Abantwana bafana nabacuphi abancinci abazi kakuhle xa uthetha inyani okanye xa uxoka. Xa unganyanisekanga ngokupheleleyo, banokuziva bedidekile nokuba ucinga ukuba bayakholelwa nyani… abanyanisekanga. Baneentandabuzo malunga nokuba uyakwazi njani ukuthetha into engeyonyani.
Kukho ingxoxo mpikiswano malunga nokuba ingaba ngumbono olungileyo na ukunika wonke umntu indebe ngokuthatha inxaxheba kumdlalo okanye elugqatsweni kwaye ulebhelishe umntwana ngamnye njengonetalente noo-A. Ngelixa inkuthazo yokudumisa okungafanelekanga ivela kwimvelaphi elungileyo, ingafuni ukuba abantwana bazive bengalunganga malunga nabo kwaye bezama ukuzithemba, inyani kukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onokuphumelela okanye anetalente efanayo kuyo yonke into ... Ke banikwa ithemba lobuxoki.
Ngapha koko, kubalulekile ukukhulisa umnqweno womntwana wakho wokuzama, mhlawumbi usilele, kwaye uzame kwakhona izinto afuna ukuzenza. Kodwa kukho indlela yokumkhuthaza ngaphandle kokumdumisa xa kungenasizathu. Ukuba umntwana wakho usilela kwinto ethile, Mkhumbuze ukuba ukungaphumeleli kuhlala kufanelekile ukuze ngenye imini enze kakuhle ukuze enze konke akufunayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akalunganga ngokwendalo kwinto ethile, kuya kufuneka umkhuthaze ukuba acinge ukuba zeziphi izinto abazithanda kakhulu kwaye acinge nangabantu abahlukeneyo, abafana nabahlobo kunye nosapho, abalungileyo kwizinto ezahlukeneyo, kwaye lo mahluko zibalulekile kwaye zahlule omnye komnye. Asilunganga sonke ngokufanayo kuba kukwahluka kubutyebi babantu. Yintoni esenza sahluke kwaye sinomdla kukuba sikwazi ukwenza izinto ezahlukeneyo ngaphandle kokuba sonke sifane kwinto ethile.