Olunye lolona lwazi lukhulu lufunyenweyo xa usenza ubumama kukufumanisa ukuba azisoloko zikho iimpendulo ezibambekayo. Amaxesha amaninzi indlela yokuba ngumama ifundwa ngokuzama nangempazamo. Ngokukodwa xa kufikwa ukuthomalalisa umntwana okanye ukufumana iindlela zabo zesiqhelo ukuvumelanisa. I-pacifier, ibhotile, ubuthongo yimibuzo esisiseko kusana olusandul 'ukuzalwa kwaye yiyo loo nto ingxoxo ivulwa ukufuna impendulo kodwa ... ingaba zikhona? yenzaNgaba kulungile ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa lusebenzise i-pacifier ukulala? Okanye umlalise kukhuko lwakhe?
Nabani na okhangela impendulo ebambekayo ukwimpazamo yokuqala kuba inyaniso kukuba into yokuqala ekufuneka ifundwe kukuba umntwana ngamnye lihlabathi. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, malunga nokufumana iimpendulo ezilungileyo kumntwana ngamnye kwaye akukho nto ingcono kunokuqwalasela kunye ne-intuition.
I-pacifier okanye akukho pacifier?
Ndikhumbula iintsuku zokuqala zonyana wam wamazibulo… wayesoloko engumntwana olungileyo nozolileyo kodwa ubusuku bokuqala kwindawo yokulala babunzima noko. Ndandichacha kwi-C-section entsonkothileyo kwaye ndandingakwazi nokushukuma. Umntwana naye wayesele eqhelana nelizwe kwaye ngobo busuku bokuqala wayevuka sele exhuzula nesikhalo esasithi ezinzulwini zobusuku singava. Sizame yonke into: ukumgungqa, ukumbamba, ukulala, ukuncelisa njalo njalo ... kodwa akukho nto. Sade saphula imithetho emiselweyo samnika eyakhe i-pacifier yokuqala Kwaye kwenzeka umlingo, wazola ngoko nangoko kwaye walala iiyure ezininzi, ediniwe emva kokukhala okungaka.
Emva kwala mava, ndihlala ndincoma okufanayo, njengoko uSerrat esithi "akukho ndlela yabahambi, indlela yenziwa ngokuhamba". Ngubani owathi i-pacifier ayilungile kubantwana abasanda kuzalwa? yenzaKulungile ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa lusebenzise i-pacifier ukulala? Lo mbuzo ubanzi kancinci kuba enye into kukuba ayisiyiyo eyona nto sicinga ngayo ukuba sifuna ukufundisa umntwana kwasekuqaleni. Enye kukuba ibangela umonakalo othile kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye nasi isitshixo, ekucaluleni imiba yomibini.
I-pacifier ayilimazi umntwana osanda kuzalwa, kuyo nayiphi na imeko kunye nayo umntwana uya kuqhela ukuyisebenzisa kwangethuba aze axhomekeke ngakumbi kuyo ngexesha lokulala okanye ukuzola.
Iinzuzo kunye neengozi ze-pacifier
Njengoko kwaziwa, ukongeza ukuxhomekeka kwe-pacifier, ukuyinxiba kunokonyusa umngcipheko wosulelo lwendlebe ephakathi, nangona oku kungenzeki njengoko amazinga osulelo esezantsi ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-6. Kwakhona kuthiwa ukusetyenziswa ixesha elide kwe-pacifier kunokubangela iingxaki emazinyweni, kwaye awahambelani kakuhle. Nangona oku kunokwenzeka, kuya kuba yinyani ukuba i-pacifier isetyenziswe ixesha elide kwaye iminyaka emininzi.
Omnye ngokuchasene ne-pacifier uxoxa ukuba kungcono ukulinda kude kube ziiveki ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 ukunikezela i-pacifier yomntwana. Oku ukwenzela ukuba sele iqhelene nenkqubo yokufunxa ukuncancisa. Iingcamango ezichasene ne-pacifier ziqinisekisa ukuba akulunganga ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa lusebenzise i-pacifier ukulala kwezi nyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala kwaye de lufunde i-reflex yokuncancisa kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, oku kuya kuxhomekeka emntwaneni njengoko kukho abantwana abafunda ukuncanca kwasekuqaleni kwaye kungafuneki ukuba baqhele. Kwimeko apho, akukho mngcipheko wokuba uya kusebenzisa i-pacifier kwasekuqaleni.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa asebenzise i-pacifier ukulala, ke gcina iingcebiso ezimbalwa engqondweni. Yigcine icocekile kwaye uphephe ukongeza izinto eziswiti kuyo ukuze ingene emlonyeni wayo. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ungayibamba ngomnwe wakho de uqhele ukuyenza wedwa. Kuphephe ukumnyanzela ukuba asebenzise i-pacifier, vumela umntwana agqibe ngexesha afuna ngalo naxa engafuni. Kukho iintsana ezingazange ziyithande i-pacifier kunye nabanye abayithandayo. Okokugqibela, zama iifomati ezininzi zokuthambisa xa uthe wala enye, njengoko umntwana ngamnye enencasa eyahlukileyo.