Kwi-tandem ukuncancisa, kunye neminye imibuzo enxulumene nokuncancisa, i Isicelo seLactApp esele siyibonisile Madres Hoy; Sisihloko esifanelwe ukwandiswa, ukuba kuphela ukwenza kubonakale abo mama bancancisayo abantwana ababini (okanye nangaphezulu) bobudala obahlukeneyo. Xa sithetha ngolu ncanciso sibhekisa kulo Ngamaxesha apho umntwana omdala engakhange alunyulwe ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kwaye abelana ngobisi lukamama nosana xa kuzalwa umntwana.
Ndingomnye wabo mama, kwaye nangona amava am ebengekho mahle njengabanye endiwafundileyo ngexesha lokuncancisa okanye iiforamu zabazali (ngelo xesha iFacebook yayingafane ibonakale, kwaye i-Twitter yayingekho kwaphela), bekungafanelekanga ukuba ndanyanzelisa omdala (ndandineenyanga ezili-18 kuphela ubudala xa ndaphinda ndakhulelwa) ukuba ndiyeke itit. Kwiifoto ndibonakala ndinempahla ndigoduka, ndididekile, kwaye kunzima nokuhamba nabantwana ababini ezingalweni zam; mhlawumbi ndingayenza kwakhona, kodwa ndingayenza ngcono, yiyo loo nto ndiqokelele olu lwazi lulandelayo olunokukunceda.
Ukuncancisa kungqongwe ziintsomi: uthini ukuba ubisi lwakho luyaphela, ukuba akondli ukusuka kubudala obunye (siya kwanda kwesinye isihlandlo), ukuba umzalwana uza "kuluba" ubisi oludinga kakhulu emntwaneni, ukuba awunancancisi ngelixa ukhulelwe: Ummelwane uthe ungaphunza '; Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka usoloko uzama ukufumana imithombo ethembekileyo.
Ukuncancisa ibele eTandem -Yintoni ke leyo?
Yimeko engalindelekanga kwaphela, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuyazi ukuba izakuhamba njani kumava amaninzi owafundileyo: Ndijonge imifanekiso yabantwana abancanca kwangaxeshanye babambana ngezandla, lonto khange yenzeke kum, inene, bendiya kufaneleka njengentsomi ethi 'ngekhe kubekho khwele xa benoncanca ngaxeshanye. Ukuba isigqibo sithathiwe kwaye kukho uncedo, akukho sizathu sobunzima, kodwa ulumke kakhulu ngokuncancisa abadala 'ngaphandle kothando' okanye umjonge 'njengengxaki' kuba ukhetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomncinci. Ukuncancisa sisenzo sendalo, kodwa kukho amaxesha apho oomama kufuneka bangene, bathembeke kwinto esivakalelwa ngayo kwaye senze ngokufanelekileyo.
Ndicinga ukuba yinto exhaphake kakhulu xa abantwana bethatha ixesha elincinci (iinyanga ezili-18, 2, 3, 4 iminyaka ... lelo lixesha elifutshane lokuliphakamisa-kuxhomekeke kwindlela ojongeka ngayo, kunjalo-) kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo Umdala akakabikho ngokwaneleyo ukuba ngumama ukuze azive ekhuselekile. Kungenxa yoko le nto olu hlobo lokuncancisa lunengqiqo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ukuchaza izibonelelo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga, ngaphambi kokuba ndikunike iingcebiso eziluncedo, ndingathanda ukukhomba into: Ufunde ntoni ukuba oyena mntwana mdala uhlala ethatha imipu kwakhona xa sele ezelwe umntwana? Ewe kuyinyani: kokubini ngaxeshanye amaxesha amaninzi ngemini xa kukho imfuneko, kwibele elinye ukuncancisa umntwana oneminyaka emi-2 onamava, kwelinye elincinci osandula ukubuyela ebomini kwaye ngokuzolileyo ubambe ingono ixesha ngalinye ngubani olambileyo. Inamandla kwaye iyadinisa, kodwa ngandlela ithile iyamangalisa.
Izinto eziluncedo nezingalunganga
Emva kokubeleka, umntwana uya kuxhamla kwi-colostrum, kodwa ukwanda kobisi kuya kwenzeka kwangaphambili, kuba (nangona incinci ikhethwa, enkulu iyaqhubeka nokuncancisa kwaye ivuselele imveliso). Ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo ukuthintela i-engorgement. Ukuphazamiseka okanye utshintsho lweemvakalelo kumzalwana osele ekhulile lunokuncitshiswa: Umama akamnqandi ukuba anxibelelane nomzimba wakhe, kwaye akayeki ukumkhusela ngeempawu zokuzikhusela kubisi lwebele. Iintsana zikholisa ukutyeba msinyane, kwaye iingxaki zokukhula azifane zenzeke (kuhlala kukho ubisi oluninzi kunokuba kufuneka).
Njengoko benditshilo, kum ayisiyiyo i-100% eyinyani yokuba umona uyanyamalala, kodwa ukuncancisa uxinzelelo, kwaye kunganciphisa ifuthe lokwamkela ilungu elitsha losapho ... umntu oza kutsala umdla kamama notata. .
