Uvelwano sisakhono ekufuneka sifundwe rhoqo. Kuya kufuneka ifundwe ebuntwaneni kwaye abantu abadala banoxanduva lokuyithumela ebantwaneni mihla le. Abantwana bakhula bekholelwa ukuba lihlabathi elijikeleze bona. Ngokukhawuleza ubanceda baqonde ukuba wonke umntu uneemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, kokukhona kunqabile ukuba baziphathe ngeendlela ezinokubenzakalisa abanye. Kodwa uyifumana njani?
Balaselisa izenzo zobubele
Ngokubanzi, kungcono ukufumana amathuba endalo okufundisa ngovelwano kunokuba ubanyanzele. Ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana wakho ebonisa intlonipho komnye umntu, kuya kufuneka uqinise olu tyekelo ngebali elilula, umzekelo, ukuba ubona umntwana wakho ofunda esikolweni egqume umntwana oleleyo okanye unodoli ngengubo, mxelele ukuba isenzo sobubele sithetha into enje. : 'Kulunge kakhulu ukuba umgqume ukuze angabandi.'
Umbuzo, sukuchaza
Awunakho ukuchaza uvelwano emntwaneni omncinci, kodwa ungaqala ukwazi ukuba bacinga njani ngeemvakalelo zabanye abantu. Abantwana abancinci abayi kuyiqonda ingcaciso enkulu kodwa ukuba ubabuza ungalonyusa inqanaba labo lokuqonda. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho akavumeli umhlobo wakhe ukuba adlale ngezilwanyana zakhe ezifakiweyo, mbuze: 'Ucinga ukuba uziva njani xa ungamniki izinto zakho zokudlala?'
Mncede aqonde ulwimi lomzimba
Ukukwazi ukutolika izimbo zomzimba kunye nembonakalo yobuso yenye yeendlela ezisisiseko zokukhulisa uvelwano. Kuya kufuneka ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba baqonde intetho yomzimba yabanye abantu. Umntwana wakho angakuqondi oku ekuqaleni, kodwa xa esiqonda, uya kuthi anike ingqalelo ekuphenduleni kwabanye abantu kwaye akwazi ukubona ukuba indlela yokuziphatha kwakhe inokubachaphazela ngayo abanye.
Zintle !!