Isenokubonakala ingenabungozi, kwaye abanye abazali bavumela abantwana babone iikhompuyutyhi bebanga ukuba bakhule ngokwaneleyo okanye ukuba yimiboniso bhanyabhanya nje, ngaphandle kokwazi i Iziphumo ezingokweemvakalelo ezinokuba nazo kubo. Ukucinga ukuba bayabonwabisa nabo, kodwa abayikhathaleli indlela ekubachaphazela ngayo ukubona ezi ntlobo zemiboniso bhanyabhanya. Masibone ukuba kutheni abantwana bengafanele babukele imovie ezoyikisayo.
Iingqondo zabantwana
Uloyiko, igazi, isimilo esiqatha, ukukhala, izinto ezingendawo, iziporho, ... Ingqondo yomntwana ayikakhuli kwaye ayinakho ukubona izinto ezithile. Ingqondo yakhe yobuntwana ikholelwa ekubeni le nto ayibonayo inokwenzeka okanye iyenzeka kuye, uyifaka ngaphakathi njengeyakho kwaye inokudala umothuko kwixesha elifutshane nelide. Ingqondo yakho isekwinkqubo yokukhula nokukhula, kwaye iziganeko ozibonayo okanye ozihambayo ziya kushiya uphawu lwazo kwi-psyche yakho. Iziphumo ezingalunganga kwixesha elifutshane kunye nelide zanele ukugcina abantwana ekubukeni iimovie ezoyikisayo.
Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-10 ngenxa yokungakhuli engqondweni, abayazi indlela yokwahlula inyani kwinyani bebodwa kwaye zinempembelelo kakhulu. Ukubukela imovie eyoyikisayo kunokubangela uxinzelelo, ukubetha kwentliziyo okukhawulezayo, ukulala, ukungazithembi, amaphupha amabi, uloyiko kunye neephobia. Banokuba noloyiko lokulala bodwa, ukulala ebumnyameni, izinto ezoyikisayo ebusuku, iingxaki zoxinzelelo, uloyiko…. Kwaye ukuba bayabona ukuba abazali babo bayoyika, bayoyika ngakumbi ngenxa yoko bakubonayo.
Iziphumo zokubukela imovie eyoyikisayo
Ndisayikhumbula indlela, xa ndandineminyaka esi-8 ubudala, oomama basibonisa mna nomninawa wam (iminyaka emi-3 ubudala) ukubona unodoli "Chucky", becinga ukuba ingayimidlalo bhanyabhanya ehlekisayo. Kwingqondo yam encinci yobuntwana bendinjalo iveki ndingakhange ndilale ndicinga ukuba ndinodoli phantsi kwebhedi yam kwaye ndinayo amaphupha amabi iminyaka. Umnakwethu, kwelinye icala, wayemdala kwaye kwakungekho ngxaki. Namhlanje ndiyayibona kwaye iyandihlekisa kodwa loo movie ikwazile ukungena engqondweni yam iminyaka. Bekungafanelanga ukuba ndimbone ngeloxesha.
Ukongeza, olu hlobo lwefilimu lubangela i-tachycardia enokubangela iingxaki zentliziyo kunye neengxaki zoxinzelelo ezinokuchaphazela ezinye iindawo zempilo. Ke bona ichaphazela ngokwengqondo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Ukuba iimovie ezoyikisayo zoyikisa abantu abadala, zoyikisa abantwana. Kungekudala siyalibala kodwa engqondweni yakhe ethe-ethe emva kwexesha elide. Ezi bhanyabhanya zinobudala obucetyiswayo bento ethile. Oku kuyasebenza nakwimidlalo yevidiyo enogonyamelo.
Ngayo yonke le ngozi sikuxelela yona, kuyamangalisa ngakumbi ukuba abantwana akufuneki babukele iimovie ezoyikisayo, ngakumbi abona bantwana ba-ethe-ethe naboyikayo. Njengokuba bebuza, ukuba umhlobo wabo uMiguel sele embonile, musa ukunikezela. Iziphumo zalo zengqondo zinokuhlala ngokusisigxina.
Abazali kufuneka bathintele abantwana ekubukeleni iimovie ezoyikisayo
Abazali ngabo abafanele ukulawula ukuba abantwana bethu abaluboni olu hlobo lomxholo kumabonwakude okanye kwii-consoles. Ukuba ufuna ukubona imovie kwaye siyabona ukuba yahlelwa njengothusayo / ukurhanela, into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile jonga iminyaka evunyelweyo ukuyibona, kwaye ukuba ingaphakathi, kuyacetyiswa ukuba abazali bayibone ngaphambili ukujonga ukuba umntwana ukulungele ukuyibona na. Kukho abantwana abakhule ngakumbi kunabanye, Kuya kufuneka uhlalutye imiboniso ukuze ubone ukuba ayifanele na iminyaka yabo kunye nokukhula.
Kanye njengoko ungabavumeli ukuba babone imovie engamanyala, sukubavumela babone imovie ezoyikisayo. Ayizizo ezabo, banemiboniso bhanyabhanya emininzi efanelekileyo kwiingqondo zabo. Baza kuba nexesha lokubukela iimovie ezoyikisayo xa sele bebadala kwaye belungile.
Kuba khumbula… ngenxa yezi zizathu abantwana bangaboni ngokufanayo nabantu abadala.
Kubonakala kum ukuba ukucebisa ngokusekwe kumava akho ayisiyiyo echanekileyo. Bonke abantwana abafani. Sonke sicinga ngokwahlukileyo. Sonke sibona izinto ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Amava awazange afane.