Uluvo olukhulu lokwenza isipho esisodwa kukukhetha iimpahla okanye iimveliso ezizezakho. Ngokufanelekileyo, abantwana bethu bayazibandakanya kwizipho zokuzalwa zabahlobo babo, bekwazi ukwenza yonke into okanye inxenye yento yokudlala ngesandla.
Ihlobo liyeza kwaye itheko lokuzalwa labahlobo boonyana bethu neentombi lifikile. Emva kwekhosi yonke yokucinga malunga nezimvo zesipho kunye nokuzama ukuba yintsusa, sihlala sifika ngexesha lehlobo sinemibono embalwa kunye nomnqweno omncinci wokuqhubeka nokucinga ngento esinokuyinika. Kodwa akufuneki siphelelwe lithemba, kuba namhlanje kwi-Intanethi kukho inani elikhulu lokukhetha kunye nokubanokunikela izipho ezizezakho ezizezakho. Azisekho iingxaki zokufika ethekweni ngento yokudlala okanye incwadi ephindaphindwayo, njengoko siza kuba nayo into eyodwa eyilelwe ngokukodwa inkwenkwe yokuzalwa okanye intombazana yokuzalwa.
Ukhetho oluhlala luyimpumelelo eqinisekisiweyo Nika isikipa esenzelwe wena okanye esinye isinxibo. Isikipa esinomzobo owenziwe eklasini, ikepusi enegama lenkwenkwe okanye lentombazana epatini, isinxibo sobuqu esenzelwe wena ukuba ingumntwana… Amathuba okunxiba okwenzelwe umntu akanasiphelo kwaye ahlala enika iziphumo ezothusayo. Kule mihla kulula kwaye ngexabiso eliphantsi ukufumana amaphepha ewebhu enza ukuba iimpahla zibe zezakho kwaye uzithumele ngqo endlwini yethu.
Umbono xa ucinga ngesipho solu hlobo si ukubandakanya abantwana bethu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, sisipho sabahlobo bakho. Oku kuyakukhuthaza ubuchule babo, kuqinise ubuhlobo, kwaye kubenze bazixabise izipho xa bezifumana, njengoko baya kwazi ukuba ukuzenza okanye ukuzithenga kuthatha inkqubo. Sinokwenza konke okanye inxenye yesipho ngesandla. Nangona isiphumo singekho njengobungcali, ngokungathandabuzekiyo iya kuba yeemvakalelo ngakumbi kunye neyakho. I-tic-tac-toe eyenziwe ngamatye, izikethi zekhadibhodi okanye amakhadi azotywe ngesandla zezinye zezinto esinokuzakha silusapho.
Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bethu musa ukudibanisa izipho kunye nemihla yokuzalwa kuphela nezipho ezibonakalayo, Kwaye bafunde ukuxabisa ubukho babahlobo babo ethekweni, iinkcukacha zemanyuwali okanye imidlalo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Olunye ukhetho olungasileliyo ziincwadi. Ukunika incwadi egcwele imibala eqaqambileyo kunye namabali amangalisayo kuya kubonwabisa abantwana kodwa kuya kubakhuthaza ukuba bafunde. Akukho ndlela ibhetele yokutsiba ekufundeni ngaphandle kokufumana incwadi njengesipho esikhethekileyo sokuzalwa, kuba uya kuba ujonge ukuyikhupha. Ukuba bancinci kakhulu, sinokukhetha amabali ahamba kunye nerekhodi enezingoma, kuba oku kuya kubenza babe nomtsalane ngakumbi kwaye kuya kuphucula indlebe.
Okokugqibela, sinokuhlala sikhetha iithoyi zesiko okanye imidlalo yebhodi, ezakwenza ukuba abantwana bafunde bengaziqondi ngelixa bonwabile. Namhlanje kukho inani elikhulu leevenkile ezikhethekileyo apho sinokufumana khona zonke iintlobo zemidlalo.