Xa kubanda, into yokugqibela ocinga ngayo xa ufaka abantwana bakho emotweni kukukhulula iingubo zabo, kodwa ungathini xa usithi kuwe ukuba uyakwenza oko, ungasindisa ubomi babo? Kwimeko yengozi, ukunxiba idyasi kwisitulo semoto kunokuba yingozi. Nangona ingozi engaphambili ayifani nengozi esecaleni ... Zininzi iindidi zeengozi kwaye nganye yazo inobungozi bayo.
Umzekelo, ukuba kukho ingozi engaphambili kwaye umntwana ehleli kwicala lokuhamba, i-inertia inkulu kwaye ukuba umntwana unxibe idyasi kwaye ubhinqe kancinci, isifuba somntwana siza kutyibilika phakathi kweebhanti kwaye Umzimba uguqulwe phambili ukuze umqolo nentamo zichaphazeleke kakhulu kwaye inokubangela nokufa.
Ibhatyi ibangela umthamo kwaye ukuba ikwatyibilika umntwana akazukuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo ngokwaneleyo. Kwimeko yengozi, ukuba umntwana unxibe idyasi, umzimba wakhe uya kuncamathela ngakumbi kwibhanti eya kuthi ikwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wayo ngokuchanekileyo kwimeko yengozi. Kungcono ukuba ungambathi idyasi emntwaneni kwaye uyibeke phezu kwayo, ubeke ingubo kuyo okanye ubeke iheater yemoto ukuba ifakwe ngaphakathi kwemisebenzi yayo. Abantwana mabasoloko benqandwa kwaye behleli phantsi, nokuba uhambo luyimizuzu emibini, ngekhe wazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni!
Khumbula ukuba ukongeza kwibhanti, umntwana wakho kufuneka ahlale phantsi kwinkqubo yokuthintela umntwana efanelekileyo kubungakanani nobunzima bakhe. Akunakuze, naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, ukuba umntwana (okanye umntu omdala) ahambe ngemoto ngaphandle kwamanyathelo afanelekileyo okhuseleko, akusekho ngenxa yesohlwayo ... kungenxa yokuba amawaka obomi anokugcinwa ngonyaka ngale ndlela.