Ukuba umntwana wakho uqeqesho lwamanzi, Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuba yinkqubo yendalo enesingqisho sayo. Sukungxama kuba awukwazi ukuyikhawulezisa inkqubo, umntwana wakho ufuna ixesha lakhe kwaye uyamhlonela. Kuya kufuneka ulinde yena ukuba alungele kwaye wazi ukuba uzokuzikhulula nini ukuze umfundise ukuba angenza phi kwaye zeziphi ezempilo ekufuneka zilandelwe.
Ukongeza, ukuba wazi xa kufuneka ezikhulule, xa esenza kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukuba uyazi ukuba usecaleni lakhe ukuze umfundise kwaye ungaze umnyanzele ... Emva koko, kuya kufuneka wazi okunye izinto zokwenza ukuba kube lula kwaye kungabikho xinzelelo. Ngokuzola nentlonipho kwindaleko yayo, yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle.
Nikeza indawo yokuchama okanye yangasese
Kuya kufuneka uvavanye ukuba yeyiphi eyona ndlela ilungileyo kuba kukho abantwana abangafuni potty kuba bayifumana ingathandeki kwaye bakhetha ukusebenzisa iadaptha kunye namanyathelo athile kwindlu yangasese yabantu abadala. Nokuba yintoni, Kuya kufuneka ube secaleni kwakhe ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo.
Fumana isihlalo sangasese osithandayo
Izihlalo ezisongelayo zinezihlalo zangasese eziqhelekileyo kunye nesihlalo esincinci sokuthuthuzela kwakho. Abanye abantwana baya kusithanda isihlalo esenza umculo xa kufakwe into kuso. Kufuneka ukhethe phakathi kwezihlalo zangasese ezimbini kwaye uya kuba nezinto ezininzi onokukhetha kuzo.
Sebenzisa amaxesha aqhelekileyo ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese okanye umchamo
Into yokuqala ekuseni, emva kwesidlo sakusasa, ngaphambi kokutya, ngaphambi nasemva kwesidlo sasemini, ngaphambi kokushiya indlu, njl. Kulula njengokusetha iiyure ezithile, ukukhapha umntwana wakho kunye nokuhlala naye phantsi ukuze avavanye. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba ubonakalisa iimpawu zokufuna ukuchama (njengokujuxuza) okanye ukungcungcuthekisa (ukuqina), kuyakufuneka umthathe nangona engacwangciswanga. Mkhuthaze ukuba akwazi ukumamela iimpawu zomzimba wakhe.
Xa usebenzisa indlu yangasese okanye umchamo ...
Xa sele uyisebenzisile, danisa kwaye ubhiyozele loo nto inkulu! Kodwa xa iyenza kube kanye okanye kabini kakuhle, sukucinga ukuba ilungile, ifuna ukuziqhelanisa ngakumbi kwaye yinkqubo ende, Ngoku iyaqala!
Kuza kubakho iingozi
Sukuchaza ukudana ukuba kukho ukuvuza okanye "iingozi" okanye umntwana wakho uza kukhathazeka kakhulu kwaye uya kuvukela kule meko okanye anikezele kwaye angafuni ukuqhubeka nokusebenzisa indlu yangasese okanye umchamo. Khumbula, akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva ngathi uyasilela. Ke ukuba le yindlela oziva ngayo, awunako nokuzama. Emva koko phendula kwiingozi ngokunyusa amagxa akho kwaye ngoncumo olufudumeleyo: Ewe, iingozi zisinceda sifunde. Kungekudala uza kuyenza indlu yangasese ngalo lonke ixesha. Masingene ngaphakathi sizame kwakhona ”.