Ngokubhekisele ezantsi: sukuzikhulisa, kodwa kubalulekile ukuzazi. Unokonganyelwa, unokuba neemvakalelo ezingalunganga ngomdala, ungoyiswa ... Khumbula ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nenkxaso kunye noncedo lwasekhaya, utata okanye ezinye izalamane kufuneka zikhathalele ukutya, iimpahla kunye nokucoca. Njengokuba ixesha lihamba, omdala-nawe-uya kwenza kakuhle kakhulu ukuphuma uye epakini kwaye uhambe uyokuhamba uhambo, nokuba umncinci kwaye ukhetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nomama. Kwelinye icala, icolostrum inesiphumo sokuhambisa isisu, ngenxa yoko izibulo lakho linokwenza iipopu ezikhululekileyo.
Ukuncancisa itandem: izinto ezingakumbi ofuna ukuzazi
Ngokuqinisekileyo unokuncancisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa!
Njengoko benditshilo, akuyomfuneko ukulumula olizibulo ukuba uyakhulelwa kwaye usancancisa: akukho nto izakwenzeka kusana lwakho olutsha, lukhuselekile ngokupheleleyo. Unokuva ukuba kukho umngcipheko wokupheliswa kokukhulelwa, okanye ukuba umama udiniwe kakhulu, kodwa akukho nanye kwezi eyinyani. Kukho uloyiko oluninzi malunga neenkqubo zokukhulelwa, zokubeleka, zokuncancisa kunye nokuba ngumzali ukuba kufuneka sigxothe, ukuze umntu ngamnye wasetyhini onolwazi olululo enze esona sigqibo sihle.
Ukuncipha kwesibeleko abanye oomama abaziva bephela xa inkwenkwe okanye intombazana igqiba ukonga. Kungenxa ye-oxytocin, ebizwa ngokuba yi-hormone yothando, oko akubandakanyi kuphela ekunceliseni, kodwa nasemsebenzini, okanye ngexesha le-orgasms. Ngoku: ukuba ukhathazwa sisisu okanye ukuhanjiswa kwangoko, ugqirha wamabhinqa makavavanye le meko, kodwa yimeko ekhethekileyo.
Bamalunga nama-60 kwabali-100 abantwana abancanciswa ubisi lwebele xa umama ekhulelwa kwakhona balunyulwa; Kubonakala kusengqiqweni kum ukusukela oko umfazi ekhulelweyo efumana utshintsho kwaye unokwazi okanye ngokungazi ukuba unqwenela ukulumla, Isenokuba yintombazana okanye inkwenkwe ethi, xa iqaphela utshintsho, yalile ibele. Phakathi kotshintsho kukutshintsha incasa, kodwa oku kwenzeka emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa; ukonyusa ubuntununtunu kwiingono.
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana kuqala.
Umntakwabo sele exhamle kwi-colostrum xa wayezalwa, ngoku lithuba lakhe: le ayifuni mntu ukukuqinisekisa, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo uyenza loo nto
Kodwa oku kunokuba njalo ngelixa uvelisa icolostrum, iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala; emva koko unganishiya nobabini nifunxe okanye nibeke imida komdala (kuphela emva kokutya naphambi kokulala, njl.. Konke kuxhomekeke kubudala babo, kwindlela oziva ukhululeke ngayo, kwaye nokuba uyakwazi ukuncancisa ngaphandle kwemvakalelo yokulahlwa, kwimeko leyo umntwana angayiqonda kuba umzimba wakho uyayihambisa.
Ngaba ndiyabamamela xa bendixelela?
Unokufumana umntu othanda iintsomi kunye neentsomi, ewe, azisekelwanga kubo nabuphi na ubungqina:
- Umkhuluwa akawuthathi ubisi kancinane: kukho ubisi lomntu wonke. Isikhongozelo ngumzi-mveliso hayi indawo yokugcina izinto, khumbula?
- Awuzukuhlupheka kukungondleki ngokuncancisa ezimbini ngaxeshanye: yitya usempilweni kwaye wahlukile, kwaye usele ngaphezulu kwawo onke amanzi akunika amanzi kwaye akuncede uzive ungcono.
- Akukho nto izakwenzeka kusana olungekazalwa ngenxa yokuba omnye umntwana wakho esancancisa, kwaye akukho ngxaki.
- Izigulo ezifunyenwe ngunyana omkhulu aziyi kuchaphazela enye: kwaye ukuba ziyakwenza oko iya kuba kukumnika ukhuseleko.
Ukugqiba kunye malunga nokuma: ungayamkela umbhoxo ombini, uwele, ulele ngecala nomntwana emandlalweni uze ubambe, nasemqolo nangemiqamelo yabantwana bakho ukuba bayame ngayo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba uyithandile, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke kunokuba luncedo. Ngokwenyani ukuba kukho intlonipho ngezidingo zabantwana ngokweminyaka yabo, kwaye nomama uzikhathalele kwaye "uzikhathalele", zombini ukuncancisa okuninzi kunokwenzeka (amawele / amawele, kathathu) kufana nokuncancisa tandem.
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