Izipho zeKrisimesi. Sele unazo? Ngokuqinisekileyo Okwangoku uzakube ucinga malunga nokuba ukhethe ntoni kubancinci endlini. Unyaka nonyaka sineentandabuzo ezifanayo kunye nezinto ezifanayo. Ngaba sikhetha enye into efundisayo okanye into abantwana bethu abasicele ukuba siyenze? Zombini, kodwa… kuthekani ukuba siyagqitha sibanike "kakhulu"?
Izipho esizinika abantwana kufuneka zinganeli nje kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, kodwa nakwizinto ezibavumela ukuba bakhule, bonwabe, khuthaza ukucinga kunye nokubethelela kwixabiso elithile. Podemos ser variados y sobre todo, no limitarnos solo a obsequios «materiales». En Madres Hoy queremos darte 8 sugerencias que os encantarán.
Izipho ezimangalisayo-amava ahlukileyo
Kufuneka sicace gca: uninzi lwabantwana balindele iKrisimesi ngezipho nezipho ezinxulumene neli xesha lonyaka. Ngoku, kufuneka sikhumbule into ebalulekileyo: Okona kuya kuhlala entliziyweni yakho kuya kuba ngamava anentsingiselo kunye neemvakalelo ezilungileyo phambi kwezinto ezibonakalayo.
Ukwenza oku, ukufumana abantwana bakho ukuba babe neKrisimesi abangayi kuyilibala, gcina engqondweni esinye sezona zipho zinconywayo:
- Nika abantwana bakho amava amatsha kwinkampani yakho ongazange ube nawo ngaphambili.
- Yothusa yena. Nxibelelana namava kusuku olungaphambi kokuba uye kukwenzaKe, ifuthe leemvakalelo liphezulu.
- Amava angaba luhambo, ukukhwela ihashe, ukuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa kwiintaba zokukhempisha, ukuya kwipaki yemixholo ekufutshane ...
Izipho ezimangalisayo: ukukhula usuku kunye nokufunda ukwenza izigqibo
Esi sesinye sezipho esinokunika abantwana bethu njengomngeni. Umceli mngeni apho kufuneka ubonise ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Bonisa ukukhula.
- Bonisa uxanduva.
- Imvelaphi
- Ukucinga
- Ukuhlonipha abanye
Siya ku Nika abantwana bethu usuku apho baya kuba ngabo abazakwenza izigqibo. Lusuku lwabo lokudlala ekubeni ngabantu abadala apho ekuphela komgaqo oya kuba kunye nathi, nabantu abadala.
- Bayakukhetha abazokutya emini kwaye baya kuthatha inxaxheba ekulungiseleleni ukutya.
- Bathatha isigqibo sokuba benze ntoni emini, apho imisebenzi idibanisa onke amalungu endlu.
Izipho ezimangalisayo: umhla wesisa
Sinike abantwana bethu usuku loxanduva kwaye ngoku, siza kubapha esinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo zokugxininisa kwixabiso elibalulekileyo: isisa.
- Ukusukela ngexesha umntwana evuka ebhedini, kuya kufuneka uhlakulele ububele bakho xa kunokwenzeka.
- Isenzo ngasinye asenzayo siya kubhalwa phantsi kwincwadi yokubhalela. Inokuba ngumdlalo omnandi phakathi kwabantakwenu.
- Banokuba nesisa xa kufikwa ekwenzeni imisebenzi yasekhaya, besinceda.
- Xa bephuma, kufuneka babone ukuba zeziphi iimeko abanokunika ngazo uncedo.
Ngumcimbi nje wokubenza babonakalise.
Izipho eziMangalisayo: Ukwazisa nge-Eco
Esi sesinye sezona zipho zihle kakhulu ekufuneka wonke umama okanye utata anike umntwana wabo ngaxa lithile. Yinto elula njengokutyala umthi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ekhaya sele betyalile iilentile eziqhelekileyo okanye ii-chickpeas ukuzibona zikhula.
Kule meko, sijonge into enomdla ngakumbi. Ukutyala umthi kuya kuwukhulisa unyaka nonyaka, Iya kuba yinkumbulo abaya kuhlala beyigcina.
Izipho eziMangalisayo: Masenze ubuchule!
Siza kunika abantwana bethu ithuba lokuba bandise izakhono zabo zokuyila. Akufanele silibale ukuba ubuchule bokuyila ikwayindlela yenkululeko, kwaye akukho nto ingcono kunokuba "ujike ingqondo yabo" kunokubanika amava amatsha.
- Bathathe baye kumyuziyam okanye kumboniso.
- Banike izinto ezintsha zokudala abangazifumananga ngaphambili: udongwe, ukumodela amaphephandaba, amalaphu, ikhadibhodi, ukhuni ...
- Bakhuthaze ukuba benze into ehlala ihleli, into ekumele bayikhumbule ngalo mhla.
Izipho ezimangalisayo: incwadi
Impazamo esihlala siyenza kwaye ephindaphindiweyo ezikolweni kukunyanzelisa izihloko ezithile zoncwadi ebantwaneni ukuze bafunde. Ukufunda akufuneki kunyanzeliswe, kufuneka kufunyaniswe, kwaye ukuze abantwana bafunde iincwadi ngokukhululekileyo, kufuneka banikwe amava amatsha.
