Ukuxhaphaza yingxaki ngokubanzi ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo ukuze kuliwe kwihlabathi liphela. Ukuxhatshazwa ayiyongxaki ithile, yingxaki ehlupheka ngabantwana abaninzi kwihlabathi liphela kwaye ngelishwa ichaphazela amaxhoba ayo kakubi. Akukho mntu uthanda ukuba namaxesha okungonwabi okanye ukuphazanyiswa ngabaxhaphazi.
Nawuphi na umntwana angangcungcuthekiswa esikolweni, nokuba uyathandwa kwaye uyabamonela okanye urhoxile kwaye utsalele ingqalelo kwesi sizathu. Zininzi izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba umntwana axhatshazwe. Abazali kufuneka baphaphele i ukwazi ukukhangela iimpawu zokuxhatshazwa xa umntwana wakho esiva ubunzima kwaye, ukuze akwazi ukukhangela izisombululo ngokukhawuleza.
Ulungile kwinto ayenzayo
Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana bayakungcungcuthekiswa kuba bafumana uninzi lwengqwalaselo elungileyo koontanga babo nakubantu abadala. Olu luqwalaselo lunokuba yiyo yonke into ukusuka ekugqweseni kwimidlalo okanye ekufumaneni amanqaku amahle. Abaxhaphazi bahlasela aba bafundi kuba beziva baphantsi okanye bexhalabile ukuba amandla abo agutyungelwe bubuchule bexhoba labo. Nje ngeziphumo, Bangcungcuthekisa aba bantwana ngethemba lokubenza bazive bengakhuselekanga nokwenza abanye babuthandabuze ubuchule babo.
Ubuchule kunye nokudala
Abantwana abakrelekrele bakhawuleza bafunde kwaye banobuchule bokwenza izinto ezithile. Oku kunokuphakamisa umona kwabo bangaphumeleli kumthambo ofanayo. Umona ziimvakalelo ezinokubangela ukuba abantu benze izinto ezimbi.
Ukuba semngciphekweni komntu
Abantwana abangenisa iintetho, abaxhalabileyo, okanye abathobelayo kunokwenzeka ukuba baxhatshazwe kunabantwana abaphumayo nabazithobayo. Abantwana abanokuzithemba okuphantsi banokutsala abaxhaphazi. Ukuba umntwana ufuna ukukholisa abanye, banokuba yinto ekujoliswe kuyo ngabahlaseli ngenxa yokunyanzeliswa kolawulo abalubonisayo.
Abantwana abanengxaki yoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo banokuba sengozini yokuxhatshazwa, into eyenza mandundu imeko yeemvakalelo. Abahlukumezi bakhetha la maxhoba kuba bewabona 'njengexhoba elilula' kwaye abazikhuseli. Abaxhaphazi bafuna ukuziva benamandla ngoko ke bahlala bejolise kubantwana abasesichengeni ngakumbi kunabo.
Bambalwa okanye akukho kwahlobo
Amaxhoba amaninzi okuxhaphaza athanda ukuba nabahlobo abambalwa kunabantwana abangenamava okuxhatshazwa. Banokukhatywa ngoontanga babo okanye babekelwe bucala, into enokubenza bachithe bodwa ngexesha lokudlala njengekhefu.
Abazali kunye nootitshala banokukuthintela ukuxhatshazwa kwabafundi abazimeleyo ngokwasentlalweni ngokubanceda ukuba bakhe ubuhlobo. Ababukeli banokuxhasa aba bafundi ngokwenza ubuhlobo nabo. Ukuba umntwana ubuncinci umhlobo omnye, amathuba abo okuxhatshazwa ancitshiswa kakhulu. Ngaphandle komhlobo ukubaxhasa Aba bantwana kunokwenzeka ukuba bajolise kwabo bangcungcuthekisayo kuba akufuneki bakhathazeke ngomntu oza kunceda ixhoba.
