Ihlobo liza kuphela kwaye, phantse ngaphandle kokuqonda Lifikile ixesha lokuba umntwana wakho aqale esikolweni. Kule mihla, amawaka abantwana sele eqalile ubomi babo besikolo. Abanye okokuqala, abanye banamava avela kwisikolo sabantwana.
Kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, iziqalo akukho lula. Nokuba kungenxa yotshintsho lweziko, ootitshala kunye nesiqhelo okanye kuba bebehleli kunye nawe ekhaya, kusenokwenzeka ukuba iintsuku zokuqala umntwana wakho akayithathi kakuhle kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, nawe ngekhe. Iintsapho ezininzi Bayazibuza ukuba kunyanzelekile na ukuba siphume esi siselo besebancinci okanye ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uye esikolweni kamva xa abantwana sele bekhulile ngakumbi kwaye bezimele ukunyamezela ukwahlukana. Ke ngoko, namhlanje sikulethela imibuzo enokukunceda uthathe isigqibo.
Ukufunda iminyaka emithathu akunyanzelekanga
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyazi ukuba uyathandabuza malunga nesikolo sabantwana bakho kukuba akunyanzelekanga de ube neminyaka emithandathu. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho unokuzola ekhaya lonke ixesha lokufunda kwabantwana ngaphandle kwento eyenzekayo.
Kwiintsapho ezininzi akukho ndlela yimbi, kodwa ukuba ungomnye wabo banelungelo lokukhetha, kulula ngakumbi kuba ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuya esikolweni, Ungasoloko uyeka ukuya esikolweni ukuba izinto azihambi kakuhle. Ke ngoko, ukuba iimeko zakho ziyakuvumela, ungawuthatha lo mbandela ngokukhululeka ngakumbi.
Ukufunda iminyaka emithathu akubalulekanga
Nangona iyimfuneko kwiintsapho ezininzi. Ngamanye amaxesha, iimeko zobuqu zenza kube nzima ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nobomi bosapho kunye nesikolo kunokuba yindawo encinci. Kodwa ukuba uyathandabuza kwaye unako ukuyifumana, kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba kule minyaka abantwana bafunda ngokudlala kunye nezinye iindlela zokufunda simahla. Ngapha koko, ulwazi lokufunda nokubhala kunye nolwazi lokubala kunye nezinye izakhono asizizo iinjongo ezinyanzelekileyo ebuntwaneni. Into eqhele ukufundwa kwiminyaka yokuqala ngamanani, imibala, iileta ezithile, ingqiqo yemathematika kunye nokwaziswa kolwazi lokufunda nokubhala…. Into enokufundwa ngumntwana wakho cwaka ekhaya ngaphandle kobungqongqo kunye neendlela zokuya esikolweni.
Ukufundisa ekhaya kunezibonelelo zako
Ngeli nqanaba, ukufunda kwabantwana kusekwe, ngaphezulu kokufundela, ekufumaneni ubuchule kunye nezakhono ezinjengokuzimela, amandla okusebenza okanye unxibelelwano. Ukufundela ekhaya kwenza abazali zibandakanyeke ngakumbi ekufundeni kwabantwana babo. Ukongeza, xa usekhaya, umntwana ufumana ingqalelo ebhalwe ngokwam ngakumbi ngokwesingqi sabo.
Njengoncedo sinokubonisa into yokuba kwiimeko ezininzi, isidingo sokusebenza senza ukuba kungabikho lula ukuhlala ekhaya nabantwana bethu. Kwelinye icala, iintsapho ezininzi ziziva zilinganiselwe xa zikhuthaza ngakumbi abantwana bazo kwaye zikhetha ukuba zifundiswe ngabantu abakhethekileyo. Ukongeza, ngamanye amaxesha, isikolo sibonelela ngokwahluka kobudlelwane kunye neemeko ngamanye amaxesha usapho olungenakho ukuzinikela.
Uluntu
Kukho uluvo ngokubanzi lokuba abantwana kufuneka baye esikolweni ukuze bayonwaba. Kwaye, nangona kuyinyani ukuba esikolweni bayonwaba kwaye bafunda ngezinye izinto ezikhoyo, banokwenza njalo esitratweni, epakini, kwilayibrari yokudlala, kwiintlanganiso nabahlobo kunye nezinye iimeko ezingapheliyo. Ubomi ngokwabo kunye nemihla ngemihla, sincede ukuba sihlangane ngokwendalo. Nangona kunjalo, kwiintsapho ezininzi ukunqongophala kwexesha, indawo abahlala kuyo okanye ukunqongophala kwezixhobo kwenza ukuba le ntlalontle ibe nzima kwaye nesikolo sibonelele ngale mfuno.
