Ekuphuhliseni ukuhanjiswa okuqhelekileyoIzigaba ezi-3 ziyajongwa: ukwanda, ukugxothwa kunye nokuhanjiswa; Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngokutyhala (ukugxotha) okuqala xa ukwandiswa komlomo wesibeleko kwenzeka, kwaye kuphele xa usana lushiya umzimba kanina.. Ngokumalunga nexesha eliqhelekileyo lokugxothwa, nangona iyahluka, inokuba malunga neeyure ezimbini ngokuzaliswa ngokupheleleyo koomama bokuqala, kodwa kwimeko yoomama abaphindaphindayo (ukuzalwa kwangaphambili) ixesha liya kuncitshiswa ukuya kuthi ga kwiyure
Kwelinye icala, eli nqanaba lahlulwe labangamaxesha amabini ahlukeneyo, elokugqibela liyinto esebenzayo (okanye ehambele phambili) efikelela kuvuthondaba ngokuzalwa, iyaqondwa ngumnqweno wokutyhala kunye nokuchasana; kwaye yandulelwa lixesha elidlulileyo, apho umbungu wehlela kumjelo wokuzalwa. Ukutyhala kwendalo kukungazibandakanyi, kubangelwa luxinzelelo olusuka entlokweni yosana ngaye Umgangatho we-pelvic, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukutyhala kulawulwa ngabasebenzi bezempilo abazimasa ukuhanjiswa.Ngaba le nkqubo yanele xa kunyangwa ukuhanjiswa kwenkqubo yomzimba?
En le ntetho yonxibelelwano ipapashwe ngu "matronas Úbeda", sifunde ukuba ixesha elide, umkhwa ibikukuhlenga-hlengisa iibhidi, kodwa xa umsebenzi ubasemngciphekweni omncinci, ubungqina besayensi (kunye nengqondo) bubonisa ukuba "umfazi kufuneka avunyelwe ukuba atyhale ngokukhululekileyo nangokuzenzekelayo". Olu xwebhu lukwabonelela ngolwazi oluxabisekileyo malunga nendlela esi simo sengqondo esichaphazela ngayo:
- Kumama: intuthuzelo kunye nolwaneliseko, ukonzakala okumbalwa, iimeko ezimbalwa ekusebenzeni kwendlela kaKristeller.
- Kwimveku engekazalwa: Amanqaku e-Apgar angcono, ukugcwala kweoksijini ngokupheleleyo.
Ke, ngalo lonke ixesha imeko yezonyango ilungile, kulula ngakumbi ukuba ungangeneleli, kwaye Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, musa ukuxhaphaza imbono yomfazi okhulelweyo, umenze akholelwe ukuba kulungelwe yena, okanye umntwana.
Zinjani ukutyhala okuzenzekelayo?
Ama-3 ukuya ku-5 amafutshane amafutshane ahlala esenzeka kwisivumelwano ngasinye, amafutshane kunokuba ayalelwe; kusenokwenzeka ukuba xa utyhala ngokwendalo, ukugxothwa kukude, kodwa ngaphandle kwexesha (elingafanelanga ukuba libonwe ngendlela engeyiyo) zonke ziluncedo. Xa 'singayalelwanga' sityhala umphunga, kwaye siziva sikhululekile ukugcuma, esinceda ukukhupha umoya.
Okokugqibela, kufanelekile ukuba sikhankanye ukuba kwixesha langaphambi kokugxothwa (ixesha lokuhamba kunye nexesha lokuqala lokugxotha), kufanelekile ukuvumela umama ukuba hamba ngokukhululekileyo.
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