Ukuvuza okanye iingozi linyathelo elifanelekileyo
Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba ukubaleka yeyona ndlela ilungileyo xa umntwana wakho enokufunda kubo ngaphandle kokudimazeka (Oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kokuba umgxeke ngenxa yako). Ukuba umntwana wakho uyiqaphele ingozi kwakamsinya nje ukuba iqale, kodwa akayenza kwindlu yangasese, ungathetha into efana nale: «Uyiqaphele kwangoko xa uqala ukuchama! Kuhle kuwe! Siya kwigumbi lokuhlambela xa kunokwenzeka kuphume okungakumbi. Emva koko siya kuyicoca kunye. Uqaphele xa ufuna indlu yangasese! Ngexesha elizayo xa isenzeka, uya kuyibona kwakamsinya kwaye uye kwigumbi lokuhlambela! "
Yiba nehlombe kodwa ungaze ubonakalise ukuba ndlongondlongo
Ubundlongondlongo abamkelekanga kwimfundo yabantwana. Ungaze wohlwaye okanye ungamkeli umntwana wakho xa efumene ingozi okanye uyakwenza into ephikisayo kwaphela. Sukuwenza umzabalazo wamandla, kuba yinkqubo yendalo kwaye kufuneka uhloniphe izingqisho zawo.
Ukuba ukhupha ibhlukhwe yakhe ...
Ukuba umntwana wakho upopota kwiibhlukhwe zakhe, musa ukuba nomsindo okanye umohlwaye. Mkhuthaze nje ukuba ayenze kwindawo yokuchama okanye yangasese kwixesha elizayo, ukwenza oku, thatha umbungu kwiibhulukhwe zakhe (inokuba ineiglavu zeplastiki) embizeni okanye kwindlu yangasese ngelixa uxelela omncinci wakho ukuba umbungu kufuneka uye khona.
Yenze umkhwa
Ekuqaleni, umntwana wakho uya kufuna uncedo ekuqondeni imiqondiso yokuba lixesha lokuya kwindlu yangasese. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba uyaphola, okanye uqala ukuqaba emva kwesofa okanye phantsi kwetafile (ujonge ubumfihlo) kuya kufuneka umkhumbuze. Njalo xa umntwana wakho efumanisa kwaye ekuxelela ukuba kufuneka asebenzise indlu yangasese, nangona engabonakali ngexesha, lithuba lokuncoma inkqubela yakho kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Ngaba i-diapers ngamaxesha athile kutyalo-mali olulungileyo?
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali basebenzisa amanabukeni xa bephuma ukuthintela abantwana ekufumaneni iingozi okanye ukubaleka ngaphandle kwekhaya ukuze iimpahla zabo zingangcoli. Kodwa kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthathe utshintsho olusecaleni kwimeko enokwenzeka. Ukugcoba iimpahla kunye nempahla yangaphantsi yinxalenye yokufunda, ke ukuba ukwinkqubo yokuthabatha amanabukeni emntwaneni wakho, iyabasusa ngokupheleleyo, hayi ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha. AKUKHO xa ikulungele kakhulu, kufuneka uyihlonele isingqisho sayo kwaye ukuba uqala, kungcono ungathathi manyathelo ubuye umva kuba banokuba ziindlela eziphosakeleyo.
Uluhlu lweengxaki
Ulawulo lwee Pee luqhele ukwenziwa kuqala. Ukuba umntwana wakho unolwazi lokuchama kwindlu yangasese xa echama kodwa hayi ngenxa yendle, mhlawumbi woyika indlu yangasese kwaye ufuna ukuqinisekiswa. Okanye, uqhele uvakalelo lokuhlala kunye ufuna inkxaso engakumbi phantsi kweenyawo zakho ukuze ukwazi ukuyenza ngokuchanekileyo.
Kuthekani ukuba uyoyika ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese?
Ukuba umntwana wakho woyika igumbi lokuhlambela, kuya kufuneka umncedise kolo loyiko. Imidlalo, iingoma ... nayiphi na indlela yokudlala yokusebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela ukwenza kube mnandi ngakumbi kunokuba yindlela elungileyo yokusebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela ngolonwabo. Kwinyani, abantwana abathandi okanye abafuni ukuba lusizi okanye boyike ... Bakulungele ukonwaba nanini na!
Kwaye khumbula ... ungaze, phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, ukuba umcinezele ukuba asebenzise indlu yangasese okanye igumbi lokuhlambela.