IKrisimesi ikufuphi kwikona kwaye sonke siyazi ukuba xa ifika, imimoya yabantu iqala ukutshintsha. IKrisimesi imalunga nokuhambisa amaxabiso kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana nokuba zithini na iinkolelo zosapho. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba kuluntu lwethu iKrisimesi ibinomdabu oqhelekileyo okanye inkolo kude kube kudalaKancinci kancinci, le mihla isetyenziselwa ukuba abantwana bafunde amaxabiso aphezulu, ngaphandle kwenkolelo yosapho.
Kodwa ezi zinto zixabisekileyo ezifundiswa abantwana kumatheko eKrisimesi akufuneki zipheleliselwe kule mihla. Amaxabiso lawo ekufuneka esihambile apha enyakeni, kuba ngenxa yamaxabiso asemgangathweni singakha uluntu oluhlangeneyo apho ukuhlonipha iziqu zethu kunye nabanye kungamaqela aphambili.
Ububele kunye nesisa
Xa kufika iKrisimesi, abantu abaninzi baveza elona cala labo, Ziyabonakala kwiivenkile ezinkulu apho abantu bathenga kancinane ngakumbi ukuyinika imibutho ukuze bafikelele kwabona bantu bahluphekileyo. Ngandlela thile, siyazi ukuba kumakhaya amaninzi kuyakubakho intabalala ngale mihla kwaye uninzi lweentsapho alunakubanakho ukubala kwisitya esishushu sasebusuku ngaphandle kokuba abanye abantu bangakunika oko. Eli xabiso ngokungathandabuzekiyo bobubele kunye nesisa.
Kodwa kutheni uhlala kuphela xa kufika iKrisimesi? Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba ububele kunye nesisa ayisiyonto ekufuneka yenziwe kube kanye ngonyaka. Lixabiso lemihla ngemihla, apho abantu abamanyeneyo banokuya phambili.
Nceda abanye
Ukulandelwa yingongoma yokuqala sisibindi sokunceda abanye, ukuziva uvelwano, ukwazi ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa elifanayo ebomini. Ngesi sizathu, namhlanje kukho imibutho emininzi enamavolontiya ngeKrisimesi- ngexesha leKrisimesi amavolontiya ayaphindaphindeka kunaphakathi enyakeni-ukunceda abahlelelekileyo. Ukuba unabantwana abadala ngokwaneleyo, Ungasayina njengamatsha-ntliziyo ukuze bazive ngokwabo ukuba kuthetha ntoni na ukunceda abanye.
Kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokuba uncede abanye ngokujoyina umbutho, zininzi ezinye iindlela onokuphinda usebenze ngazo apha enyakeni. Umzekelo, abantwana bangafundiswa - ngomzekelo hayi ngamazwi nje kuphela - ukwenza izinto ezincinanana zemihla ngemihla ezinje ngokunceda umntu omdala ukuphatha iibhegi, ukunceda ummelwane ukusika ingca, ukunceda umhlobo kwisikolo angasiqondiyo, njl. Ukunceda abanye, ukongeza ekubeni lixabiso elikhulu, kuya kuhlala kunika abantwana umsebenzi omkhulu wangaphakathi oya kwenza ukuzithemba kwabo kubengcono.
Yiba nombulelo
Ukubulela lixabiso ekufuneka lisetyenziselwe kokubini ebantwaneni nakubantu abadala. Siphila kwihlabathi apho kubonakala ngathi ukuthanda izinto yinto eqhelekileyo. Abantu bafuna itekhnoloji yamva nje okanye ezona moto zinkulu… 'izinto' zibalulekile kwaye baninzi abantwana abanabo, kokukhona bafuna… ngaphandle kokunika naluphi na uhlobo lwexabiso kwizinto abanazo ebomini babo.
Wakhe wambona umntwana esindwa zizipho kangangokuba wayengazi ukuba adlale ngantoni okanye nokuba ajonge phi? Le yingxaki, kuba xa abantwana benokuninzi kakhulu baqala ukuphazamisa kungekuphela kwizinto kodwa kunye nentsingiselo yokunikwa into kunye nothando olusisipho sesipho ngasinye.. Kuba abantwana bebancinci, kufuneka ubethelele kubo ixabiso lombulelo, ukuba nombulelo kungekuphela ngezipho, kodwa nangezinto ezincinci ebomini.
Njengoko intetho isithi: "Kuhle ukuzalwa ukuba unombulelo." Kwaye kukuba umntu ofunda ukuba nombulelo ngento anayo ebomini, nokuba ingaphezulu okanye incinci into ... akazukufuna izinto zokonwaba, akazukufuna oko omnye kufuneka azive ngcono , kuba ulonwabo lufumaneka kwizinto ezincinci, kubomi bemihla ngemihla ... kwaye njalo, ngohlobo lwamava kunye nabantu - hayi izipho.
Izithethe zosapho
Izithethe zosapho zibalulekile ngeli xesha leKrisimesi. Abantwana, xa bephila amasiko osapho, baya kuba nemvakalelo enkulu yokuba ngamalungu, into eya kubenza bazive beyinxalenye yeqela kwaye iyakwandisa ukuzithemba kwabo kunye nexabiso labo langaphakathi. Ukuba yinxalenye yosapho okanye iqela kusenza sizive silungile, sanelisekile kwaye sikhuselekile. Isithethe sosapho sinokwenza ezona nkumbulo zibalaseleyo zabantwana, iinkumbulo eziya kubumba ubuntu babo kwaye ziya kubakhapha ubomi babo bonke. Kakhulu, kangangokuba abantu abaninzi bavelisa amasiko afanayo ababehlala ebuntwaneni babo ukuze bakwazi ukuziva oko baziva ngelo xesha kwaye bakugqithisela kwizizukulwana ezilandelayo.
Amasiko nawo alungile ngexesha leKrisimesi kuba:
- Inika isazisi esomeleleyo.
- Imbali yosapho kunye neenkumbulo ezintle ziyenziwa.
- Amaqhina entsapho ayomelela.
- Banikela intuthuzelo kunye nokhuseleko.
- Izizukulwana zixhunyiwe.
- Iinkumbulo ezingapheliyo ziyenziwa.
Ukudibana kosapho
Elinye ixabiso elidluliselwa ebantwaneni ngexesha leKrisimesi ngumanyano losapho. Kodwa le yinto ekufuneka ikhuthazwe unyaka wonke hayi kuphela ngexesha leKrisimesi. Abantwana bafuna uzinzo, kufuneka bazive bethandwa kwaye bekhuselekile.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhumbule isidlo sangokuhlwa sosapho apho abantu abangathethiyo behlanganisene kunye isidlo sangokuhlwa kwitafile enye kuba iyiKrisimesi. Kodwa, kutheni emva kokuphela konyaka bengathethisani? Oku kwabantwana kunokuphikisana kwaye banokufunda ubuxoki okanye uhanahaniso, amaxabiso angafanelekanga ekukhuleni okuhle kobuntu.
Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba phakathi enyakeni, abantu bakwazi ukusombulula iingxaki zabo kwaye baqonde ukuba umanyano losapho lubaluleke kakhulu, hayi ebantwaneni kuphela, kodwa nakumntu ngamnye kuthi. Ebomini kukho izinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi kuneengxoxo ezilula, uthando kunye nosapho kufuneka lube ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto.