Ukuvalelwa ekhaya kukhokelele amaxesha amaninzi aphazamisayo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Baye bachukunyiswa yindima yokuba ngabamkeli kunye nezihambisi zentsholongwane ye-COVID-19 kunye Uninzi lwabo lubonile njengento ephaphileyo kwaye entsha kubo. Ukunqongophala kwenkcazo ebantwaneni kubakhokelele ekubeni baphume baye kujongana noloyiko esinalo sonke.
Kuninzi lwaba bantwana uchaza uluvo lokuba isitalato ibe yenye indawo ukuba xa siphuma, sinokubamba into enobungozi. Benze olo loyiko lwangaphakathi kwaye abaninzi abasenabuganga bokulishiya ikhaya. Ukusilela kokucokiswa kwabantwana kuye kwaba yingxaki encinci kweminye imizi.
Ukusilela kokucocwa kuye kwenzeka njani ebantwaneni?
Oku kuphuma phesheya kuye kwathathwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye ngamanyathelo afakelweyo abangayithandiyo inkululeko abafuna ukuziva. Abantwana kufuneka baphume bekhatshwa ngabazali babo, kangangeyure enesiqingatha kwaye hayi kude kangangekhilomitha ukusuka ekhaya.
Isiphakamiso sikhatshwa ngu uthotho lweengcebiso zokuba abantwana bathobele imithetho, phakathi kwabo: akufuneki badibane nezinto, okanye nabanye abantu kwaye kuncinci nabantu abadlala nabo kunye neklasi. Umgama wokuba bakwazi ukunxibelelana yimitha enye enesiqingatha kunye nebinzana elisuselweyo ekufuneka baliqonde, oko kukuthi ukunqanda ukosulela nokungasasazeli intsholongwane.
Uninzi lwabantwana baziva benemincili yokuba nako ukuphuma, babambe izithuthuthu zabo, iibhola kwaye banike inkululeko kumdlalo. Kodwa ye- abanye baziva ukurhoxa ngokuya phesheya ngenxa yokoyika okudalwe kwimeko enjalo.
Ukwahluka kwamatyala neemvakalelo ziye zahluka kakhulu, ngokubanzi, uninzi lwaba bancinci luneempawu zoxinzelelo, ngokungahambisi ngengqondo okwenzekayo. Phakathi kwezi mpawu baye bakhula intloko ebuhlungu, isisu esibuhlungu nokuphefumla kancinci. Kubantwana abadala, olu xinzelelo ludala uloyiko olukhulu, amaphupha amabi, ukutshintsha kwemozulu rhoqo kunye nequbuliso, nokulila ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kwabanye abathe cwaka ngakumbi, oku akunako ukuzibonakalisa ngokwendalo, kufuneka babonakalise iimvakalelo zabo, kufuneka Thetha nabo ukuze ubone ukuba baziva bekhathazekile na.
Singa nceda njani ekucocweni kwendalo?
Kuya kufuneka uthethe nabo kwaye banike ukhuseleko, bachaze ukuba impilo yabo ayikho emngciphekweni. Ngokucacileyo oku kuza neseti yamanyathelo ekufuneka bewenzile ukuze kungabikho suleleko, kodwa okokuqala, kufuneka baqiniseke ukuba bazakushiya, kwaye bazoyonwabela imidlalo yabo.
Mhlawumbi uvile ukuba zezona zidlulisi zinkulu kwaye inokuthi ichaphazele imeko yakho ye-asymptomatic yokosulela abantu abangayifanelanga, njengotatomkhulu nomakhulu wakho. Kuyimfuneko ukuphonononga olu luvo lokuba ayizizo ezona ziphambili ezibangela oku, kuya kufuneka ubususe kubo ubunzima.
Kolu nyuko Nika ixesha nexesha. Olu luvo kufuneka lubonakaliswe ngaphandle kokulindela okuhle kwaye yonke into izakubuyela esiqhelweni. Ngobuchule bokubacacisela ukuba ngoku lixesha lokupheliswa linyathelo elinye kuphela lenkqubo, kuphela Kuya kufuneka ulandele uthotho lwemithetho kwaye unike indlela kwi-adventure encinci.
Ukuba ixesha lifikile kwaye umntwana akafuni ukuphuma, akucebisi ukubanyanzela. Uninzi lwabantwana banokuzibona bengafuni ukuphuma. Mhlawumbi kunjalo indlu yakho iya kukunika ukhuseleko ngakumbi, kodwa ungothuki, iya kuba yinto yethutyana kwaye kude kube yonke into iqhelekile mhlawumbi bazitshintshile iingqondo zabo.