Iyaziwa
Ngamanye amaxesha umona wabantwana abadumileyo unokwenza ukuba abo baxhaphazayo bajonge kubo njengamaxhoba abo. Ubundlongondlongo bobudlelwane bunxulumene ngqo nenqanaba lesikolo. Abantwana banokusasaza amarhe okanye izithuko ngeenzame zokuphelisa ukuthandwa ... banokubhenela kubundlobongela nge-intanethi. I-stalker ifuna ukungcolisa amaxhoba ukuze baphulukane nokuthandwa kwaye abanye bangabinamdla wokuba kunye nabo.
Impawu zomzimba
Phantse naluphi na uhlobo lweempawu ezibonakalayo ezahlukileyo okanye ezizodwa ezinokutsala umdla wabaxhaphazi. Ixhoba lisenokuba lifutshane, lide, libhitye okanye lityebe. Banokunxiba iiglasi okanye babe namabala, impumlo enkulu, okanye iindlebe ezivelayo. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba yintoni, umhlaseli uyakukhetha uphawu kwaye aligqwethe libe yithagethi.
Amaxesha ngamaxesha, olu hlobo lokuxhaphaza lubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye luyingozi ekuzithembeni kwabantwana. Uninzi lwabaxhaphazi oluhlasela aba bantwana luyakonwabela ukuhlekisa ngabanye. Ngamanye amaxesha, bafuna ukuhleka ngeendleko zomnye umntu. Eyona ndlela yokulwa ne-stalker ejolise kolu hlobo lomntu kukususa abaphulaphuli bakhe kwaye unganiki zwi ngamazwi akhe.
Ukugula okanye ukukhubazeka
Abaxhaphazi bajolise ebantwaneni ngobuyatha obukhethekileyo okanye kwizigulo ... bahlekisa ngokuswela uvelwano ngokupheleleyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ootitshala nabazali baqinisekise ukuba aba bantwana baneqela lenkxaso nabo eliza kunceda ekukhuseleni ukuxhatshazwa. Kuyanceda ukuba inani labafundi ngokubanzi liyabunca olu hlobo lokuxhaphaza. Ukuba abaxhaphazi bayazi ukuba olugculelo alwamkelwanga nangubani na, abayi kuyenza.
Ukwaziswa ngezesondo
Kwizihlandlo ezininzi abantwana bayakhathazwa ngamafanasini, enokuba eneneni okanye akunjalo. Ngapha koko, ezinye zezehlo ezinobundlongondlongo zibandakanya abantwana ukuxhatshazwa ngenxa yesini sabo. Ukushiywa kungalawulwa, ukuxhaphaza okuyingozi kunokubangela ulwaphulo-mthetho olunzulu lwentiyo. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuba Abafundi be-LGBT bafumana inethiwekhi yenkxaso eyomeleleyo ukubagcina bekhuselekile.
Inkolo okanye inkolelo
Akuqhelekanga ukuba abantwana baxhatshazwe ngenxa yeenkolelo zabo. Umzekelo wolu hlobo lokuxhaphaza lubandakanya unyango lwabafundi abangamaSilamsi emva kwengozi ye-9/11 e-United States. Nangona kunjalo, nawuphina umfundi angaxhatshazwa ngenxa yeenkolelo zakhe. Abafundi abangamaKristu nabangamaYuda bahlala begculelwa ngenxa yeenkolelo zabo kunye nezenzo zabo.
Ukuxhaphaza ngokusekwe kwiinkolelo ezahlukileyo zonqulo ngokubanzi kubangelwa kukusilela kokuqonda kunye nokusilela konyamezelo lokukholelwa into eyahlukileyo kunenye.
Umvelaphi
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baxhaphaza abanye ngenxa yohlanga olwahlukileyo. Umzekelo, abafundi abamhlophe banokwalatha abafundi abantsundu kwaye babahlukumeze. Okanye abafundi abamnyama bangakhomba abafundi abamhlophe kwaye babaphathe gadalala ... kuxhomekeke ekubeni bavelaphi okanye bavelaphi.
Oku kwenzeka ngazo zonke iintlanga naphina. Akukho luhlanga lukhululwayo ekuxhatshazweni, kwaye akukho luhlanga lukhululekileyo ekubeni nabantu abangcungcuthekisayo. Njengokuxhatshazwa ngokwenkolo, aba bafundi babonwa kuphela kukuba bahlukile.