Ugonyo
Enye intsomi enkulu kukuba abantwana besikolo bayagonywa kwangethuba. Nangona kunjalo, amajoni omzimba abantwana awagqibi ukukhula de babe neminyaka emi-5 okanye emi-6 ubudala, ke kule minyaka yobudala umzimba wakho awukakulungeli ukuzikhusela kwizinto ezincinci kwaye baya kugula ngakumbi.
Ukuphila ngokwasemoyeni
Kunzima kakhulu ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ahlukane nonina. Uninzi luyakhala xa lungena esikolweni kwaye luxhomekeke ku- uxinzelelo olungafunekiyo usemncinci kangakas. Kwizikolo ezininzi, kukho ixesha lokuziqhelanisa apho abantwana banokuhamba umzuzwana usuku ngalunye, nokuba bakhatshwa zizalamane zabo, kodwa kwezinye akukho ndlela yimbi, ke ukuqala kuya kusiba nzima ngakumbi.
Isikolo sinokuba ngumthombo wobuchule kodwa singasinciphisa
Kukho izikolo apho basebenza nezinye iindlela zokufundisa apho izingqi, ubuchule kunye namandla abantwana ahlonitshwayo. Kodwa kwezinye ezininzi, Inkqubo iphindwe kabini kwaye unamathela ekufezekiseni iinjongo ezithile ngokunciphisa umda ekucingeni nasekucaciseni abantwana.
Abantwana kufuneka bafuduke
Abantwana abancinci kufuneka bahambe, badlale, baphonononge, kwaye benze ulingelo. Ngelixa kuyinyani oko kwizikolo ezininzi basebenza ngamaqela, iiprojekthi kunye nokudlala simahla, basekhona abaninzi abaqhubeka nokugcina abantwana behleli iiyure besenza amakhadi esalathiso.
Umvuzo nezohlwayo
Iklasi yabantwana abangama-25 kumntu omnye akukho lula ukuyiphatha. Ngesi sizathu, abanye ootitshala babhenela kwiindlela apho isimilo sivuzwa okanye sohlwaywa ngobuso obonwabileyo okanye obonwabileyo, iisilas zokucinga kunye nezinye iinkqubo ezingabonakali zanele kum buqu. Ndikhetha ukuba abantwana bam bafunde izinto kuba amaxabiso abethelelwe kuzo hayi kuba belindele umvuzo okanye boyika ukohlwaywa. Ngethamsanqa, ootitshala abaninzi kunye nezikolo zikhuthaza uhlobo oluhloniphekileyo lokufundisa.
Uxanduva lokususa ilweyile
Kuninzi lwezikolo, ukuba ayizizo zonke, abantwana kufuneka bahambe ngaphandle kwe-diaper. Inqanaba lokukhula komntwana ngamnye alithathelwa ngqalelo, kwaye abanye banyanzelwa ukuba baqeqeshe isitya ngaphambi kwexesha.
Ukuba andiyi esikolweni ndineminyaka emithathu, umntwana wam uzakushiyeka engenandawo?
Le yenye yezinto ezoyikekayo xa sicinga ukuba abantwana bethu mababathunyelwe esikolweni. Kungenzeka ukuba aphelelwe yindawo kwisikolo osifunayo kodwa, ukuba unako, kufanelekile ukunika umntwana wakho ixesha elininzi nathi ekhaya. Kwakhona cinga lonto ukhetho lwesikolo alunakujikwa. Kananjalo kunyaka olandelayo bakunika indawo kwisikolo owawusifuna okanye mhlawumbi isikolo esitsha siya kukumangalisa. Ubomi besikolo bude kakhulu kwaye ekugqibeleni, uhlengahlengiso lomntwana luxhomekeke ikakhulu kubantu abamngqongileyo kunakwisikolo esinye okanye kwesinye.
Ukuba ungomnye wabantu abacinga ukuba ubathathe abantwana bakho ubase esikolweni okanye hayi, uyakubona ukuba isigqibo asikho lula. Uloyiko lwethu kunye nokungaqiniseki kunye nobunzima bokulungelelanisa kuvelisa amathandabuzo amaninzi kunye nokungaqiniseki malunga nokuba senza okulungileyo okanye okubi. Kodwa uqinisekile, ekugqibeleni Isigqibo osithathayo, ngokweemeko zakho kunye nokucamngca ngentliziyo yakho, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba sesilungileyo. Bonke oomama bangathanda ukuhlala nabantwana bethu ekhaya kwiminyaka yabo yokuqala, kodwa ukuba oko akunakwenzeka, cinga ukuba kukho ootitshala abamangalisayo kunye nezikolo ezikhulu apho umntwana wakho angaba nexesha elimnandi kwaye abe namava angalibalekiyo. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, khumbula ukuba unokuhlala utshintsha kwaye ujonge enye indlela ngokweemfuno zakho.