Siyazi ukuba ukucamngca kusinceda silawule uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lokuba, ngamanye amaxesha sinomama kunye nabantwana, kodwa ukusuka kobuphi ubudala kwaye zeziphi iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokucamngca ngokobudala bomntwana wam? Siza kukuxelela ngale nto kweli nqaku, kwaye siza kukunika eminye imizekelo.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-3, abancinci banokuziqhelanisa nokucamngca ngendlela yokufunda. Phambi kokuba senze iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphumla kunye nabo, ebancede bakwazi ukulawula uxinzelelo, kodwa kungoku apho banokuthi baqale ukuyenza ngendlela enolwazi ngakumbi kunye nokulawula iimvakalelo zabo.
Imibuzo esisiseko yokucamngca yabantwana
Kubaluleke kakhulu, ukucamngca nabantwana, lungelelanisa ukuziqhelanisa nezixhobo ezifanelekileyo ngokwenqanaba leminyaka yazo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba abantwana abanalo ingqwalaselo efanayo neyomntu omkhulu. Kwakhona ekuqaleni, akukho njongo yangaphambili yokucamngca.
Iindlela zokucamngca ziqala ukwenziwa ukusuka kwiminyaka ye-3. Amanqanaba obudala aqhelekileyo: aphakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-4, iminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-8 naphakathi kweminyaka eli-9 neli-12. Injongo kukuba ukucamngca kuyamonwabisa kwaye kumonwabisa umntwana. Injongo kukudibanisa umntwana nengaphakathi lakhe, umfundise ukwenza iibhlorho eziqinileyo kwabanye kwaye umncede azive ukudibana kunye nokunxibelelana nendalo kunye noMhlaba.
Esinye sezikolo ezisebenza kumxholo wokucamngca kwabantwana siSikolo sokuCamngca kweNdalo iphela yeAda neZax apho basebenzisa ikakhulu ukudanisa okunengqondo, intetho yokuyila, ubugcisa kunye nokuzonwabisa okudibeneyo. Ezinye izikolo zisingatha ezinye iindlela, zisebenzisa amabali, izikweko kunye nendalo, okanye izinto zemihla ngemihla, ezinokusondeza ukucamngca ebantwaneni.
Iindlela zokucamngca ngeminyaka
Okulandelayo, kwimivumbo ebanzi sikuxelela iindlela kunye neendlela ezisetyenziswa kakhulu ebantwaneni ngokweminyaka yabo.
- Ukucamngca phantsi kweminyaka emi-3, ukuya kuthi ga ku-5. Kwanele ukuvumela inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ukuba ihambe nathi xa sicamngca. Yonke imihla unganikezela ngomzuzu omnye kwi ubuchule bokulinganisa inyosi. Kuya kufuneka bahlale benemilenze enqamlezileyo, kwaye bavale iindlebe zabo ngoobhontsi kwaye balingise isandi senyosi ngelixa bevale amehlo. Kuphela koku.
- Ukucamngca kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-8. Kuluhlu lobudala umntwana uyabandakanyeka ngakumbi. Ngemisebenzi kunye nemidlalo ebandakanya ukucamngca. Singa Sebenzisa iincwadi, iingoma, izandi, ngaphandle kokulibala ukuphefumla kwakho. Nantoni na ekunceda ujolise ingqalelo yakho iya kukunceda ucamngce. Ukususela kwiminyaka emi-5, imantra elula sele ingenisiwe.
- Ukucamngca kwabantwana ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-9, kude kube kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Abantwana sele benakho Qonda ezinye zeendlela zokucinga ukuze ucamngce. Banokwenza ukucamngca okukhokelwayo ngamabali aguqulelwe kubudala babo, ebakhokelela kwimeko yokucamngca yokwenyani.
Njengoko sihlala sithanda ukukhumbula, umntwana ngamnye yindalo iphela. Umntwana oqhele ukubona abazali kunye nabantakwabo becamngca uya kukufumanisa kulula ukuziqhelanisa nezi ndlela.
Iindlela onokuthi uzisebenzise xa ucamngca ngabantwana
El Ibhotile yokuzola liqhinga esinokuthi silisebenzise ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-2, xa umntwana enomsindo. Umbono kukuba nebhola yabo balahla i-glitter. Ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana esiba nomsindo, simbonisa ibhola, xa siyishukumisa, ubumenyemenye buza kuhamba buwe. Kancinci kancinci umntwana uya kugxila koku kuwa kwaye uya kukhululeka.
La Inkqubo yofudo isetyenziswa nangaliphi na ixesha. Intombazana kufuneka icinge ukuba ingufudo, iya kujika ijonge ezantsi. Siza kukuxelela ukuba kuya kufuneka ulale. Kuya kufuneka uzobe imilenze neengalo zakho kancinci de zibe sezantsi nje komqolo wakho. Emva kwemizuzwana engama-30 ngolu hlobo, apho sinokuphulula umqolo wakhe. Siza kukuxelela ukuba sele ihambile kwaye ungabuyela umva njengoko ungene.
Ipendi imandala Ngumsebenzi ophumla kakhulu okhulula ingqondo yayo nayiphi na enye ingcinga ngaphandle kombala. Iya kubanceda bahlakulele umonde kunye namanqanaba oxinzelelo asezantsi. Kukho ezinye iindlela ezinje ngokudlala ngememori ebonakalayo, ukuhlala uzolile njengesele, ibhaluni, iluncedo kakhulu kubantwana abaneengxaki ze-ADHD, okanye ukuziqhelanisa neyoga.