Impilo yengqondo kamama okanye umama ozayo Sele ilinyathelo lokuqala ekufuneka linakekelwe. Kuba ukuba umama uzinakekela ngempilo yengqondo, uya kuhlala enika oyena nothando nenkathalo kubantwana bakho. Kukho oomama abanokuthi bangayihoyi le ngxaki kwaye kukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha ukuba ayinyamekelwanga ingakhokelela kwingxaki enkulu kakhulu.
Uninzi lophando luhlala lujolise kukhathalelo lwengqondo lukamama emva kokukhulelwa, ezibiza Uxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka. Kodwa ngoku kufunyenwe ukuba uxinzelelo lunokwenzeka ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Olu lwazi lubalulekile kuba lunokuchaphazela impilo kamama nomntwana wakhe.
Impilo yomama ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Ukukhulelwa lelinye lamanqanaba anokuba buthathaka, umama wexesha elizayo uhlala efuna olona nyango lusemgangathweni kuye nakumntwana wakhe . Nangona kunjalo, engaqondanga, ushiya ecaleni ezinye izinto ezibaluleke ngokufanayo impilo yakho yengqondo.
Yonke into ingaqala ngomama omtsha, egcwele ukungathandabuzeki kunye neenkxalabo, ecinga ukuba yonke into izakulunga ngokuchanekileyo, ejongene nazo zonke iinguqu ezenzeka emzimbeni wakhe kwaye okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, ecinga ukuba ukubeleka kuya kuba njani. Ukuthwala ukukhulelwa kokuqala ingasoloko ikwenza ukhathazeke kwaye oko kungadala ixhala.
Ngokwenene uziva usoyika xa ukhulelwe nasemva kokuba usana lwakho ayisiyonto eyenzeka okokuqala. Oomama abaninzi banokukhulelwa okuninzi kwaye baye baziva ngokufanayo kuzo zonke izigaba zayo. Uxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka kwiimeko ezininzi luyakhula kwaye oko kuvula iindlela ezininzi.
Umfazi njengomama ufuna ukuviwa kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke mnike isithuba sokumenza azive ekhululekile. Umzimba wakho kufuneka ujongane nemeko yehomoni enokuba nzima kwaye ekhokelela kwisimo esiphantsi kwaye imeko kubomi bomntu ekunzima ukuyiqonda.
Ngaba impilo yengqondo kanina inokuluchaphazela usana?
Ukubandezeleka koxinzelelo okanye ukugula ngengqondo inokuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo umntwana ongekazalwa kwaye ngakumbi usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Ezi zinto zinokuchaphazela ukukhula komzimba, kwengqondo kunye nophuhliso lweemvakalelo, ezinokuthi ngokuhamba kwexesha zikhokelele kuninzi ngakumbi.
Umama naye makakhathalelwe kwaye unike ingqwalaselo yakhe xa eyifuna, kuba ukuba uphilile iyakunceda ukusebenza ngokukuko kwabo bonke oovimba bakhe namandla akhe. Ziyimpawu eziya kwenza ukuba udibanise ngempumelelo ngakumbi nosana lwakho, ukukwazi ukusombulula yonke imiqobo, imiceli mngeni kunye nokukwazi ukumkhathalela kunye nokondla ngcono kakhulu.
Uyinyamekela njani impilo yengqondo
Kufuneka kwenziwe uvavanyo olulodwa lwemfuno yokuqwalaselwa ukuba umama uphila njengomama olungileyo kwaye ukuba ufuna ukukhatshwa nanini na. Ukhathalelo lwempilo lunokuxhomekeka kwinkxaso yakho epheleleyo kwaye hlala kunye nabo bonke oomama kunye noomama bexesha elizayo.
Zimbalwa iingcali ezibuzayo uziva njani ngokwasemoyeni, Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho buchanekile, into oyenzayo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, yintoni oyoyikayo, inkxalabo okanye ukungaqiniseki. Yonke le micimbi ivumela umama ukuba abelane ngombono wakhe wobomi kwaye ayeke umphunga xa kunokwenzeka into imkhathaze.
Phakathi kwezinto ezininzi umama anokuzenza mihla le kuya kufuneka uhlalutye into evakalayo ilungile. Ungathatha ixesha lakho, kwaye nokuba awuyifumani, ungayikhangela. Kubonakala kungabalulekanga kodwa yinto ebaluleke kakhulu hlala wedwa uhlalutye iimvakalelo neengcinga zakho.
Yenza izinto ezizalisa ngokwenene kuwe Hlalutya into esesandleni sakho ukuze ukwazi ukuyenza kwaye ke uya kuba nesinye isizathu sokugqibezela impilo yakho yengqondo. Phuma nabahlobo isebenza njengonyango olulunge kakhulu, yabelana ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo, ziphazamise nezinye izihloko okanye utshintshe imeko kulungile kakhulu.
Zilolonge kwaye utye kakuhle zizinto ezisoloko zisebenza. Kufuneka zijikeleze ngamava amnandi nakubantu abaqinisekileyo, kunzima ukufumana amaxesha oxolo kuba ziya kubakho iintsuku ezininzi ezimbi, kodwa uhlala ushukuma ukuze ulawule amaxesha kunye nemibono elungileyo.
Sabemos ukuba Ityala ngalinye lahlukile kwaye kukho oomama abaziva bekhulelwe bonwabile kwaye nokuba ngumama onempilo entle kakhulu yengqondo. Kodwa kusekho oomama abathe cwaka abaphulukana nesazisi sabo kwaye abangazibonisi. Unokufunda ngakumbi malunga "Ungalukhulisa njani ulwazi malunga nempilo yoomama" o "Impilo yoomama ngexesha lokukhulelwa".