zintoni.
Abazali, ngakumbi abazali abatsha, banokuxhalaba xa befumanisa oko zingaphi izinto ezikhoyo kwiintsana. Ngaba usana lwam luya kuyidinga yonke le nto? Zeziphi kwezi zinto zibalulekileyo kwaye zeziphi eziyimfuneko ngokwenene? Ezinye zezi zinto ziya kwenza ubomi bakho bube lula kodwa azidingeki kwaphela.. Ukongeza, izinto zomntwana zihlala zibiza kakhulu kwaye ayisiyonto yokuthenga ukuba kutheni ungazisebenzisi. Nalu uluhlu lwezinto ezibalulekileyo zokufika komntwana wakho, ukuze wazi umahluko phakathi kwento ebalulekileyo nengabalulekanga.
Izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufikeni komntwana wakho
- Ibhedi okanye ibhedi. Ukuba ekhaya apho umntwana azolala khona kwiinyanga zokuqala. Ukuthatha isigqibo phakathi komnye okanye komnye kuya kuba ngumcimbi wendawo kunye noqoqosho. Ii-Cradles zithatha indawo encinci kodwa ziyeke ukusebenza kungekudala. Kwimarike kukho ezinye eziguqukayo kunye nomntwana. Kuya kuxhomekeka ekubeni ulala kunye okanye hayi. Ngokucacileyo ukulala kwebhedi okanye indawo yokulala iya kuba yenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo.
- kwinqwelo othengela kuyo. Kwimarike kukho iimodeli ezingenakubalwa kunye namaxabiso, kuya kufuneka ubone ezona zilungele iimfuno zakho. Ezona zisebenzayo zezika-3 ku-1, eziza nesihlalo, i-carrycot kunye ne-maxicosi. Enye into ebalulekileyo yingxowa yetroli, apho unokuhambisa khona zonke izinto zakho. Ukuba nenkululeko engakumbi, ukuba awufuni ukuya naphi na kwinqwelo, kukuthenga umntwana ophetheyo. Kukho iintlobo ezininzi (oobhaka, iibhegi zamagxa, izikhafu ...) ungazama eyona ikulungeleyo. Uya kuba nenkululeko engakumbi yokuhamba, ngelixa usana lwakho lusondele kuwe.
- Isihlalo semoto. Kukho iimodeli ezingenakubalwa ezixhomekeke kwiimpawu zemoto yakho nakuqoqosho lwakho. Ngokufanelekileyo, iya kuba yinto eya kubakhonza ixesha elide njengoko abantwana bekhula ngokukhawuleza.
- Umngeni. Iya kuba yindawo apho utshintsha amanabukeni wosana lwakho, eya kuba maninzi. Qiniseka ukuba iitafile ezitshintshayo zikubude obutofotofo, kukho indawo eyoneleyo kwaye unayo yonke into oyifunayo kufutshane ukuze ungashiyi usana lodwa umzuzwana (amanabukeni, iisuli, izithambiso, iimpahla ezicocekileyo ...). Kukwakho nezinye iluncedo kakhulu ekutshintsheni iitafile kuba xa ukude nekhaya.
- Igumbi lokuhlambela. Kukho iindlela ezintle kakhulu zokulungisa ibhafu okanye ishawa ukuze ukwazi ukuhlamba umntwana wakho ngokukhuselekileyo. Jonga ukhetho kwaye ukhethe olukufaneleyo. Uyakufuna iitawuli ezithambileyo ukomisa umntwana wakho, kunye neziponji kunye neegel.
- Isando. Ingabonakala ngathi iyasebenziseka, kodwa xa unayo uyabona ukuba iyimfuneko kangakanani. Uya kuyisebenzisa kakhulu, ukusukela ngexesha umntwana engalaliyo awunakuhlala umbambe ezingalweni zakho. Ngolu khetho umntwana uya kuba nakho ukubona okwenzekayo ngeenxa zonke kuwe kwaye unganxibelelana naye. Uya kuyithanda kwaye nawe.
- Iimpahla zomntwana. Kuxhomekeke kwixesha lonyaka uzakufuna izinto ezithile okanye ezinye. Izinto eziyimfuneko yimizimba. Amabala ngokulula kakhulu ngexesha lotshintsho lwe-diaper ngenxa yoko kuya kufuneka unezimbalwa ukuzisindisa. Abanye ke ngokweqondo lobushushu ngelo xesha. Ingubo okanye i-lullaby iya kuza ilungele ukumbamba xa imncinci kakhulu, kwaye iipyjama ziyimfuneko.
- Izithambiso, amanabukeni kunye nosula. Iisuli zilungele ukushiya xa ungekho ekhaya, kwaye ngaphakathi usebenzisa amanzi kunye nejeli ethambileyo. Amafutha e-Butt aya kuthintela ukucaphuka.
- Ikama, ithemometha kunye nezikhonkwane zezikhonkwane. Ezinye izinto eziyimfuneko kusana lwakho. Khumbula ukuba oogqirha babantwana abacebisi ukusika iinzipho zosana lwakho kude kube semva kwenyanga.
- Iipacifiers kunye neebhotile. Ungalifunda inqaku «Ungayikhetha njani eyona bhotile ingcono kunye nengono», ukukunceda kukhetho lwakho.
Kuba khumbula ... ukuba unokuphinda usebenzise ezinye zezi zinto kumhlobo okanye kwilungu losapho, uya konga imali eninzi.