Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukufunda ebantwaneni nasebomini., kodwa ngamanye amaxesha thina bantu abadala sikhohlwe ukukhumbula ukuba ukufunda kufuneka kube yinxalenye ephambili yobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla ukuba singagcini nje ukondla ingqondo yethu kunye nokuphucula zonke izakhono zayo, kodwa nokukwazi ukuhlakulela umphefumlo wethu. Ekubeni singabantwana, simele sikugqale ukufunda njengomzuzu wokuzonwabisa nokuzonwabisa okwandisa ulonwabo lwethu nolonwabo lwethu lweeleta ezibhaliweyo.
Kodwa ngelishwa oku akusoloko kunjalo. Kwizihlandlo ezininzi, abantwana (nabantu abadala) bavakalelwa kukuba ukufunda kungcungcuthekisa, bavakalelwa kukuba kuyimbopheleleko yaye ukuba banokukuphepha, baya kukwenza oko ngaphandle kokuthandabuza. cXa oku kusenzeka kungenxa yokuba ukususela oko abantwana bebancinane baye bazama ukubethelela kubo ukufunda njengento enyanzelekileyo, enokhuphiswano yaye ngamaxesha amaninzi, ngaphandle kokuhlonipha isingqisho sendalo somntwana kunye nendaleko yabo ukuze bazise umzuzu ofanelekileyo wokuba baqalise ukufunda.
Ukufunda yinkqubo yendalo yomntwana eqala ngokuba nomdla wokwazi ngakumbi ngeeleta. Ukuba lo mdla wokwazi uyanda, sinokuba nabantwana abathanda ukufunda nabafuna ukwazi ngakumbi baze bondle imiphefumlo yabo ngamabali nolwazi. Yiyo loo nto, kwasebancinane abantwana, kuyimfuneko ukubakhuthaza ukuba bafunde ngokufun’ ukwazi nangomdla, kuba kuphela ngenkuthazo abaya kukwazi ukufumana iingenelo zokufunda baze bakwazi ukuzonwabela kuyo yonke iminyaka yokufunda. ubomi babo.
Ukukhuthaza umdla womntwana
Ukuze umntwana azive enomdla yaye enomdla wokufunda, ufanele avunyelwe ukuba akhethe incwadi enomdla ngokwenene kuye, emkhuthazayo nemnika ulwaneliseko xa egqiba ukuyifunda. Ukususela kwasebancinane, abantwana kufuneka babe neencwadi kwithala leencwadi zabo ezilungele inqanaba lokukhula kwabo kunye nezinto abazithandayo., ngale ndlela baya kuziva befuna ukusondela, bathabathe incwadi baze banandiphe amazwi abhaliweyo.
Ukwenza oku, kufuneka kuhlonelwe izilangazelelo zenkwenkwe okanye intombazana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziyintoni na. (logama nje befanelekile kwinqanaba labo lokukhula, umzekelo umntwana oneminyaka emi-6 akayi kuqonda incwadi yesayensi kumanqanaba eengcali, kodwa ukuba uthanda isayensi unokuba neencwadi zesayensi ezifanelekileyo kwiminyaka yakhe ukuze abe ngcono. ukuqonda iikhonsepthi incwadi ejongana nazo).
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba inkwenkwe ithanda iincwadi zenkosazana okanye intombi yakho inomdla kwiincwadi zemoto... Kuyimfuneko ukuba abazali bahlonele izinto ezithandwa ngabantwana babo ukuze ibe ngabo abalawula izilangazelelo zabo. Abantwana bafanele bahlonelwe kuzo zonke iinkalo yaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuze bakwazi ukukhuthaza ukufunda kubantwana abancinane endlwini ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kukuhlonela umdla wabo kwiincwadi abazikhethayo.
Ukuba akukho ntlonipho kwiminqweno yabantwana, ngoko baya kuqala ukuziva bephantsi ngokufunda kunye nayo yonke into ebandakanya oko. Kungumngcipheko ongcono ukuba ungazibophelelanga ukuze abantwana baqhubeke beziva benomdla kwaye benomdla wokufunda.
Lumka ungathobi
Ukulandela inqaku elidlulileyo, Ndingathanda ukubethelela into yokuba ngamaxesha athile ndiye ndabona ebudeni bomsebenzi wam wobugcisa indlela abazali ngokwabo abaye bawutyhafisa ngayo umdla wabantwana babo wokufunda.
Nangona kucacile ukuba le njongo ilungile kuba abazali benza into abakholelwa ukuba ibalungele abantwana babo, asiyondlela ilungileyo. Ayichanekanga kuba ubuntu nezinto ezithandwa ngabantwana azithathelwa ngqalelo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana ufuna ukufunda incwadi ehlekisayo kuba eyithanda okanye incwadi eyoyikisayo ekwiminyaka yakhe yaye abazali becinga ukuba ayifanelekanga yaye bayakwalela oko, kufana nokumthintela ukuba angakwazi ukufunda okuthile. enomdla kuye, Bavala ithuba lokuba umntwana wabo abe ngumfundi olungileyo. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo emva kokuvalwa ezinye iindlela aziyi kwamkelwa kakuhle ngabancinci.
Hlakulela ukufunda ekhaya
Ukuze bahlakulele ukufunda, kuyimfuneko ngabazali ukuba bazibophelele ekufumaneni uphuculo lokufunda kungekuphela nje kubantwana babo kodwa kwintsapho iphela, baqale ngabo kuqala. Njengabazali, ukuze uhlakulele ukufunda, kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ezinye izitshixo ezibalulekileyo:
- Yiba ngowona mzekelo ubalaseleyo wokufunda wabantwana bakho, ubabone befunda yonke imihla kwaye bakunike ukubaluleka kokufunda.
- Fundela abantwana bakho besebancinane kakhulu ukuze bakwazi ukunxulumanisa ukufunda nomzuzu owonwabisayo wolonwabo... hayi ngokuzibophelela.
- Hlonipha umdla wabantwana bakho ekufundeni.
- Ukwazi ukukhokela abantwana ekukhetheni ukufunda okufanelekileyo, kodwa hayi kwisifundo kodwa kuluhlu lobudala.
- Zibekele ixesha lokufunda yonke imihla nabantwana bakho ukomeleza umanyano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kwakunye nabantwana – ukufunda.
- Yenza abantwana babone kwaye bave ukubaluleka kokufunda kuyo nayiphi na indawo kubomi banamhlanje.
- Nika indawo yokufunda ekhaya ekulula ukufikelela kuyo nenomtsalane ebantwaneni.
Ukongeza, kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukubaluleka komonde wabazali xa kuthethwa ngokufunda kwabantwana kunye nendlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuyeka indlela yokuphila ekhawulezayo nengenaxesha esinayo ukuze sikhuthaze imikhwa yokufunda yabantwana.
Ngamanye amaxesha Abazali basenokukuthanda ukufunda kodwa bengazi ukuba bazilungelelanise kwangethuba ngenxa yoxinezeleko lwemihla ngemihla yaye abakwazi kuzinika ixesha lokufunda nabantwana babo yonke imihla, okanye bazifundele. Ngokungathi oko akwanelanga, ukuba abantwana kufuneka bafundele isikolo, bayanyanzelwa yaye bacinezelekile, nto leyo ebangela ukuba badane baze bangakuthandi ukufunda. Kuyimfuneko ukuqonda nokuhlonipha izingqisho zabo zokufunda kunye nendaleko ekufundeni.
Zeziphi izinto ezithandwa ngabantwana bakho? Ngaba uyabavumela inkululeko xa ukhetha imixholo abaza kuyifunda?