Ukuba abantwana bethu basibona sifunda, baya kuyibona njengesiqhelo ukuba baya kugqibela bengena ngaphakathi, nangona kunjalo, singanikezela usuku kwezi holide ukukhuthaza "ukuzifumanisa kwabo."
- Siza kubasa kwivenkile ethengisa iincwadi size sibavumele bakhethe incwadi abayifunayo, kodwa phantsi kwemeko enye: ukuba bakhethe le bacinga ukuba ilungele ukuthanda kwabo kunye nobuntu babo.
- Siza kubakhuthaza ngokungathi olo khangelo ngumdlalo, "fumana ubuncwane."
- Ungathandabuzi ukubasondeza kwiincwadi zemifanekiso ezinesitayile sehlaya. Yindlela yokusondela ekufundeni njengayo nayiphi na enye, kwaye linyathelo lokuqala elinokukuvulela umhlaba omtsha.
Izipho ezimangalisayo: ukufumanisa ukuba ndingubani
Esinye sezona zipho zixabisekileyo ekufuneka sizinike abantwana bethu kukuba usuku nosuku bazive bezifumanisa. Simele siyikhumbule loo nto Yindlela ende apho singaze sibanyanzele ngento ekufuneka beyiyo iinjongo zethu.
Injongo yethu njengoomama, ootata kunye nabafundisi-ntsapho kukukhokela kunye nokunikezela ngeendlela ukuze inyathelo ngalinye abalithabathayo, benze njalo ngovuyo nangokuqola. Ungoyiki ukuba nangawuphi na umzuzu bayazenza iimpazamo, kuzo zonke iimpazamo kufunyenwe ukufunda.
- Siza kunikezela usuku kubantwana bethu ukuze bazazi. Kwaye oku, siya kubabuza ukuba bacinga ukuba baya kuba yintoni ngomso.
- La mava kufuneka alungiselelwe kwangaphambili, kwaye ukuba ahamba kakuhle angaphakamisa nina nobabini njengoko kumnandi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukuxelele ukuba ufuna ukuba ngusomajukujuku, siya kumsa kumhloli-mkhanya. Ukuba ufuna ukuba ngugqirha wezilwanyana, siza kuya kumyezo wezilwanyana.
- Kangangoko kunokwenzeka, siya kubasondeza kwezo meko bazikhethileyo kwaye siza kucacisa kancinci ukuba ziqulathe ntoni.
Eli liva lijolise ngaphezulu kwako konke ukudibanisa imemori. Ukubonisa umdla kumaphupha nakwiminqweno yabantwana bakho kudibanisa ukuzola okukhulu ngokweemvakalelo kwaye yinto eya kuhlala ikhunjulwa. Kwaye akukho sipho silunge ngakumbi kunenkumbulo emnandi.
Izipho eziMangalisayo: Ukuzingelwa kobuncwane
Ngokukhangela ubuncwane siza kukhuthaza kubantwana bethu amandla obudlelane bosapho nothando kwabo bayinxalenye yesangqa sikufutshane kwezentlalo.
Sisipho esidinga ixesha kunye nobunzima babazali, oomalume nootatomkhulu. Okanye, eneneni, abona bantu basondeleyo nabathandekayo bomntwana.
- Umdlalo uya kubandakanya ukushiya ileta ebhedini yomntwana. Xa uvuka, uya kufumanisa ukuba kukho isipho esikulindileyo, kodwa ukuze usifumane kufuneka uphumelele iimvavanyo kuqala.
- Uvavanyo ngalunye luya kukusa kwilungu losapho. Injongo kukuba umntu ngamnye ukukunika umkhondo omtsha emva kokuchitha imizuzu embalwa nabo, kwaye ubabalisele ibali elithile. Oomakhulu nootatomkhulu banokuchaza ukuba kwakuthetha ntoni ukuzalwa kwakhe, uvuyo xa umbona okokuqala, okanye ii-anecdotes ezinxulumene nezo ntsuku.
- Ilungu ngalinye losapho liya kukubonisa ukuba kuthetha ntoni kubo ngebali. Ngale nto, sinika ukwamkelwa emntwaneni, siqinisa ukuzithemba kwakhe kwaye sichaza imiba mhlawumbi ebengayazi kwaye eya kuhlala eyikhumbula.
Ekugqibeleni, ngomkhondo welungu ngalinye losapho, umntwana uya kuphelela ekufumaneni eso sipho simkhethileyo. Senza ngathi ekugqibeleni uvavanye okona kunomdla ngakumbi, isipho esibonakalayo ngokwaso okanye abantu abakuthandayo abanike sona.
Zeziphi iziphakamiso ezintle uValeria, ndiyathemba ukuba bonke oomama nootata bangacebisa ukuba bangasiniki ngaphezulu kwesibini (okanye isi-3) sezinto eziphathekayo, kwaye sigxile ngakumbi kuphuhliso lwabantwana, sidlulisela zonke izimo zengqondo kunye neenqobo ezintle.
Enkosi Macarena! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, imalunga nokubonelela ngovimba wokuqonda, ukunika umntwana iinkumbulo ezintle kunye namava ebuntwaneni babo lelona lifa lililo baya kuba nalo xa sele bekhulile. Yinto esingenakuyilibala, iithoyi ziyahamba zihambe, kodwa amava amnandi AYIKHO NGOKUQHELEKILEYO.